She is asking me for money now

[Mark33]

... in response to So don't date a hot latina?, posted by cancunhound on Aug 23, 2003

Sure you can date a hot foreign girl. But try for one over 25 at least. Also, the less "money" problems she and her family have, the better. A gorgeous woman with a family plagued with money problems should be a huge red flag. Is she marryingyou because she loves you or as a way out of poverty?
  Will she be using you as a sponser for a green card or will she love you till the end?
  If she is from a family who can basically take care of themselves well,and have good jobs most likely she is sincere.
    MArk

[elcolombiano]

... in response to Re: So don't date a hot latina?, posted by Mark33 on Aug 23, 2003

She is over 25. She is 31.

[jim c]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Haven't you ever been marrie..., posted by DOMINGUIN on Aug 23, 2003

Dom

Some of us have had that kind of relationship and when we look back, it makes our life a success. As you know, nothing lasts forever but having that in your memory makes it worth being born.   An intelligent and moving post!!! jimc

[luvslife]

... in response to She is asking me for money now, posted by elcolombiano on Aug 22, 2003

How well do you know her?  You did say "fiancée" so I would imagine that the two of you are serious.  It seems strange that now that you have become serious your only means of communicating with her (the phone) is now under threat of being turned off if you don't send money.  My feeling is that you must decide if you want the relationship or not.  If you do, you might want to have a conversation about money.  Let her know how you feel about sending it, what circumstance are acceptable or not acceptable.  Don't be suprised if you receive a request for money following that conversation, using one of the acceptable circumstances as the reason.  You would then have to evaluate the motives behind your fiancées interest in you.  Personally, money is a means to an end.