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Author Topic: For RW -the true story about Cinderella  (Read 2608 times)
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« on: January 23, 2003, 05:00:00 AM »

Yes, Cinderella had the worst job in the city, but she did it diligently. She didn't waste hours in useless rancor, letting bitterness and regret give her an ulcer, bad skin, and deep brow furrows. She knew “cinder maid” was just her job title, not her life description.

When the fairy godmother appeared, Cinderella had the courage to seize an opportunity to change. She didn't peer at the fairy godmother suspiciously, snarling, “You know what they say, 'If something looks too good to be true, it probably is.' Leave me to my cinders. I'm perfectly happy with my state of habitual discontent.” Cinderella knew she was worthy of happiness, despite a string of bad luck so long, a lesser woman would have hanged herself with it.

Once she arrived at the ball, Cinderella didn't hide inside her pumpkin carriage, crying, “But no one attends a party alone! Everyone will think I'm a loser!” She threw her shoulders back, lifted her chin, and marched in the door.

Cinderella believed in the power of a perfect dress.

She did not waste time gloating over her step-siblings in her designer duds. She knew that the best revenge is having too much fun to think about retaliation.

When the prince asked her to dance, Cinderella did not shriek and run to the ladies' room to check her lipstick. She agreed to dance. And you can bet that while spinning in his arms, she didn't trip into a fit of insecurity, criticizing him in an attempt to boost her self-esteem, saying, “You know, anyone can inherit a kingdom. I work for my living.”

At the stroke of midnight, she didn't cling to the prince's hand, crying, “Save me from my miserable life!” She had the confidence to know that if he liked her, he'd come calling.

Which, of course, he did. And when he came, she did not listen to her friends, who all rang up, saying, “Why is he shooting so far beneath his mark, Cinderella? I mean, no offense, but what's wrong with him that none of the royal chicks will date him?” She knew the details of her relationship better than her friends did, trusting her own experience with her man, not gossip.

W hen the prince galloped up on his white horse, Cinderella did not shout, “Hey man, back off! I can drive my own damn steed!” She decided that if it was that important to him to whisk her off her feet, she'd let him whisk.

Relationship Rules, In Brief

Know your inner value, no matter how worthless your external situation may seem.
 
If something looks too good to be true, it can still be true.
 
Don't be afraid to go to a party alone.
 
Never underestimate the power of dressing your best.
 
Focus on finding your own happiness, not on avenging past slights.
 
Get out on the dance floor!
 
Don't let your own insecurity drive you to criticize others.
 
Keep your obligations and promises to others, even if some handsome guy wants you to dance all night.
 
Ignore rumors and doubts of suspicious friends. Judge a person based on your own experience with him.
 
Work on becoming your own best adviser.
 
If a man wants to sweep you off your feet, go ahead and let him. Just because he's gallant doesn't mean he wants you to quit your job and take up knitting.

Fairy-tale Formula Rule 1:

Don't let past bad luck cloud your vision of a brighter future. Have the courage to believe in a better life.

This article is excerpted from Happily Ever After, ©2001 by Wendy Paris. Reprinted with permission of the publisher, HarperResource, an imprint of HarperCollins Publishers.  

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