[This message has been edited by Ryan]
My Big Fat Obnoxious Fiancé, I can’t stop thinking that it is what some of these Russian families must be going through ever since the Federation broke up. I mean if you look at it with the quick meeting, engagement then the wedding it is like exact. So what is to make of all of this? Here we are in America putting something like this on television for entertainment, while many Russian families have actually lived through it. And for REAL not make believe. Ok so the big fat fiancé in Russia is not actually trying to be stupid and impolite, however with the custom and lifestyles so differences how many have actually came off like this actor on the television show. It is actually pretty sad what people do for money here and in Russia. And we say Russian women are not as materialistic….lol
Why am I making light of this? I just hope that at least some of the men that visit this website will gain some understanding that is somewhat different from what many agencies time and time overlook. Then promote, “Yes, even you can get a wife in Russia.” It is my understanding gained from being involved with this search that the truly sincere women are not just looking to get out of Russia, they are not just in it for the money. The good ones actually want true love and want to go through the basic steps to make that love grow. When you find yourself in the position of meeting then tying the knot so quickly and feel good about it because some agency is standing behind you then you had better take a second look at what roller coaster you just got yourself onto.
This is purely my opinion gained from visiting Russia spending time with Russians. Not just spending time with a woman that I was trying to court but spending time with her friends, family and classmates (School) listening to their feelings and goals. I can’t say the same about the Ukraine but I have only one experience with the Ukraine and I seemed to have been purely fueled by the mad rush for Russian woman and get yours before they are all gone that was subliminally promoted by agencies. Don't fall for it!
