trip report part 5

[Zink]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Sorry...., posted by genoramix on Aug 21, 2003

If you enjoyed your time together and learned something then it wasn't a waste. Experience is what we gain when things don't work out the way we wanted. 3 years ago I was like you. Except that I fell madly in love and spent a lot of time and money chasing a woman that was alternating between very passionate and very distant. The distant side of her finally won. It was a bad experience but I wouldn't trade it because it taught me a lot of things about myself, women and Russia. Bad times are merely steps designed to smarten us up and point us in a better direction.

[Richard]

... in response to Re: Re: Sorry...., posted by LP on Aug 20, 2003

The amazing Kreskin, huh?  Hadn't thought about him in quite a while.  I had to double check, but his tv show was in the early '70ies.  I geuss we are both showing our ages!

[Jeff S]

... in response to Re: Re: Sorry...., posted by LP on Aug 20, 2003

ROFLMAO!

[TomTx]

... in response to yeah, what rules?, posted by genoramix on Aug 20, 2003

Patrick,

Don't let little LP mess with your head, he's the longest lasting member on the board and still single. And about his rules, they are great I have read his many post some great advice "sometimes" but with an attitude! This is just him, I guess being ALONE will make you have an attitude like a child..Like I said he is a GREAT writer, and he knows everything about woman. I would bet he has a how to book somewhere, "How to act like a man, when your really a wuss, authors personal experiences".

I think people here don't understand why you went to Russia just for vacation, it's a nice place, BUT there are many nicer for less money. I think this is why you are getting flamed. Don't listen to everyone, follow your heart and have a great time, do this for all things in your life, and let the little LP's stay just that, little and alone!!!

Have a GREAT Day
Tom, and yes I am from TX and dam? Proud of it!!!! (Only state in the union you can fly the state flag on same level as the US flag) Another world!!!

[LP]

... in response to Re: yeah, what rules?, posted by TomTx on Aug 20, 2003

[This message has been edited by LP]

...I'm alone? Uh, ok, if you say so. And if by single you mean not married than yes...and proud of it. Beats being stuck with the same old cow for years, the one I didn't have to fetch all the way from the back forty. Lemme know the *next* time yer in divorce court and I'll offer you some pointers, assuming you have anything left to pay for it. "Follow your heart"....how quaint. The dogma of the desperado. Say, isn't that how you choose your ex-wife?

Anyone can be pussied into the corral, especially when they're desperate enough. (What was your excuse?) Just like all them cattle you have done there. It's what happens when there are no bulls around, just shows what kinda men they artificially breed down yonder eh? Course, we have already George Dubya for that.

lol, you have a great day now ya hear?

[TomTx]

... in response to Hey partner...., posted by LP on Aug 20, 2003

I can always expect a great come back from you  LP, and I am sure you are right about some of those "Good ole COWboys" around these parts. Not to many around here any-who..
Yes my ex-wife, you might not beleive it but she pays me, yes I speak the truth. I have my son since he was 2.5, he 9 now.
Yes I made a mistake the 1st time, when I was 33. Won't happen again, I can drop kick-em with rest of the guys that learned the hard way, and I have, one from Ukraine 6 months back, Don;t tolerate playing games, it cost to much.
Thanks for the good reply, it's fun to have fun
Later
Tom

[ChrisNJ]

... in response to She's weird?..., posted by LP on Aug 19, 2003

Some of us need all the help we can get!

[vagn]

... in response to trip report part 5 , posted by genoramix on Aug 19, 2003

[This message has been edited by vagn]

You want to test her?
I would say the head games are your own invention.

Why not relax and see how things develop?
If you want something, speak up.
If something bothers you, speak up.
If you have what you want and nothing bothers you,
be happy.

Did you meet anyone there that you could
converse with freely, without a significant
language barrier?

Also, why all the drinking?

[Zink]

... in response to trip report part 5 , posted by genoramix on Aug 19, 2003

I had 3 trips to Volgograd dealing with a girl like you described. Maybe it's the water there? Bottom line is not all Russia women behave that way. If you don't want to play head games move on and find someone different. There are many very nice, relatively stable ladies over there. In my opinion if your highest priority is her looks you'll run into more problems. And one thing about every Russian I know is that they are very private. They all totally hate it if you talk about them with other people. What goes on between you and the girls is usually best kept between you and the girls. If your ladies knew what you wrote here chances are you'd be in big trouble for it. The best test I've found is lots of time spent together in different situations. That's the only way you'll get a decent understanding of her. And sometimes that doesn't work either. There are no quick tricks to learning all about a woman.

[genoramix]

... in response to Re: trip report part 5 , posted by Zink on Aug 19, 2003

good post thx

[wsbill]

... in response to Re: trip report part 5 , posted by Zink on Aug 19, 2003

You sound kinda lost with your feelings and appear to be a little desperate chasing after this one.

You really, really do need to get a huge list together of all the ladies in that city and surrounding areas (whether it be via the internet or post your self ad in the many newspapers).

It just seems you wasting alot of valueable time.

Having fun is all and well.   But I, myself would like to be coming face to face with many women and not less than a handful.

Right now, your down to 1 day left.

Why don't you go down to the local market and check out the flower girls, while your at it tell me if they have any hydroponic tomatos and how much they are for 1 or 2 ?

I sell mine for about $1.50 lbs. or about .75ea.

Just curious.