Let them wait.....for a while!

[beenthere]

... in response to Let them wait.....for a while!, posted by HansErich on Aug 13, 2003

Hans,
With all due respect, you must realize that it is very difficult, if not impossible, for Colombian women to just "take a day off" from work whenever they want.  In Colombia unemployment is very high.  Anyone will tell you that having a job is a privilege to many.  Not to mention the lost wages, which may not be much to you, but maybe to her and her family is alot.  If this women goes to her boss and asks for a day off, he'll say forget it.  There's another eager woman ready to take her place.
I've read many of your posts Hans, you seem like a great guy, but you are also very cynical in your approach.  I think you shouldn't expect so much out of these women, especially considering the fact that you haven't met them in person.  Don't give too much credence to meeting someone over the internet.  Of course these women are e-mailing other guys, you have to expect that.  Why should they be loyal to you, when they haven't even met you??  Also many of these women probably have the same cynical attitude towards foreign men.  How many have been lied to???  Probably many.
I think you'll have more success with an agency, or more than likely on your own, since you speak Spanish.  Just try to be a little easier on the women, and don't expect so much.
Take care..........

[HansErich]

... in response to Re: Let them wait.....for a while!, posted by beenthere on Aug 13, 2003

ok ok....maybe i am getting paranoid!!
I just go there and see what happens.

But still I think it is better to have some "back-ups" before you go.

Some women just stopped emailing.....why?? I don't know.
I always am polite and very romantic.

I think they loose intrest VERY quicly!

btw would you even consider sending $$$ to a girl that you know for a week through the internet??

I will never do this.

I know there are many ways to take holidays form latin women. They even can take UNPAID holidays. Maybe not 3 weeks...but sure a week or so.
I even suggested to REFOUND her pay whcih she looses!!
STill she won't do it.
So I guess they are not realy intrested in me.

About agencies:

They CAN be good.....but they also CAN be bad.
I KNOW there is a lot of RIFRAF among the agency female popultaion.
Yes even down right Prostitutes...golddiggers...party girls.

I think you know that too.

I will keep everybody posted when I hit Colombia.

bye

hans-Erich.