Agency

[AndrewinOH]

Has anyone used, or know of this agency www.dating-world.net? They seem to have an abundance of beautiful women and offer unlimited email and translations for $80/year. Is it too good to be true?

[wsbill]

... in response to Agency, posted by AndrewinOH on Feb 26, 2004

and go spend about a month over there like a fellow named Oatmeal, now one of Jacks kinfolks.

I'll be honest with you, writing women back and forth via mail is a huge waste of time.  If you have the money, go over in the Spring time, so you atleast get some great weather and plenty of eye candy.  But, start making arrangements now and saving up your dough.

Meeting in person first, and meet many and then do the writing campaign.  Maybe even get Jack to help you out and do a little hand holding if this is your first trip abroad.

It's darn near impossible to really quantify a woman mailing address and play this process out.  Someguys will swear by the writing process first, but how do we know these guys aren't a part of the MOB business and looking for a quick buck.

It speaks volumes to a lady that you been there.  So many guys write and write and never get on that airplane to go and visit them.  Don't waste her time or yours.

There really are some very nice women waiting for you to arrive, but buying their address like a jillion other guys have and their mailbox is full of eager guys that never follow through on buying that airline ticket.

It took some prodding by Jack to get me to mail in my passport application sent in and eventually I got on board the whole process...course, I'll be here for atleast another year or so.

So if you got the money, get going!  Do not delay.  By the time I get over there only the fat ones wil be left or granny.  geez.

[gator70]

... in response to Re:  Probably, hey why don't you save up..., posted by wsbill on Feb 26, 2004

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What works one guy, does not work for another. One works for one lady does not work for another.

I have been to the FSU three times in eight years.

I feel the selection process from the compatibility issues is much easier and cheaper handled by telephone and email. Just keep emotion out of it at this stage.

When you are face to face , it is the real thing. Then you only really know if you should build something serious.

Some guys need body language and others like myself do not want that distraction until I have short list ready.

You never really know some one like you hope for at least 3 –5 years of living together so it is a risk no matter what approach you take.

But don’t make decision with your little head, your big hear is the best decision maker.

My rules:

If she does not have a phone , move on
If she does not make time for you, move on
If she tests you for gift giving. move on
If she tells stories that seem funny, move on
If she is so financially strapped for cash that she can not carry on a beginning of a relationship, move on

And most import, know yourself, your failures and your character, be extremely truthful and look for the same in that special person.

[Globetrotter]

... in response to Re: Re:  Probably, hey why don't you sav..., posted by gator70 on Feb 26, 2004

Right On...........

The 3 women I met...Belerus, Ukraine and from Russia were all real, interested, and wrote often.  I took Jacks advice and sent flowers and got a photo in return of them recieving
them.  

At the end of the day, everything works, and nothing works.
You need to be lucky, and not too "needy", and patient, and realistic, and thinking that just maybe, that their "motivation" might be to use you as a boat.  If the heat of, or the passion of the moment fuels your fire, best to stay home as you may lose big...maybe not now, but down the road.

If you're new at the game, call Jack, and ask him.  Also, if you're an old hand at this and have fallen on your ass in the process, call Jack.  He knows!

Well.....How lucky do you feel?  And........as you say, when in doubt, run like Hell.