... in response to yes we need real stories, posted by Pete E on Feb 25, 2003I had a cita with a beautiful mammacita!!!! Pete, she had an exceptional BB and a beautiful face. Friendly and very warm. We went out twice. The first time was in May 2002. The second time December 2002. She requested me for the first cita. I first thought she was out of my league.
Each time we went out there was allot of chemistry. Holding hands, rubbing knees. During the last time we were together, she asked me why I didn't keep in contact with her. I told her that I was too busy. But, during that last meeting the chemsitry was intense. I started to ask her the big questions:
1.) Was she serious with anyone. She said no.
2.) Was she corresponding with anyone. Another no.
3.) Did she want to get married quickly, in less than a year. She said no.
4.) Was there too much age difference. She said no. I'm 28, she's 32.
5.) Did she want to have children. She said yes.
6.) Where would she consider living in the USA. She said it didn't matter, but preferablly Florida or California.
She told me to call her because she want to spend more time with me. I said ok. I was starting to like her allot. She was being very flirtacious with me. I was being the same way with her.
I saw her in ChippiChappi Mall on Christmas Eve. She told me to call her to spend time together. I said ok.
Well, I had the secretary of the agency call her on Christmas. The woman told the secretary that she was writing another Colombian guy who lived in the USA. And that this guy all of a sudden surpised her by coming to Cali to visit her on Christmas Eve without prior notice. And that the guy proposed to her to get married. The woman also said that I was too young for her; and that she wanted to get married in less than a year, but I wanted to wait a year, and it was too long for her. She said all this to the secretary, then they stopped talking.
I was really disappointed in that woman because she wasn't honest in the beginning, but kept asking for me to call her to go out. She did a complete 180 degree turn. In a matter of 3 days.
So, I got a little annoyed, and complained a little after the call. But the next day, I met another woman who seems to have way better qualities.
When I called the secretary of the agency a month after I returned home from Cali. She asked me if I was still interested in the first lady who was dishonest with me. I said NOOOOO, and I asked her if she was with anyone. The secretary told me that the Colombian guy who came to visit her didn't work out with her. That he was too complicated, and the relationship didn't work out.
When I heard that, I just said I was sorry to hear that, but I didn't want to see the other woman ever again.
SOME GUYS MIGHT BE WONDERING WHY THIS IS SO IMPORTANT.
Well here is the reason. Part of me believes (but I could be wrong) that this woman didn't have anyone visiting her at all. But, she condured up some ficticious man who seemed serious about marrying her. And that she wanted to tell me that story to make me desperate so I would propose to her, thinking that I would propose out of fear that someone else would take her.
Guys searching for Latinas, many Latinas play this competition card to make the guys desperate and act out of jealously. Don't fall for it!!! I had a few girls play this game before. A good girl will never do that kind of thing, but a woman that wants to hook you will.
