A trip to Cali photos.

[Calipro]

I reposted the pictures on a different site and they look a little better too. Below is the link:

http://www.picturetrail.com/gallery/view?p=999&gid=2176430&uid=1152368&members=1

[snap38]

... in response to A trip to Cali photos., posted by Calipro on May 29, 2003

What happened to this conversation.  It went off on a tangent.  What happened to the posting of links to pictures you all have taken in the past?

[Calipro]

... in response to Re: A trip to Cali photos., posted by snap38 on May 30, 2003

The drama queens took over. It happens a lot around here!

[cancunhound]

... in response to A trip to Cali photos., posted by Calipro on May 29, 2003

You must be lucky to have found the 1 in 1000 calena that's not the jealous type!  (Those bed shots would be history in my castle)

[Calipro]

... in response to Wife lets you keep those?, posted by cancunhound on May 29, 2003

I wouldn't exactly say I was lucky. I cancelled my wife's visa process two days before she was to receive her visa. Remember my analogy of colombianas. They are like monkeys. They never let go of one branch until they have a good hold on another. Lets just say she hung on to two branches way to long.

[Bubba]

... in response to Re: Wife lets you keep those?, posted by Calipro on May 29, 2003

I thought you said in one of the other posts that you married her?  If so then why was she holding on to anything? Please explain a little if you can. Thanks

[Pete E]

... in response to I thought you married her?, posted by Bubba on May 29, 2003

To get to the point of getting her visa in 2 days he would have already married her and did the first interview at the embassy in Bogota.Any woman still hanging on to another at this point should be dumped.Fortunately he found out before she got the visa,or she could travel here without him and cause problems for him in the US.He can probably get anullment in Colombia,better than a divorce later.
Better to find out sooner than later.Before the wedding would have been better yet.
If in doubt,don't marry them yet would seem to be a good policy.Sounds like there was big time deception.Finding out if you are being decieved is part of the decision process.If there are stories and actions that don't jive its a red flag.Don't proceed unless you  are confident of her.But mistakes are made.Our judgement can be impaired by the beauty of the girl you are dealing with.

Pete

[Calipro]

... in response to I thought you married her?, posted by Bubba on May 29, 2003

I did marry her. Why she continued to see her boyfriend after we married I don't know. It was very stupid on her part.

I did hack into her e-mail account and read some letters. It appears she was going to come to the US and live with me but in fact she was in love with this guy and basicly told hime goodby but that eventually she dreamed of returning to Colombia and living with him. I know this all sounds really stupid but you have to remember that she is only 19 years old.Three months after she was here she would have forgot all about this guy. So, this in and of its self would not necesarily make me divorce her, believe it or not. I may not be the most faithful guy in the world myself, but at least, I'm not a hipocrit.

This is a really long story and I'm not sure how sharing it will really help anybody. Also telling it correctly will not exactly portray me in the best light.

I will just let you know that the real reason that I dumped her was because her boyfriend was threating me by phone 2 to 3 times a day and he knew just about everything about me like where I work, home address and numbers to my cel phones.I tried to warn the guy that it was very stupid of him to be calling me on the phone daily telling me that he was going to send someone by my house to kill me when for the same price I could send 10 - 15 guys to his house in Cali. The only problem was I didn't know where he lived at the time and my wife (if you can call her that) tried to protect him and that is why I dumped her.

I'll tell you guys what I told her. I said the only thing I will promise you is that I will not kill you or beat you, everthing else is fair game.

In the end, vengence was mine. I think I have dispelled any notion that americans are weak and that they'll take anything laying down at least in her family anyway. Sorry to say they just picked the wrong guy to mess with and I'll be real suprised if they of you guys find her in a marriage agency again.

[wizard]

... in response to Re: I thought you married her?, posted by Calipro on May 29, 2003

How did you hack her email account??? Was it a hotmail or yahoo account???

Just curious...

[Calipro]

... in response to Re: Re: I thought you married her?, posted by wizard on May 29, 2003

I never could guess what her password was so I had find the answer to question: What is your favorite place?
Why? Are you thinking about hacking into your girlfriends e-mail?

[wizard]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: I thought you married her?, posted by Calipro on May 29, 2003

Thanks,

I was just curious... I'm in the IT business and when someone hacks an account it interests me... There are lots of ways to monitor computer activity... Guessing the answer to a person's "secret question" is one way to hack an account, but then you usually will have to change the password for that account... Therefore tipping off the account owner...

I was married in Bogota a few weeks ago and my wife is on her way to the US in a few days... Plus, I have no reason to suspect her of any unsavory activity... No old boyfriends threatening to kill me...

Good Luck...

[Pete E]

... in response to Re: I thought you married her?, posted by Calipro on May 29, 2003

You would have went for it if the boyfriend was less aggresive?
Be carefull ,your judgement is letting you down.

Pete

[Calipro]

... in response to Re: Re: I thought you married her?, posted by Pete E on May 29, 2003

I really don't know how the boyfriend could have been more aggresive except to have been sucessful in killing me. The thing that really killed my feelings for her was when she tried to protect him. I had a hell of a time finding him.

[cancunhound]

... in response to Re: I thought you married her?, posted by Calipro on May 29, 2003

Did you manage to officially wrap up the marriage - seems like a sharp scammer could really create some hastles for you if it was not offically terminated?  Damn, possibilities are endless (sue for child support, etc..).  Sorry to hear about your bad luck.

[beenthere]

... in response to Was is annulled?, posted by cancunhound on May 29, 2003

Are you sure it was CaliPro's bad luck???  Sounds self inflicted to me.  A "Pro" wouldn't make the mistakes he did.