... in response to But good with some lessons, posted by Marty on Jun 3, 2003I agree when I saw who gramps was meeting, it was clearly over from the get go. Hate to say it but women do prefer a guy that's taller than them or atleast equal height..
That was my first clue in, as well as the age difference between them was noticeable.
What turned me off was dumb words he was professing to her.
Saying things to the first girl. Clearly, he sounded like
a horny guy in a candy store. yuck, get real.
She wised up to reality really quick. These girls are not dumb, desperate maybe but not dumb.
The second girl for gramps was a real positive. They just looked like a match. And I thought that was pretty cute the little daughter getting upset at her mother for not kissing her in the same way she was kissing on him.
Clearly, no doubt the little daughter will fall in love with gramps as well. What's the saying (mothers with their sons / fathers with their daughters).
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The Millionaire, I just got bad vibes from him as well.
I don't know if I disliked this guy because he was rich and I'm poor. ha. But he was always seeming to be a little bit over bearing on her.
Clearly, we all saw the friction initally. But she was kinda acting kinda dingy as well. So they might be a match.
I agree, how he was interacting with the kid. And how the kid was snubing him. The kid and the father are in competition for their mother affection. And the kid was acting out.
Hopefully, the guy would work on building a good relationship with the little boy.
I tell you this much. Being poor has it's advantages - it the marriage does go bust. There ain't much to lose. So some of you really well to do guys, just might rent a mobile home and get a dumpy car for the first year or so to see how it all works out. Then over time, introduce her to upscale living. (I guess that would mean a double wide for me) LOL.