Why do you guys want a foreign mate?

[Nathan]

... in response to Re: Read and Learn, posted by alumnagirl on Sep 21, 2002

So what's your point? That American men who prefer Asian women and like myself are married to one, have it all wrong?
What Asian countries have you lived in anyway???
Most of us like what we like...you can try to understand it or not, but to argue that we are somehow "wrong" is kind of silly.

Nathan

[alumnagirl]

... in response to SO?, posted by Nathan on Sep 21, 2002

I've never lived there, but I've certainly spent time there.  The women I know who're from Hong Kong are label obessed.  If it isn't Prada or Chanel, then it's not for them.  Some go as far as buying knock-offs because they can't afford the real thing.  As far as I'm concerned, there are only two types of Chinese women:  Those who buy labels and dress (or shall I say, over-dress), and the housewives who go to the mall in oversized t-shirts and spandex.

[Nathan]

... in response to Hong Kong, posted by alumnagirl on Sep 22, 2002


  I too have visited Hong Kong and I have lived in Malaysia, Thailand and the Philippines. The Hong Kong Chinese are hardly typical of the Asians many of us are married to or seek. It is unlikely that you would understand or value the kind of relationships many men
seek, and it is even more unlikely that you will have
the kind of life experiences that focused those values.
You sound  unhappy that men would have the
freedom to go where they wish in the world and marry as
they wish. Think whatever you will, many of us will be too busy living and enjoying life with our Asian mates to care
if some women are unhappy that American men(or women) have the freedom to opt out of the dating game here in the USA.

Nathan

[Bob S]

... in response to Hong Kong, posted by alumnagirl on Sep 22, 2002

One of the new teachers at my school is a Chinese-American guy with family in Hong Kong.  His only experience with Chinese girls is with the girls of that metropolis, and it has totally turned him off all Chinese ladies.  He would prefer to find a Japanese GF or wife.  But people here have told me that Japanese women of Tokyo can be just as fashion obsessed (but it's with Louis Vuitton) and shallow.  And how is any of that different from image-conscious L.A.? (or New York or Moscow or any of the cities guys here visit.)  I think it's more of a big-city materialism we are all trying to avoid.

[Humabdos]

... in response to Why do you guys want a foreign mate?, posted by alumnagirl on Sep 21, 2002

Are you a filipina ?

Hum

[Jay]

... in response to Where are you from? , posted by Humabdos on Sep 21, 2002

If I'm correct, she is chinese.

[stefang]

... in response to Why do you guys want a foreign mate?, posted by alumnagirl on Sep 21, 2002

I don't have a Bachelors degree I must be stupid.

[Bob S]

... in response to Re: Why do you guys want a foreign mate?, posted by stefang on Sep 21, 2002

I have a Master's degree, am sweet/sensitive, and am semi-religious.  But I had a non-steady job (aerospace is definitely non-steady nowadays) and am not from the right family (come from a long line of poor Okies, no East Coast blue-bloods in my lineage).  Looks like we're both out of the running.

[Jay]

... in response to Why do you guys want a foreign mate?, posted by alumnagirl on Sep 21, 2002

Didn't you ask this same exact question here about 1 1/2 years ago, under a different name? If I recall that thread deteriorated into a fight. Why do it again?

Jay

[Ray]

... in response to Re: Why do you guys want a foreign mate?, posted by Jay on Sep 21, 2002

I believe you may be right Jay.

Is that you again x-girl?

Ray

[Dave H]

... in response to westerngrrl/asiangirl/alumnagirl, posted by Ray on Sep 21, 2002

Hey Ray,

Maybe we should just cut and paste our responses from last year. Same boring questions...she must have short term memory loss.

Dave H.

[Ray]

... in response to It sure is..., posted by Dave H on Sep 22, 2002

But does that mean that we have to cut & paste cbf’s responses also? Oh No! I still think he had the hots for TrollGirl. Maybe it was her vital “statistics” that turned him on?

Yep, same old game as before. I see she hasn't grown up a bit since the last time she trolled through.

I also noticed that she is running for the office of Spelling Sheriff (LOL).

Ray