Now What

[Don J]

My wife asked me what happens to her friend who recently came over on a K-1 Visa and the A-hole who brought her here changed his mind and tossed her out (after he took her virginity of course).

My answer to her was, I believe she will be forced to leave after the 90 day requirement. She moved to another state to stay with a relative after he kicked her out, I don't know if this will complicate things for her.

I can't tell how badly I like to kick this jerkoffs ass, I wish there was a way they could toss his ass in jail for something like this.

I would appreciated a response from anyone with experience or knowledge in this type of situation.

Regards
Don J

[Stephen]

... in response to Now What, posted by Don J on Nov 6, 2002

Aren't you glad she found out prior to marriage rather than marrying him and finding out that he's a jerk.

Perhaps she should count her lucky stars.

Just a thought.

I'm sorry to hear about this and I wish her the best.

Stephen

[Humabdos]

... in response to Now What, posted by Don J on Nov 6, 2002

Why would anyone go through all it takes to get her here only to throw her out? WHY did he change his mind? I find it a bit hard to believe he just changed his mind. Anyway that's what the fiance visa is for if things don't work out she is to return to the Philippines. If he abused her then that's a different story. It's unfortunate she gave up her virginity before marriage. Are you sure she didn't just come over to join her relative?

Humabdos

[donb2222]

... in response to And the rest of the story?, posted by Humabdos on Nov 6, 2002

I agree. It is difficult to know the truth after hearing only one side of the story. After I asked Vilma for a divorce, she called every person she could think of because
she wanted to make sure that the word got out that she was just an "innocent Filipina" being divorced by the big bad American.
 I try to take the high road and say nothing, but it gets really difficult when there is an immature, emotional woman out there speading half-truths and untruths.

Don

[Dave H]

... in response to And the rest of the story??, posted by donb2222 on Nov 6, 2002

Hi Don,

I married an 18 year old once, so I have a pretty good idea what you and some of the other guys here have gone through. I respect the fact that you're taking the high road. Hopefully,  the "real story" will be left off P-L by those who are friends of Vilma. Good Luck in the future!

Dave H.

[donb2222]

... in response to Re: And the rest of the story??, posted by Dave H on Nov 6, 2002

Hi Dave,
 Wow, an 18 year old!  You are far braver than me :0)
Thanks for the kind words, and the best of luck for you and your lucky wife.

Don

[Dave H]

... in response to Re: Re: And the rest of the story??, posted by donb2222 on Nov 6, 2002

Hi Don,

Thanks! After "raising" my ex (her 18, me 26 when married), she turned 30 and told me that she was just a kid when we married. Now grown up, she no longer wanted the same things in life as she did before. I think she was actually more mature at 18. LOL

Like you, I learned from my past mistakes. I'm sure that you will find that special person that adds to the joy and happiness in your life.  Now I am enjoying life to the fullest. Best wishes and luck to you!

Dave H.

[Humabdos]

... in response to And the rest of the story??, posted by donb2222 on Nov 6, 2002

Hi Don,

Yes, It would be nice to hear both sides but we rarely get to. 98% of the filipina in my home town won't even speak to my ex-wife because they know what she did.

How was Davao? I hope you got to eat up at Jacks Ridge or made the trip to Samal to paradise beach resort. Where you able to meet RGG?  HUMABDOS

[donb2222]

... in response to Re: And the rest of the story??, posted by Humabdos on Nov 6, 2002

Hi Hum,
 Who is RGG?  Davao was fun, it reminded me a lot of Cebu.
I did stay at the Regency, and it was a great value for the dollar (peso).  I was only there for 3 days, so I never did make it to Jacks or Samal, maybe next time.

Don