Hoda and the "putabuscas"

[pack]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: No, it doesn't mean ..., posted by TexasRob on Dec 23, 2001

what is your problem TR..i didnt say any of those things...are you losing it...put the Bong down for a minute and take a deep breath...sheeesh!

[pack]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Re: No, it doesn't mean that..., posted by TexasRob on Dec 23, 2001

WHAT?

[Aaron]

... in response to Re: Re: No, it doesn't mean that all of ..., posted by TexasRob on Dec 23, 2001

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[Kenfer8]

... in response to Re: No, it doesn't mean that all of them..., posted by pack on Dec 23, 2001

I've read the FAQ's of some agencies where they bash the Colombian men in general.

And remember, for many of these girls it is a little shameful to join an agency in order to find a partner. They need a convincing story when the gringo asks: "why did you sign up with an agency?".

[pack]

... in response to I've read..., posted by Kenfer8 on Dec 23, 2001

well for a few it may be shameful , but most of them dont have a problem with it at all, infact alot of them have sisters , relatives and friends who follow their lead and join to.

[pack]

... in response to I've read..., posted by Kenfer8 on Dec 23, 2001

well  you just made my point for me...it is the girls who are saying it not the gringos or the agency owners. why the girls say it is actually unknown and who cares ...the point is it is the girls thatare saying these things about their own men.

[Kenfer8]

... in response to Re: I've read..., posted by pack on Dec 23, 2001


Some of the girls say it, some of the agencies say it...and they find eager gringo ears that post such claims on this board sometimes and other gringos that belive them.

[TexasRob]

... in response to Re: I've read..., posted by pack on Dec 23, 2001

Do you even know what a FAQ is on a website?  So you think the girls write the HTML code for the website or what?  How in the world did he make your point for you?

[pack]

... in response to Re: Re: I've read..., posted by TexasRob on Dec 23, 2001

are you feeling ok tonight TR ? what kinda questions are those?
1. yea i know what FAQ is
2. no..i never said that..i said the girls tell the guys and agency owners and they repeat what they have been told
3. he mde my point ..read it! i said: its the girls who say this about their men, in other words its the ladies who start the cycle the gringos and agency people just repeat what the girls have told them. kenfer said: that the girls say this to the gringo /agency to justify why they joined the agency. (same thing)

[Aaron]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: I've read..., posted by pack on Dec 23, 2001

Colombian women who have married gringos, but are now divorced admit that they will never marry another gringo again?

I'm sure there are more than a handful, but I'm sure you never thought about that possibility.

If you believe that a gringo is a better candidate for marriage than a Colombian or other Latin man just because of social and cultural reasons, then your being discriminatory and prejudice. It really doesn't matter where you get your source of information from whether it be from a Colombian person or another gringo.

Another thing is that any woman that thinks a gringo is a better candidate for marriage than Colombian or other Latin men just because of social and cultural reasons, then she has a major inferiority complex about her own people and herself.

I don't want a woman like that. You can have all those kind of mamacitas desesperadas.  

Aaron

[pack]

... in response to Pack, how many....., posted by Aaron on Dec 25, 2001

where do you get your information dude? i have met many girls who have devorced a gringo and turned right around and married another one...soo whats your point? i know gringos who have married and devorced colombianas ...then told me they would never even consider marrying a colombiana again ...then the next thing i know there they are in cali looking for another wife...sooo?

i never said a gringo was a better candidate...where do you come up with this stuff? you sure are fast to come out with words like discrimanation, etc...whats your problem...you are unbelievable...read your own rantings...you are the ONE  that is catagorizing and grouping  and judging people. you better slow down and drink some of that milk hoda talks about..sheeesh!

[Aaron]

... in response to Re: Pack, how many....., posted by pack on Dec 25, 2001

Ask youself the following question:

Is it stereotypical, discriminatory, and prejudice to believe that Colombian men are not suitable candidates for spouses?

The answer is YES IT IS, regardless of whoever makes this claim or where ever the source of information comes from.

These types of claims made by the agencies, and by some of the female members, are categorizing all Colombian males as abusers and womanizers.

And the men that believe these types of claims feed into this type of stereotypical thinking.

Aaron

[pack]

... in response to Pack, let me put it another way for you...., posted by Aaron on Dec 26, 2001

aaron you seem like a pretty nice guy with good intentions im sure ...but can i ask you a question? are you reading my posts and understanding them? am i not explaining myself clearly ? ....sheeeesh!

[TexasRob]

... in response to No, it doesn't mean that all of them are..., posted by Kenfer8 on Dec 23, 2001

That is more of a marketing ploy than anything else.  I work with guys who were born and raised in Colombia and they are great family men.  It is the same as "all American women are evil".  I prefer the looks and attitude of the girls in Colombia, but I also know that a good woman can be found here.  Yes, I think the odds are better in Latin America, but not every American woman and Colombian male are destined to be evil creations.

[Aaron]

... in response to Re: No, it doesn't mean that all of them..., posted by TexasRob on Dec 23, 2001

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