Is lying the national pastime in Colombia

[Cali vet]

... in response to Re: Is lying the national pastime in Col..., posted by cancunhound on May 15, 2003

I was wondering about that. I suspect Elcolombiano was refering to a weekend night. Wednesday night at a disco would, from what I've seen be very unusual.

[Kit]

... in response to Re: Is lying the national pastime in Col..., posted by cancunhound on May 15, 2003

That is right. The last thing you want is to hook up with some party animal. If something is of importance to her, she will do it, otherwise she will do something else. You make a conclusion. That is one of the reasons I pass on so many girls in Cali. If I dont feel there is a reciprocation I move on.

[HeyNow]

... in response to Re: Re: Is lying the national pastime in..., posted by Kit on May 15, 2003

On one trip to Colombia I remember meeting an older (about 60)wealthy guy at an agency.  He spoke fluent Spanish.  This guy told me his method of getting the truth.  He would ask a girl for a second date after the cita, and then would say, "if you say no, I won't go to the fourth floor and jump, just let me know if you would like meet with me again."  Most of the time he could get the truth with this method. Some wanted to meet again and some didn't.