... in response to Re: k-1 visa question, posted by Ray on Feb 23, 2004Hi Ray thanks for the message. We both decided not to marry in Portugal because she did not want to do it there. Now it looks like we will go for the K1 and then later we can have a nice ceremony in Brazil for her family. I was the one that offered to her, to marry in Portugal but she was not as interested. I would not mind getting married in Brazil but I don't think she wants to wait for the paperwork to process without a job. She has a decent job in Lisbon so this is probably the best way, we file the papers while she stays working.
After I get get her status adjustment and she could go to Brazil to see her mother for a couple of months. She wants to go spend time with her after our marriage and I don't have a problem with it, and maybe she could set up a ceremony for us her, mother is pretty religious and knows some priests so we could always get married a second time but we wouldn't have to file paperwork for legality purposes. I know it sounds confusing but we all have this in some sort of way when you marry a foreigner.