... in response to fiancee questions . . ., posted by Ramblin on Sep 25, 2002/Can I get my fiancee a work permit (EAD card) before we are married?/
EAD card...no. But she might get a temp work permit upon entry into the USA depending on where she comes in and if the INS guys are still handing out permits.
/After adjustment of status she will be a permanent resident, what is she before that just a nonimmigrant visa holder?/
She's just an AOS pending without a valid visa (which CAN play havoc with getting other things like an SSN, driver's license, etc.). When you file for AOS, make SURE that you also apply for AP and EAD. With the EAD you can definitely get an SSN card and with that a driver's license.
/Is it a good idea to teach our future children to speak Russian?/
Absolutely. It is ALWAYS a good idea for your children to learn other languages, and esp. one that is spoken by the parent!
/What questions are asked at the interview?/
Things like: Was your fiance ever married before? Is he divorced? What does he do? How did you meet? Does he have children? Questions to verify that YOU told your fiancee everything and that show some level of familiarity between you. My wife told the interviewer that she didn't know what I did...something with computers (he really didn't care too much).