... in response to You know what....., posted by Aaron on Apr 24, 2003In a debate for Virginia Governor long ago, Oliver North said, "I am the most investigated man on the planet." His rival retorted, "I imagine there is damn good reason for that..." Perhaps you get the connection with the first paragraph of your post.
We all have problems and I think that your basic dilemna is that you are a new age, liberal, Mr. Feelgood with the sensitive man syndrome. You mistakenly believe that women down south want a man like this. Well, I dont believe its the case. I think Latinas want the opposite. They dont want a guy that comes home and cries with them all the time. They want a guy who comes home, picks them up, slams them onto the bed and proceeds to pound the crap out of them all night......correct me if I am wrong but this has been my overwhelming experience. They are for the most part more simple and easy to please than their American counterparts. I really think you would do better with Russian women, they are more into those kinds of things that interest you. You also strike me as a guy that would do very well with liberal American broads.
As for the guys who bring women over on visas, what do you expect them to do? If you dont take the chance then when will you ever meet your wife? I have said before, as well as others, that this is absolutely the most difficult thing a guy will ever do and be successful at. There are going to be failure for most guys because normal relationships go on longer than the average one here before marriage. If you fail once, its no reason to stop unless you want to. If I failed twice then I would probably have to give it some serious thought.....
You say some guys will be half steppin for the next 5, 10, 15, etc. years........were you referring to yourself? Havent you been looking for five years? Whats the problem?
