A trip to Cali photos.

[cancunhound]

... in response to Re: She will want it as bad as you, posted by Calipro on May 29, 2003

"The boyfriend is out of the picture I'm quite sure"

[Pete E]

... in response to She will want it as bad as you, posted by Bubba on May 29, 2003

I have seen them demand money to cooperate in the divorce.You are gringo big bucks,right?
And who said her boy friend is going to marry her?Better to get them after they have been f---ed over by a Colombian.They need to be real tired of toy boy losers before they are ready to get married.This Colombiana has obviously not gotten to that point.
Go for the annulment.Get the right lawyer.But that can be as hard to find as the right Colobiana,maybe more.I have had them take money and never get aroung to doing anything.
Check with Gary Bala,he just posted above.He should be able to tell you if an annulment is possible,and maybe knows a Colombian lawyer you can trust.

Pete

[Calipro]

... in response to Yeah but - - , posted by Pete E on May 29, 2003

I already have a lawyer in Cali that will take care of it for $300.

The funny thing is when you hack into someones e-mail account you get all their contacts to.

After I sent a bunch of very personal photos of my wife and I together to her boyfriend and family, I don't really know how her boyfriend could ever kiss her the same way again. The last I talked to her sister, she was going to need thearapy or something.

[thundernco]

... in response to Re: Yeah but - - , posted by Calipro on May 29, 2003

Classic, very nice!

[Bubba]

... in response to Re: Yeah but - - , posted by Calipro on May 29, 2003

That sounds good, a woman who had 2 guys to chose from and couldn't now has the same 2 guys reject her. That's really hard on the ego on any 19 year old.

[Mark33]

... in response to Way to go!, posted by Bubba on May 29, 2003

Hate to say this, but what do you really expect from a 19 year old girl? You said yourself that 3 months away from her boyfriend and she would forget him.
 In other words what you are actually saying is that a 19 year old does not really have deep feelings of love. She can easily be swayed in love. She really was just a child.Not ready for a relationship like many of us if we were 19. Contrary to rumor,these girls are not that much more mature than a 19 year old American girl.
   Good example of why men should steer clear of women under 25. I am 33 and I accidently dated a latin woman in the U.S who ended up being 19!!!!!!!.(She lied and told me she was 26,because I told her my age rule.) She reminded me quickly why I made that rule in the first place.She was doing what most 19 year olds do. Dressing for attention,wanting to go to clubs(must have used fake ID),wanting so much sex,only an 18 year old boy could have satisfied her,and living at home with Mom and Dad. Boy was I ever stupid!But as soon as I found out, I dumped her. First off for lying,second because I started getting really bored with her empty head.

[Calipro]

... in response to Way to go!, posted by Bubba on May 29, 2003

I really don't like beating up on a 19 year old girl and her family but there was no way I was going to let her get away unpunished.Plus they made things a lot harder on themselves by not listening to me. I begged other people in her family to step in and let me know where this guy lived or worked and they wouldn't.

It wasn't until I hit them in the pocket book before they would return the wedding ring and computer. It would have been so easy for them to cough this guy up and return a few things and be done with me.

My wife really ended up costing her whole family a lot of grief and I can't imagine what her relationship is like with them now.

They must have though I was a really nice quy or full of crap (and I'm neither)or they would have given her better advice.

[beenthere]

... in response to Re: Way to go!, posted by Calipro on May 29, 2003

Why would you want to know where this guy lived or worked???

[Calipro]

... in response to just curious, posted by beenthere on May 29, 2003

If someone knows where I live and I work and they are threating me 2 or 3 times a day that they are going to send someone by my house to kill me,I personally have a great desire to know where they live and work.If I hadn't found him he would probably still be a problem to this very day.

[Pete E]

... in response to Re: just curious, posted by Calipro on May 29, 2003

So you found him and he is no longer a problem?We probably don't want to know any more here but I would avoid getting caught up in the life is cheap thinking of some Colombians.
And your real problem was the girl.If she was having anything to do with him you don't want her so you don't need to worry about him.Get the hell away from both of them.
Its easier to just leave when it start getting this bad.Why get caught up in other peoples negative lives if there is nothing in it for you?

Pete

[Calipro]

... in response to Sounds ominous, posted by Pete E on May 29, 2003

No really all that ominus. Its just a completely different ball game when you are threating someone who doesn't know where you are and when they know exactly where you are. He was always threating to send his friends over to my house. Well he actually got to meet mine. Well they aren't exactly friends ex-inlaws to be exact. Anyway he got the picture. It's much better to threaten people who DON'T know where you live.

I wish I could just have walked away when things started to go south. It would have been cheaper anyway. But, I do get some kind of sick enjoyment out of punishing people that thought they could mess with me and get away with it.

Anyway thats all behind me now. All I need to know is if I need to stay married to get my cedula extranjera or if I can get divorced right away.

The party starts June 26th. I'll be in Cali at least until the 14th of July so if any of you guys want to meet up while I'm in Cali just drop me a line.

[Michael B]

... in response to Re: Sounds ominous, posted by Calipro on May 29, 2003

I'll send my regrets on attending your party. Nothing personal, I just wouldn't 'feel lucky' standing next to you. Anybody know what the current price for a 'two men on a motorcycle' job is these days?

[Calipro]

... in response to You've got to be kidding, posted by Michael B on May 29, 2003

I'm not kidding and I think he got the point. You can't let these guys push you around. Why do you think he hasn't threatened me since?

Don't worry no offense taken for not taking me up on the party invite.

If you are scared of two men motorcycle job I probably won't be seeing you around Cali anytime soon anyway.

[Pete E]

... in response to You've got to be kidding, posted by Michael B on May 29, 2003

More or less,could be cheaper under some circumstanses.
So it doesn't pay to p!ss anyone off.Just walk away from it.What goes around comes around.Be carefull in a place like Colombia,especially if you are thinking of living there for awhile.

Pete

[beenthere]

... in response to $200, posted by Pete E on May 29, 2003

I agree with Pete.............CaliPro, with all due respect, I think you're barking up the wrong tree with your attitude and behavior in Colombia.  I've always believed that when someone is in a foreign country, he should be on his best behavior; it's a matter of respect.  We are guests there and should behave as such.  More importantly, this isn't just any foreign country, it's Colombia........not a good idea to make enemies there or get a bad reputation.  Believe me, it's a small world, word spreads.  And you are even thinking of moving there???  Good Luck.
There are so many available women there, it's hard to believe someone would be so hung up on some "little girl" to want to have her Colombian boyfriend "taken care of".
I think maybe you've been spending too much time watching the Sopranos.
I'll be in Cali June 18-30, but unfortunately, I too will have to say "NO" to your invitation.