Boogta #4

[DOMINGUIN]

Hello from Bogota #4.

This is in response to Calipro's request for a trip report.  I made some "comments" about his attitudes and I fundamentally disagree with him on just about everything coonected to his ideas of relationships with women.  But to his credit, he shrugged it off, stayed friendly and I give him high marks for that. It was my first (hopefully last) flame and I'm really not the kind of guy who does that.  The pictures of his ex-wife were "something", lets just leave it at that, I don't want to get into anothe "posting fandango."

But, you know maybe Calipro has a point.  I think I've mentioned that I'm 50 about 5"10, 240 lbs.  But two days ago I met this terrific 20 year old with the sexiest mouth and amazing body. She told me that she wants a mature man....Not!!!!, Just kidding, couldn't resist it!

I went to the bullfight this afternoon with my guide Julio, a 30 year old guy.  He hasn't tried to work me.  When we met I told him that I was interested in seeing churches and museums, not whorehouses and so we've driven around during the days in his little Fiat.  He drives like a crazy man, but then so does everyone else.  A Portland city traffic cop could make his monthly ticket quota in about 20 minutes here.  

It rained on and off, most of the bulls didn't want to cooperate, and the matadors didn't take many chances.  One kid got bumped by the bull and fell down as the bull went through the muleta, the crowd booed him.  There was only one decent fight where the crowd built up a rolling "ole" rhythm.  A lot of stuff got thrown into the arena.

I've now met 14 women in 9 days, I've liked four, I'm still not in love! One woman I met that was suggested by the agency was 37, had a agorgeous heart shaped face and a beautifully proportioned body,  But she was 4'9" and 92 lbs or so, I never checked her height and weight!  I was surprised when I saw her, but I hope I hid it, was a gentleman and I refrained from calling her short stuff."  We had coffee and chatted for 45 minutes, that was all.

I have a dinner and dancing date in an hour, a third meeting, and second dinner with a very attractive 5'7" auburn haired fashion designer, (MC) great bown eyes.  She is 41, maybe 115 lbs, a but thin for me but with a wonderful laugh.  We went out to dinner on Thursday night, at the end of the night in the cab, she leaned into me and really kissed me, I hadn't even made a move other then to hold her hand when we talked at dinner. We stayed locked for a nice 3-4 minutes or so, and it was the most forward thing any Latina has done in 9 days.

We've talked about serious topics, she has a 9 year old, has a brother and sister and their families also living in the area Bogota.  She is divorced, the husbaNd is "gone", that is all she said "gone."  She did ask me how long I was planning on being in town and if I had planned to meet other women. I told her the truth, told her that I was planning on meeting other women and since she was a member of the agency, she should do whatever she wanted unless we made commitments to each other.  I like her, and the attraction is there but its not overwhleming.

So long from Bogota

DOMINGUIN

[Calipro]

... in response to Boogta #4, posted by DOMINGUIN on Jun 14, 2003

I was wondering why you mentioned whorehouses. I have to admit I don't know much about Bogota from a single mans perspective as I have only been to Bogota 4 times and 3 of them were with my wife or fiancee.

Was your driver offering to take you to whorehouses? Is there a perception that that's the reason guys are going down there or what?

[Red Clay]

... in response to Boogta #4, posted by DOMINGUIN on Jun 14, 2003

Hmmm, my wife is 4'9", and about 92#. Works for me and imagine what the gringas gordas are thinking.

[DOMINGUIN]

... in response to Re: Boogta #4, posted by Red Clay on Jun 16, 2003

Red Clay:

I didn't mean to imply that there is something wrong with short women and there was no disrepect of your wife's physique intended.  All I was saying that at 5'10 and 240 lbs., for me there was no physical chemistry with a woman who was 4'9 and 90 lbs and she probably felt the same way about me.  I made no reference to her appearance and she did not refer to mine.  But in addition to my not feeling any physical appeal, her personality and mine would not have meshed.  I made sure to establish that in my mind, I'm not that shallow!  At the end of the conversation, I wished her success and happiness in her life and that was it.  I'll have another trip report in the next couple of days

Dominguin

[Red Clay]

... in response to Re: Re: Boogta #4, posted by DOMINGUIN on Jun 16, 2003

No offense taken, I was just thinking aloud. My wife has a heck of a hard time finding clothes to fit her here. Warmer coastal areas seem to have her size, where people show their bods more. And yes, she is amazed at all the fatties here.

[Michael B]

... in response to Re: Boogta #4, posted by Red Clay on Jun 16, 2003

M. is 5' 2" 132lb 99-66-99 (39-26-39) works for me! (I like them with the right curves in the right places)

Speaking of 'gringas gordas'...I sent her a couple of off the shelf bikinis (from the US), she has to 'mix and match'...if the bottom fits ('medium'), the top is 4 or 5 inches too small. If the top fits ('large') the bottom won't even stay on. She wants to know 'do all AW have a flat chest and a big butt?'

[Red Clay]

... in response to Re: Re: Boogta #4, posted by Michael B on Jun 16, 2003

Nice round numbers, there.

[Red Clay]

... in response to Re: Re: Boogta #4, posted by Michael B on Jun 16, 2003

Nice round numbers, there.

[Calipro]

... in response to Boogta #4, posted by DOMINGUIN on Jun 14, 2003

Dominguin:

You don't have agree with me about anything and it won't effect my opinion of you. From the little that we talked on the phone you seemed like an articulate and intelligent guy.
But, I think it is illogical to come to the conclusion that I suffer from a narcissistic personality based on my choice of women. What if I was only sexually attracted to black women, I'm sure there are a lot of hillbillies out there that would said I suffer from low self esteem. You see were this is going, no where.

I'll leave you with one thought. Do you think a 50 year old 5' 10" 240lb Colombian guy with the ability to marry and maintain a women would marry a 35+ year old women with a child? With few exceptions they would not. What you are looking for is basicly what most Colombian guys do not want so in my opinion you should be able to get it.

If you are looking for a hot teenager or early twenty something model, you are going to be competing head to head with a lot of Colombian guys that want the same thing and you are going to have more contact with them than most of you guys could or would care to deal with.

The difference between women in Bogota and in Cali is significant and if they are turning their noses up to you, I suggest you come on over to Cali. I'll help you out anyway I can. Remember I'll be in Cali on the 26.

[Michael B]

... in response to Boogta #4, posted by DOMINGUIN on Jun 14, 2003

Divorced? or 'Seperacion de Cuerpos' (legally seperated)? Colombia didn't HAVE divorce until 1995 or 1996, before then it was 'Seperacion de Cuerpos'. Why do I bring this up? Because (just in case you get serious about her) INS (BCIS) will NOT accept 'Seperacion de Cuerpos' and it's going to cost you at least a grand to get her a divorce if the husband is nowhere to be found and/or uncoopertive...I had to do that for my lady, but she's worth it...anyway, good luck and keep the reports comming.