Love to Hate...

[wsbill]

... in response to Love to Hate..., posted by Travis on Jun 2, 2003

Wake up guys!  This is somebody spamming the board.

If your for real, post her photos and the names and phone numbers of her friends.

[wsbill]

... in response to Re: Geez, this is lame... SPAM !, posted by wsbill on Jun 2, 2003

He's a pretty seasoned guy on the russian women scene.

Six months from now you'll have a really good laugh about this whole thing.

That was one of my question I would ask a girl .

Do you know anyone living in the USA and have you ever been there before.  If so, automatically.  I rejected them.

Even now, I'm very leary of any lady that has lived in East Germany, as she'll have experienced life in our semi-culture.

I'd rather teach a lady, our way of doing thing verses whomever taught her.

Just stay the course, your attorney has advised.

[Travis]

... in response to Re: OK, ok.  Travis -  Listen to what Ja..., posted by wsbill on Jun 3, 2003

Bill, believe me, I read and heed everyone's advice here now, especially Jack's. Ya know, my original thinking about her having her best friend here was "Cool, at least she knows someone here and won't be lonely when I'm working". Good God was I wrong! She came here specifically to be with her friend, not me. I was just a tool to get her here.

And Bill, as much as I wished this whole thing were not true and happening, it is the truth, it isn't spam. I'd give my right nut for all this to be some sort of dream or fantasy.

[Griffin redux]

... in response to Re: OK, ok.  Travis -  Listen to what Ja..., posted by wsbill on Jun 3, 2003

Two weeks after my wife arrived she had 5 new Russian-born friends/advisors just here in Texas (probably one of them was Travis' wife) all of whom are "expert" on immigration and family law.  Once the marriage starts heading south, they circle the wagons, not unlike AW and their recently divorced co-workers.

[Travis]

... in response to They find each other quickly via the int..., posted by Griffin redux on Jun 3, 2003

They do "network" like there's no tomorrow! Did your wife spend any time at the Russian Bear or Odessa? If so, I would have no doubt they have met and talked. My wife had about the same number of Russian-born girlfriends/advisors and didn't file charges against me until after she "consulted" with them. That was exactly 3 weeks into the marriage. Her friends response when I told her my wife hit me between 20 and 25 times..."So". My wife was HOPEING like he11 I would hit her back so she would have something to go to the police with. But, being a man, I go to jail on her word only and am guilty until I can prove that I'm innocent. I'll tell you how much the DA investigated the case...they didn't even get my name or birthdate right! My wife didn't know it and the DA didn't look into it. Again, guilty until proven innocent! Any moron with a computer and an internet connection could have at least got my name right!

[Griffin redux]

... in response to Re: They find each other quickly via the..., posted by Travis on Jun 3, 2003

you really need to get over that... but I am curious.

Was your wife Luci from Baytown?

[Travis]

... in response to I apologize if I have restoked your ange..., posted by Griffin redux on Jun 3, 2003

No apologies! I'm p1ssed but that doesn't have anything to do with anyone here on this board. It's just gonna take some time to get over.

Luci isn't my wife, nor any of her friends that I'm aware of.

[Griffin redux]

... in response to Re: I apologize if I have restoked your ..., posted by Travis on Jun 3, 2003

God help us, it gets easier every time.

[Jack]

... in response to Re: Geez, this is lame... SPAM !, posted by wsbill on Jun 2, 2003

Hold-On WildBill. Travis is real and what he is going thru is very much real.

Right now Travis you just need to concentrate on all the legal issue's at hand. Do not be alone with this woman, not even for three seconds. ALWAYS have someone with you if she is ever in your presence. This will help you if she wants to come up with some new abuse charges.

Travis no one has to beat it into your head that you just fcuked up. You have learned a most valuable lesson the hard way. I don't know if you have relayed such information previously, and probably best not to discuss anymore than you have until everything is over, but I would be willing to bet you $3.46 that this was the first and ONLY Russian woman you ever met. I think you must not have ever been able to compare your current Russian wife to any other Russian woman. Maybe I am wrong, but most guys who were able to meet other Russian women do not normally get scammed as bad, as quickly, as obviously, as you were. I think you fell for the first beautiful, sexy Russian woman you met and just so happens she had sex with you very quickly. You were "in love"! You probably confused sex with love. She knew what it would take to close the deal with you, to get you to do whatever she wanted, and it was sex.  

This is going to leave a bad taste in your mouth and it should. You made the wrong choice, you probably could have done many things that could have helped you to make a better choice but you didn't. So you will have learned a lot by the time this is all over. And even though you will disagree with what I am saying now, these Russian women are the finest women in the world, you just have to choose wisely.

Travis, concentrate on legal issues at hand. Three or four months after your divorce is over I would be happy to try to help you find some good Russian women, Russian women with high morals, not those who will use sex to seal the deal.

[Travis]

... in response to HOLD ON WildBill!, posted by Jack on Jun 3, 2003

Jack, send me an email please. I would like to discuss this further. Online isn't yet appropriate as my legal issues are not yet concluded.

[Travis]

... in response to Re: Geez, this is lame... SPAM !, posted by wsbill on Jun 2, 2003

I will in August Bill, after the divorce is final. I still have to defend myself in court and posting too much info on the internet now just doesn't seem like a good idea. Please keep in mind that this is ongoing.

[lswote]

... in response to Love to Hate..., posted by Travis on Jun 2, 2003

Your profile says you filed for divorce in November of 2002.  Why are you just posting this story now?

[Travis]

... in response to Is this something new?, posted by lswote on Jun 2, 2003

I did file for divorce in November 2002. She filed charges in October. The warrent was just executed last Wednesday. The reason I didn't know there was an outstanding warrent, is because she gave the police the wrong name, middle name anyway. My wife didn't even have the courtesy to know my freakin name or birthdate! I was wondering why she never wished me a happy birthday :-) Most everything regarding this I have posted. At least in pieces. Not everything, but some things I have no choice but to withhold at this time.

My divorce from her should have been final in January, but she defied the court order to leave the country and instead filed for a protection order in February again claiming abuse. That protection order was denied in divorce court in March based on her testimony alone, but the initial warrent was still outstanding (different name). My ex-girlfriend bailed me out within 11 hours and my attorney should have a field day with the charge. The charges will be dismissed because they have nothing. We have her testimony from the divorce hearing which in itself should suffice, but we have more evidence. We WILL demand she be prosecuted for filing false charges! And for fraudulent marriage!

[John K]

... in response to Re: Is this something new?, posted by Travis on Jun 2, 2003

I'm not sure you're gonna get that one, Travis.  It seems to me that your marriage was legal, if ill fated.  Personally, I'm curious as to why you are divorcing her instead of having the marriage annulled.  I would think that legally, you'd be better off with an annulment..

[RickM]

... in response to Love to Hate..., posted by Travis on Jun 2, 2003

We are at least 50% responsible for anything we are involved with or a part of...
Let's all take a quiet look unselfishly at ourselves and see where we can begin to improve our lives and our relationships with other people as well as ourselves...
"quote" - Scott Peckham - "book" The Road Less traveled...