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Author Topic: Gerlie's Interview  (Read 4061 times)
Howard
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« on: August 03, 2004, 04:00:00 AM »

I had been holding off on making any kind of post for two reasons.  Mainly, I didn't wanna jinx anything by posting prior to Gerlie receiving her visa and I didn't wanna scare anyone with an interview scheduled.  I guess, after Harold's inquiry and a little thought on the subject, that now is as good a time as any to share Wink

The Medical was a breeze.  It was a long day, but easy enough.  She had to go back for the results on the following Monday, which made for a restless weekend Tongue  All in all, it worked out well.  Just like I knew it would Smiley

The interview was a NIGHTMARE!!!  She was interviewed by a Black guy in his mid to late 20's.  An American.  She said he was not the nicest guy in the world!  He spent most of his time complaining that my Annulment papers were not in order, which, of course, they were!  He was asking her all kinds of ridiculous questions about my Annulment, things that she would have no way of knowing.  After about 20 minutes on the phone with a supervisor or somthing he worked out his issues with my Annulment--without telling Gerlie everything was worked out--and sent her back to the waiting room to be called to room 35.

Gerlie didn't realize the importance of the date stamp on emails, when you're using them as evidence. She pasted all of my emails into a word doc and printed the doc.  This gave them 400 some emails over a two and a half year period, but nothing to substanciate the time frame.  When they called her name again, they gave her a form that told her they required more evidence and Email was what they asked for.

Luckily, she saved all the original email from me.  She just had to go to an internet cafe and reprint them all from Yahoo, so that the date stamp was on the email.  I apologized to her for not thinking and printing her's out with mine and sending them with the package I sent for her interview. I just totally didn't think about it!

Armed with 400 some emails, to add to the ones I sent that they accepted, she return on Monday July 26th for another interview.  This time the interviwer was a lady and nice.  She looked over her paperwork, the request for more evidence, the reprinted emails and said that she would receive notice in two or three weeks back in Davao.  Gerlie asked a couple of times if she was actually approved, which no one gave a straight answer to.

So that's where we stand.  She seems pretty confident from what others said, that were approved, that she is approved and will receive her visa in the next couple of weeks.  Me?  I'm pretty sure we met all the criteria and submitted a complete set of documents.  I KNOW we meet the requirements.  I am remaining guardedly optomistic and just praying my ASS off that she gets the Visa soon and we are reunited.  I miss her a GREAT deal and am SO ready to get on with our life as a married couple!!!

Keep the Faith Guys

Congrats to those you have recently been approved and those who are waiting for interviews are in our prayers Smiley

Your Pal,

H

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Dave H
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« Reply #1 on: August 07, 2004, 04:00:00 AM »

... in response to Gerlie's Interview, posted by Howard on Aug 3, 2004

Hi H & Gerlie,

I'm sure it will all go fine! Hang in there!

Big D

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Surigao Ken
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« Reply #2 on: August 04, 2004, 04:00:00 AM »

... in response to Gerlie's Interview, posted by Howard on Aug 3, 2004

n/t
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Stephen
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« Reply #3 on: August 03, 2004, 04:00:00 AM »

... in response to Gerlie's Interview, posted by Howard on Aug 3, 2004

adsf
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HaroldC
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« Reply #4 on: August 03, 2004, 04:00:00 AM »

... in response to Gerlie's Interview, posted by Howard on Aug 3, 2004

Demons can do that, you know.

His name is reported to be Sterling Pilley and apparently he gives a LOT of, seemingly unnecessary, grief:

http://asawa.org/asawa/viewtopic.php?t=5211

Regarding the annulment, Howard, he was way out of line. CIS had already ruled that you qualify to sponsor a fiancee by approving your petition and posts are not supposed to waste time readjucating such things.

400 emails! You realize, if something is submitted as evidence, they HAVE TO read it. No wonder she said weeks!

I still wonder why you and Ron didn't just go marry these ladies. I didn't MEET my wife until after you guys got engaged. hehehehe

Good luck, dudes. It won't be long until we are all in bliss.


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Howard
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« Reply #5 on: August 03, 2004, 04:00:00 AM »

... in response to Korean Lady has morphed into Black Guy! , posted by HaroldC on Aug 3, 2004

Sounds like the guy!

I had planned on the same course of action...  Waiting until she is safe here and then writing a STRONG letter of complaint to the Embassy, my congressman and anyone else who might have the power to do something about his attitude.

If the guy has questions, whatever.  I have no problem with him trying to do his job, but to make Gerlie cry--and she's tougher than most!--is just unacceptable and downright mean.

Thanks for the info Wink

HEY... what is AR?  That term isn't familiar to me

Keep the Faith

H

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