Curious to why Guys that can't write nor

[greg]

speak Spainish choose non English speaking Latinas over beautiful English speaking Filipinas. What are your Pros and Cons dating Filipinas and traveling to the Philippines?? Thanks for sharing your experience.

[Kit]

... in response to Curious to why Guys that can't write nor..., posted by greg on May 19, 2003

I am probably one of the few here (if not the only one) who tried it all (Philippines,East Europe, and now LA). The reason I pass on Filipinas is their conservative behaviour and lack of femininity. No comparison with latinas in terms of how they dress, take care of themselves and behave. Character wise Filipinas are very nice though.

[lswote]

... in response to Curious to why Guys that can't write nor..., posted by greg on May 19, 2003

Well my only reason would be that I am not attracted to oriental looking women.  I like busty women and it is pretty rare to see a busty oriental women.

I married a Latin woman who didn't speak English and I did't speak Spanish (at least at the time we met this was true, we both are learning each others languages now), so my remarks are not just hypothetical.

[greg]

... in response to Re: Curious to why Guys that can't write..., posted by lswote on May 19, 2003

hehe..Kinda difficult finding  Asian women with round bubble Butt and large BooBs, thats what I like about the Latinas. I work out at the Gyms among Filipinas and Asians, what I notice is their beautiful face, hair and nice shapely leggs. Looking at the Latinas at Gym I like looking at their face, nice bubble butt, leggs, large bloobs(total package). Soooo Iswrote, would you agree with other Guys that most Latinas carry Hot temper tantrums??? Thats a consern, becuz I wouldn't want a hot temper women that blows up over petty stuff.

[Patrick]

... in response to Iswrote, How true, posted by greg on May 19, 2003

I think you're making a mistake by trying to catagorize women into bins.   There are stereotypes about a lot of different ethnicities and cultures, but in every population there's going to be a broad range of behaivour.  If you're concerned about a woman being too hot tempered, get to know her specifically.  These aren't mass produced people, they're all individuals.

[greg]

... in response to Curious to why Guys that can't write nor..., posted by greg on May 19, 2003

Is it true that Latinas have Hooooooot tempers?? I know that Guys would feel ashamed to admit that they have been abused by their Calenas..Soooo what about it? Do most Latinas have the habit of hitting and slapping the Guy during their hoooot temper fits??? This is somthing that us Newbees should know about latinas becuz their beauty is blinding lol

[Wayne11]

... in response to Latinas are Stunning, very beautiful..Te..., posted by greg on May 19, 2003

Greg,

My wife and I have been married for about a year and a half.

Her lousy temper has been a problem that she has had to learn to control.  Petty crap and temper tantrums.  But never any physical.

It has gotten better, but I have had to be very very strong and just let her know that I will absolutely not put up with any abusive behaviour in our relationship.

She has almost gone back to Colombia during tantrums at least 5 times.  I did not see this early on and that was my mistake.

Don't get me wrong, she is a good women and things are good, but upbringing always effects later relationships.

All of these women are different, but I think if a guy is generally too weak, they are asking for trouble.  Latinas seem to like a little stronger personality.

Wayne

[wizard]

... in response to Re: Latinas are Stunning, very beautiful..., posted by Wayne11 on May 20, 2003

True, latinas live in a male dominated society and frequently have to display outbursts of emotions to make a point... Huge generalization, but in many cases, true... It does take a strong man to weather the storm sometimes and to not fall into the "battle" that a hair trigger temper may precipitate...

My wife has never displayed a "temper tantrum"... When she gets mad, she gets very quiet... Then she will try to convey why she is upset... That is, once she calms down... Maybe this is just the calm before the storm, but I think this is her nature...

Making any kind of generalization about the temperment of women is dangerous, as everyone is an individual...

my 2 cents

[lswote]

... in response to Latinas are Stunning, very beautiful..Te..., posted by greg on May 19, 2003

My wife is from Bogota and doesn't have a temper.  In fact we had our first real argument when I yelled at her when she was learning to drive (it wasn't an abusive yell, rather it was "stop...  Stop!... STop!... STOP!!!").  She doesn't like raised voices and while she is getting used to me yelling occassionally, she doesn't like it.  Occassionally when we have disagreements she will speak Spanish more rapidly Spanish than I can understand and will not listen to what I have to say, but I could say the same for myself (only English of course).

[DallasSteve2]

... in response to Curious to why Guys that can't write nor..., posted by greg on May 19, 2003

I think many Filipinas are attractive, too.  I even wrote to some Filipinas many years ago.  However, Latin America is much closer.  (And I speak Spanish anyway).

Steve

[Calipro]

... in response to Curious to why Guys that can't write nor..., posted by greg on May 19, 2003

I guess beauty is in the eye of the beholder. If I thought filipinas were beautiful I'd travel to the Philipines also.
Below is the direction to a web site with pictures of caleñas (women from cali).

http://www.caliescali.com/modelos_anteriores.php3

Maybe you can enlighten me and post the URL of a web site with pictures of beautiful filipinas. I have to admit I am a little ignorant about the Philipines and I don't think I have ever seen a Philipine model. I'm sure there are beautiful ones I just haven't seen one yet.

[greg]

... in response to Re: Curious to why Guys that can't write..., posted by Calipro on May 19, 2003

I understand why you seek a lovely Latina. I'm asking Guys that have no clue about Spainish to why they seek a Woman that Knows no English. Maybe the Guy didn't realize that he could find countless available English speaking sweet Filipinas. I'm just curious if those Guys gave Filipinas a chance before settling on Latinas. Calipro, check out any Filipina websites, they are full of model types. You just wouldn't find any on sites in bathing suits, Pinays aren't the kind to show off their bodies, most are very humble women. Would be good to hear from Guys that been involved in both cultures..their Pros and Cons in the Filipino culture. My opinion is that both Filipinas and Latinas are very stunning women. Guys label Latinas as Hooooooot temper, I've yet to ever meet a Pinay with a temper. Can Guys Generalize that most Latinas are hot tempered??? Seem like most Guys that seek to find and be found by Love and Happiness aboard label Latinas as one of the most beautiful ladies on earth, buuuuuut their temper can be a problem for the peaceful Guy.

[papa suave]

... in response to Calipro, since you Speak Spainish, posted by greg on May 19, 2003

I have been stationed in Central America (Panama) and have been to the Philipines for a total of around 6 months on various TDY's (military business trips)and for me it is just a personal preference. There are a great deal of very attractive filipinas. Having been in the military for 9 years I have met a lot of guys with Filipina wives. They seem like good women, but they don't seem to age very well. Maybe these situations were rare, but the 10 or 12 filipina wives of friends I have met seemed to age significantly after 35 or so. Maybe I'm wrong on the aging thing, I don't really have enough experience other than those few occasions.

Like I said, for me it's just a personal preference. I'm sure most guys are concerned with the language barrier but those who are serious about finding a wife generally make the effort to learn Spanish at some point.

A trip to the Philipines is a grueling, long flight with several time zone changes. A trip to Colombia is a 3-3 1/2 hour flight from Miami. Many guys see this as an advantage. I don't know if the SARS epidemic has hit the Philipines yet, but that is an immediate concern.

Everyone has his own reasons why he prefers Latin America to Asia.

Why do you prefer the Philipines to Latin America basides the language issue? Have you been to Latin America?