... in response to Being Married to a FSU Lady Honestly Suc..., posted by Scaught on Apr 12, 2004[This message has been edited by Rags]
I'm sorry that you feel this way dude but try looking at it from a different perspective. How much help would you need if you were suddenly uprooted and placed in a very strange and foreign enviroment? You would need a little help too. Also consider that she IS a woman (and all the implications that go along with that).
I, for one, would not trade my first two and a half years of this marriage for all the AW in the world. Yes, there have been a few rough spots to get through but nothing compared to my first two marriages or any of my LTRs with AW. Perhaps you were just not prepared to give up the time that is required for your FSU bride to assimilate into our very strange society with all its new and different rules and regulations.
I wish you the best in your search for happiness. Yes, this approach is not for everyone and I can see myself as unhappy as you appear to be if I had chosen one of the other ladies that I was involved with over there. I can only say that I am one lucky dude and that I found my true love (or she found me) by fate and perseverence.
P.S. What ARE the advantages to having an AW as a wife aside from that fact that they know how to work the system and totally screw you in the end (not to mention gaining 30-40 lbs and disregarding their appearance as soon as they "catch" you)?
