Has your RW/UW tracked your sincerity

[CS767]

I have reason to believe my friend  in the Ukraine has given her female friend my email address to query me about visiting her.She asked me for my profile.I sent her a profile from another website with my ref #.I asked her initially how she got my address.My ego
etc got the better of me and I screwed up.I think I recovered on the second reply to the lady that I was "committed "to another person.any feedback on this one?

[Scaught]

... in response to Has your RW/UW tracked your sincerity, posted by CS767 on Feb 16, 2003

Seriously, using my own 2+ year experience with my Ukrainian girlfriend, I think she wants to know if you are serious about looking for a nice woman to marry, or just fooling around. She also probably wants to know if you are really interested in her, in particular.

Many of these women simply do not have the luxury of free time. They work, walk everywhere, maybe study, have family duties, etc. (many etceteras). We hear on this board about guys who wasted a year of their lives on a woman, usually meaning writing dozens of thoughtful letters, e-mail, maybe phone calls, sending presents and money and not even visiting the girl. Well, a waste of time is a tragedy for them too, especially as they often have so little free time. Apparently it is common for guys to string them along, whether they visit or not.

The woman you are referring to probably wants to see if you are serious about her, or not. If she thinks you aren't, I doubt she would communicate with you any further.

Forgive me for not keeping everyone's stories and experiences sraight, but another poster related that things were great until, an exboyfriend came back into the picture. If I remember right, he was upfront about dating other women. I had the impression-- perhaps mistaken-- that she sensed a lack of commitment and just went elsewhere. I wonder if an exboyfriend really returned, or if it was an excuse to break things off.

As for myself, I like to joke around a lot and have an overall nonserious attitude about most stuff. However, I absolutely had to tell my girlfriend (the truth!) that about her, I am completely serious! If she thought I weren't, I know she'd be gone tomorrow. She doesn't have time to fool waste on something that's going nowhere.

[Streetwise]

... in response to Has your RW/UW tracked your sincerity, posted by CS767 on Feb 16, 2003

This happens alll the time. From RW's I have spoken to who have been involved with the agency scene for any length of time, it seems that they are pretty sceptical in the early stages of correspondence. They realize full well that most guys play the numbers game, and that the supply-and-demand ratio is not in their favour. One RW who came over to visit helped herself to my computer and accessed my personal files to see some letters I'd kept; she was even checking the trash in my recycle bin! She also went through the internet history (lucky I wiped it clean before she arrived). And whenever I logged on, she would suddenly appear at my shoulder to check what I was doing!!! Checked the SMS messages on my mobile phone too. When she cleaned my apartment she went through it every corner with a fine-toothed comb. A very stressful experience, but luckily I had anticipated ALMOST all of her moves...

[Jski]

... in response to Has your RW/UW tracked your sincerity, posted by CS767 on Feb 16, 2003

[This message has been edited by Jski]

Nice plane!  Then again I may be a bit partial :-)

I guess its only fair that they play turnabout with the checking out part.  I'm sure some of them get some pretty strange letters in their mailbox once they post their ad (not implying you here).  If you're committed to the one, just be honest with any others that contact you. Even if its not someone checking you out for her.

Good luck!

[CS767]

... in response to Re: 767 Driver?, posted by Jski on Feb 16, 2003

Good advice,I have received a lot of good advice here from you guys and I am sincere, but due to my ignorence I replied to the lady but whatever!Yes I am a retired 76 driver.

[LP]

... in response to Re: Re: 767 Driver?, posted by CS767 on Feb 16, 2003

...the stupid age 60 rule is a load isn't it? You have my sympathies. Then again, us youngsters like the number change. Be glad you're out of it, the TSA crap is indeed nuts and it isn't gonna get better. (lol, too bad you wont get to carry, just the thing for those whiney FOs. A new meaning in CRM ;-)

76? What else you typed in? (besides the 75)...Come on now, you really miss the layovers? ;-)

[micha1]

... in response to Has your RW/UW tracked your sincerity, posted by CS767 on Feb 16, 2003

Sure they do track you down, why not, you do take your best shot,
why shouldn't they.
They are women.........
So you are a retired bus driver,
LP will happy to hear this, but reading Yoe,
he drive a bunge bus.

[yoe]

... in response to Re: Has your RW/UW tracked your sincerit..., posted by micha1 on Feb 16, 2003

but for you micha you may want the bait bus at www.thebaitbus.com enjoy.........
Joe
all aboarddddddddddddddddddddd!

[Dan]

... in response to Has your RW/UW tracked your sincerity, posted by CS767 on Feb 16, 2003

LOTS of guys here promote exactly this tactic when dealing with ladies in the FSU. Why should the ladies be any different when it comes to checking out the guy's sincerity? LOL

Seems fair enough to me.

- Dan

[CS767]

... in response to Turnabout is Fair Play . . ., posted by Dan on Feb 16, 2003

Yes you are correct it is fair and I will be cautious
about whom I answer.I am committed to WOVO concept the first time over.A word to the wise is sufficeint!