Why do you guys want a foreign mate?

[stefang]

... in response to Where the heck to you live?, posted by alumnagirl on Sep 21, 2002

A NYC girl? Most NY'ers think they are better than the rest of the country. If I married an American I would take an Iowa girl with rubber boots holding a bucket of chicken feed anyday. High class is another name for stuck uppppppppp. I bet those NYC girls couldn't even burp a baby that is why they have no kids and I would never marry a woman who believes in abortion.

[Lori]

... in response to Re: Where the heck to you live?, posted by stefang on Sep 21, 2002

lol

[alumnagirl]

... in response to Re: Where the heck to you live?, posted by stefang on Sep 21, 2002

"I would never marry a woman who believes in abortion"

Then I bet you're going to write your daughter (if you have one or are planning on having one) out of your will if she works at a women's clinic?  I don't believe in abortion either, but that doesn't include rape.  I guess I'd say that I don't believe in abortion as a means of birth control.

[alumnagirl]

... in response to Re: Where the heck to you live?, posted by stefang on Sep 21, 2002

Uhh...nurses DO teach new mothers how to take care of kids after childbirth.

[NOX1967]

... in response to Where the heck to you live?, posted by alumnagirl on Sep 21, 2002

That sounds like not much more than a thinly veiled racial or ethnic comment on the social-economic status of Asians.

[Stephen]

... in response to Where the heck to you live?, posted by alumnagirl on Sep 21, 2002

asdf

[Stephen]

... in response to Re: Why do you guys want a foreign mate?, posted by NOX1967 on Sep 21, 2002

NOX:

What do you do when your mate's former man insults or attempts to abuse her, verbally or otherwise, in your presence?

STEPHEN:

Actually it just might be that your new spouse want to invult of attempt to abuse her ex husband, verbally or oherwise, in your presence.

It can go that way just as easily.

[Ozymandias]

... in response to Hey NOX....., posted by Stephen on Sep 21, 2002

Hi Stephen,

Would that suck any less? ;-)
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Best regards,
Arild

[Ray]

... in response to Re: Why do you guys want a foreign mate?, posted by NOX1967 on Sep 21, 2002

n/t

[Jimbo]

... in response to Why do you guys want a foreign mate?, posted by alumnagirl on Sep 21, 2002

What about his political views?  Shouldn't he also be concerned with the most important issues of the day, like AIDs, battered women, and the rain forests?

Jim

[alumnagirl]

... in response to Your ideal, posted by Jimbo on Sep 21, 2002

Well, conservatism comes with the territory, n'est-ce pas?  (unless, of course, he's a rebellious young man, which I would have sensed after one or two dates)

[Jimbo]

... in response to Re: Your ideal, posted by alumnagirl on Sep 21, 2002

Then he should consider the most important issues of the day to be terrorists, Iraq, and terrorists, with some attention reserved for tax cuts, di ba?

Jim

[alumnagirl]

... in response to a conservative?, posted by Jimbo on Sep 21, 2002

Whatever the issues of the day are. :-)

[Nathan]

... in response to Why do you guys want a foreign mate?, posted by alumnagirl on Sep 21, 2002

Cut and paste this link and read this article....it will give you a very clear idea as to why many men are looking overseas.
http://www.fredoneverything.net/AsianWomen.html

[alumnagirl]

... in response to Read and Learn, posted by Nathan on Sep 21, 2002

"For example, they say that Asian women are sexually easy. No. American women are sexually easy"

Try going to the club district in Japan.  See if the girls there are "pure"!  Doubt you'd find one

"Among Asian waitresses I know I count an electrical engineer who does wide-area networks, and a woman with a masters in biochemistry who, upon finding that research required a Ph.D and didn’t pay, went back to school and became a dentist. Both of these wait tables to help out in the family restaurant. "

I know lots of Asian girls who work, but none of them do it to help out the family.  Most of them waitress or work at the GAP (or other stores) for their own money.  

"To begin with, look at the American women in the Spot. Perhaps a third of them are stylishly dressed. The rest of the gringas run from undistinguished to dumpster-casual: baggy jeans, oversize shirts -- often male shirts -- with the tails out."

Asian women tend to be overdressed.  I've seen enough girls in my classes who look like they're going to spend the night at a club.  When you're in school, look like you're going to school, not a club.  If you want to dress up, wear a suit or twinset, not a camisole and black pants.

"Further, the Asians are what were once called “ladies,” a thought repellant to feminists but very so refreshing to men. Listen to the American women at neighboring tables, and you will frequently hear phrases like, “He’s a f@#king piece of $h!t.” In what appears to be a determined attempt to be men, they have adopted the mode of discourse of a male locker room and made it their normal language. The Asians, classier, better students of men, do not have foul mouths. They presumably know about body parts and bathroom functions, but do not believe that a woman raises her stature by referring to them constantly in mixed company."

Asians just know better not to cuss in English (those who speak other languages). Besides, if you ever call an American woman a "feminist", I really doubt she'd be too pleased.  People who believe that American women are "feminists" are really behind the times.  Many North American women work not because they want to, but because of neccessity.  IF they want their children to have the same lifestyle as they did growing up, perhaps in a nice neighbourhood, going to a nice school with music lessons, Brownies, sports and summer camp, then there must be a double income.