the Cali temper

[cali outlaw]

Gentlemen, After almost 2 years of marriage to a wonderful Calean Lass, beware or the temper of these women, what a #@!$% balls, ddamn what a whirlwind.

I think the Oprah effect has hit her upon her discovery to the Land of the free, but a quick ticket to COL changed her mind,, hold fast on your believes and christian upbringing and they will change their mind, but be  careful, soft subject, take it of leave it, any input would be greatly apprieciated, Chao, Andy

[DaveyRich1]

... in response to the Cali temper, posted by cali outlaw on Apr 9, 2003

Andy
Whats up ? Hang in there man I have had one tantrum myself I have never seen anything like it it is crazy I will call you this weekend Zuleima arrived in Las Vegas on Sunday night I will talk to you Saturday
                          Take care
                                Davey

[Throw]

... in response to the Cali temper, posted by cali outlaw on Apr 9, 2003

To make a blanket statment that all or most girls from Cali are hot tempered is not accurate.  Certainly not my wife.  She is just the opposite.  Very open minded, not jealous.  And certainly does not bust my balls if I am going out with my friends.  She is very cool.  And she is your typical Cali girl, gorgeous, young and loves sexy but classy clothes...

[Yalg]

... in response to Re: the Cali temper, posted by Throw on Apr 10, 2003

We generalize all the time about most things in life because most of the time, in general, these things are true.  Guys here say all the time that the colombianas have the bubble butt.  Not all, but most do.  You can generally say most colombianas have, or have close to, a bubble butt.  Being around colombianas most of my life (I was raised next door to a big family from Bogota) and traveling to LA frequently I can tell you that when a latina gets angry, she has no peer in the female world.  Calenas even more so in my opinion.

[Yalg]

... in response to the Cali temper, posted by cali outlaw on Apr 9, 2003

Its a well known trait.  The girl who visited me from Cali with the tourist visa was morbidly jealous which led to violent temper tantrums.  I went so far as to even give her my hotmail password so she could see I had nothing to hide from her.  Big mistake.  One day a girl that I used to email over a year before decided to write me one day out of the blue and she invited me to chat with her.  Well, thats all she needed and she made up an elaborate story in her own mind that i was cheating on her and keeping my options open.  She started throwing things and nothing I could say or do could convince her that I was telling the truth, she wouldnt listen to any of it.  That was when I told her she needed to go back to Cali because she was making too many problems for me.  She then said, "oh, I know how to make a big problem for you. I will call the police and say you hit me."  That was the last straw for me.  I packed her stuff when she was in the shower and loaded it up in my car and took it to a hotel.  I came back and said if she wanted her belongings to come with me to the hotel and I would fix her ticket to depart the next day for Cali.  I dont believe this is atypical behavior for calenas, nor are all of them this way either.  Be careful, becasue once they are in your house, the game is up.  They can really mess up your life if they are so inclined.  I was lucky because I took dramatic action immediately and kind of freaked her out with the speed with which I dumped her after the threats.  This stuff happens, you better believe it......

[mudd]

... in response to Re: the Cali temper, posted by Yalg on Apr 10, 2003

so what happened, did she go back?

[Yalg]

... in response to Re: Re: the Cali temper, posted by mudd on Apr 10, 2003

She went back the next day, she didnt have a choice because she had no money.  She told me that she would "show me" when she got back to Cali.  I found out what she meant by that when I got a phone call from her one month later.  Some dude from Florida had gone to Cali and met her. He spent a weekend there and one week later she was on the plane to his house.  She called to try and rub it in or something by I could care less, especically when she told me about this guy and how he was so "in love with her."  I said yeah, hes in love with your sexual ability but thats about all.  I knew I was right because about one month after that she called again and started hinting around about seeing me and I told her she was dreaming.  You have probably seen her before, she was on alot of websites and had a killer body.  People used to stop and stare when we would go out because her butt was so perfect you could not believe it.  She had everything but she could not control her jealousy and it will probably destroy any relationship she gets in unless she settles for some dude who will just give her anything she wants and kiss her feet on a daily basis.  She told me in a moment of clear thinking that most of her friends were similar to her and that its like a kind of psychosis the women have there.  They fully expect men to cheat on them and they cant believe that you wont at some point.  Alot of women there are really dangerous and a man would be very wise to be careful, more than careful.....Some people say dont generalize but thats BS.  You can certainly generalize about most things and I can tell you that having a latina in your house who goes off on you is as scary as it gets for a guy because theres really nothing you can do about it.  They have you by the balls if they decide to inflict pain on you for some reason. The mere fact she knew how to make a problem for me is chilling in itself.  The girls talk down there and they have options.....

[valuedcustomer]

... in response to the Cali temper, posted by cali outlaw on Apr 9, 2003

My sweet tranquil novia from Santa Marta told me that the Cali chicas are all naturally high-spirited, coquetish, and have violent tempers.  Good luck.

[Aaron]

... in response to Re: the Cali temper, posted by valuedcustomer on Apr 10, 2003

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