message to dandy and other newbies

[yoe]

... in response to message to dandy and other newbies, posted by keithandkatya on Feb 21, 2003

[This message has been edited by yoe]

you mean guys that 'may' start a new thread instead of adding similar information on a previous thread due to some type of 'personal' thingy.........
hey this is not my game or my ball and people can play with themselves.........But it is ironic to be offer advice and then criticize those 'know it alls' and then submit rules. I would not even respond but you have attacked me many times without provocation so I feel that I have a right!
it is always nice to get an 'objective' point of view......
Peace
Joe

[LP]

... in response to guys with large egos and small units tha..., posted by yoe on Feb 21, 2003

[This message has been edited by LP]

Let the guy have his peace. If he's who I think he is, he's got a right to boast.

On another note, hasn't it occured to anyone that maybe the "successes" of many (if not most) of WOVO stories may be directly related to how desperate the men/people involved were and has nothing at all to do with "colliding" hearts? Nah, that would *never* happen in MOB right? No desperate folks involved in this biz huh? Thats why agencies and scammers are so rare right? lol, boom! Just gotta be love at first site, there's no other explanation.

It's a riot how such stories are treated by many exactly the opposite of pickin a chick at a social. The praises are sung for the WOVO "love" story while the guy at the social is looked down upon. Maybe the WOVO guy was only a little less desperate, there's a very fine line between the cast of characters in many of these scenarios. Course, none of the desperados would admit to this and the cult mentality that pervades MOB sqaushes the idea from being seriously considered.

I'm not saying they're all like that (although a few ones here obviously were) I'm only pointing out how people can look at things when they only want to see the possibilities that please them. In spite of all the fairy tales spun, in most cases no one but the people involved know anything about exactly how it went down yet others see it as a "success". And in MOB which is the more likely scenario? Nope, gotta be love at first sight, couldn't be anything else.

This is why I hang around. It's simply fascinating to observe the cognitive process in the MOB animal. Lol, Jane Goodall missed the boat completely.

[yoe]

... in response to Now yoey...., posted by LP on Feb 21, 2003

some of the guys I have met who went through the process, their idea of succes is, "i gotta girl in my bed.....hahaha..and she is soooooooo hot hahaha"! Most of these men are definitely NOT wearing the pants in the house. This is why I warn about RW......these chicks are nopt stupid and are used to taking care of business. I have to really watch my Boopa......she starts to hang out with some of these other wives and thinks she can come back and start treating me like other wives treat their hubbies. But, I know guys who have married closer to their age and social status who have done ok. I have also bet many of these 'slave owner' types. And believe me some of these guys do live in trailors.........Hey to each his own. I have made my mistakes.......
Joe

[Mike]

... in response to well I must admit......, posted by yoe on Feb 22, 2003

I've never met this guy but he and I were posting in the visa marriage group thingy and his story goes likes this. He got a lady from Ukrain over here and took her from the airport to his (20 miles from anything) trailor which belonged to his parents who also lived there!

and the guy was heart broken when she wanted to leave after a few weeks. Well maybe a little hurt ?? but he must be over it because he is working on bringing over a new one now.

Makes ya wonder if there is a limit on stupidity.
Mike

[keithandkatya]

... in response to That reminds me of something, posted by Mike on Feb 22, 2003

sorry guy... you are talking bout someone else...

[yoe]

... in response to Re: hey mike, posted by keithandkatya on Feb 25, 2003

he is only talking about some guy he knew of .......how could it be someone else? man o man...... and you have the nerve to get on my case????haha
s'ok bro........i don't take it serious.......i would suggest the same for others
peace out
Joe
ps and do not take things personally.......I assume that is what this post was about--------and it was not

[keithandkatya]

... in response to what are U talking about???, posted by yoe on Feb 25, 2003

Lol , im getting on your case?? geez ...frankly Im not sure about what either of you are talking about, but thats okay... I agree with the peace part though...

[LP]

... in response to huh?, posted by keithandkatya on Feb 26, 2003

...have here is a failure to communicate"...

Hey Keith, what ethinicity are you? Just curious....

[keithandkatya]

... in response to guys with large egos and small units tha..., posted by yoe on Feb 21, 2003

sorry my post upset you- it wasnt my intention... It was meant to help dandy and others... sorry also Im not going to bite on your comments- to busy with life- but I do wish you well,
Keith

[CS767]

... in response to message to dandy and other newbies, posted by keithandkatya on Feb 21, 2003

Thanks for the informative stuff and the brief on ego stuff--Took the words right out of my mouth!I got "take what you want,leave the rest" see if you can add something if you want.  cs

[Jack]

... in response to K & K---Thanks good info!, posted by CS767 on Feb 21, 2003

Your friend in Phx that has just got his lady here, does his first name start with A?

[CS767]

... in response to Hey Charlie, posted by Jack on Feb 22, 2003


 No his first name is Fred