SNAP,
Since you seem to know it all and you think that we are clueless, I am curious... what, based on your first hand experience in SA, can be of most use to us. What are the women like? How many have you dated and where? What is your relationship to Aaron? Have you two been to Brazil together?
I'm 42 years old, full head of hair, no wrinkles, in shape, tall, blue eyes, look like I'm 35. I'm a gentleman, romantic, love people and learning about new cultures, I'm of good character, etc, etc, etc. The women I've met in SA think that I'm the best thing since sliced bread. I've had to fight 'em off like flies!!! 
My fiancee tells me that if I was fat and balding, she would still love me. Although looks are certainly important to SA women, it's not the primary attribute they look for in a man. Number one is faithfulness, respectfullness, character, etc. If you've been to SA, you would know what most of the men there are like in regards to women. She saids they are unfaithful (one women for everyday of the week), lazy, irresponsible, ugly (to her), extremely jealous, abusive, etc. She does not hide the fact that she is looking for a better life in the US, but that is not important to her outside of having a good man to share it with.
Please post some usefull information if you dare...else I find you to be an ignorant person more intent on acting like a child than behaving like a man who has some useful information to share on this board which is why it is here in the first place.
Tim.
