For all the women who read this board.

[Lori]

I was just thinking that this last week the board has been mostly about me and the failure of my marrage. I started to think that I might be scaring a few of you women away from trying to find an American husband.
I really believe that marrages between american men and asian women work better than if the women was American and the man was asian. Simply for the fact that maybe Aw's are alot more independant and strong willed. Obviosly asian men are used to ancient ways of marrage. And when you put the 2 together, you just might end up in world war 3.
These are just my thoughts. I just don't want to scare any of you away. I know you read this board. These men who come on here are genuinly looking for a lifetime commitment, and will not send you back in a heartbeat, like I am doing.
--LORI

[Mita]

... in response to For all the women who read this board., posted by Lori on Sep 22, 2002

The marriage was not your failure, never think of it that way.  It was the failure of one stupid man to recognize love when it came and more importantly, his failure to step up to the plate when his name was called.  
If anything, your experience has taught us all a lesson - be very careful who you choose to offer your heart and love to.
Mita

[donb2222]

... in response to Re: For all the women who read this boar..., posted by Mita on Sep 22, 2002

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[Ray]

... in response to For all the women who read this board., posted by Lori on Sep 22, 2002

Lori,

Don’t worry about scaring others away. I think that there are some people out there that Need to be scared away anyway :-)

Just tell your story from your own perspective and don’t worry about the reaction of others.

Just a thought: You should be able to file form I-812 with the INS and assign your deportation rights to Humabdos. I’m sure that he would gladly handle all the details for you for little or no compensation :-)

Ray

[Humabdos]

... in response to For all the women who read this board., posted by Lori on Sep 22, 2002

n/t