Humabdos, Larry, Steve, Others

[greg]

Thank God that we've seen the Light. I'm glad that we Guys decided to move on and Quit dwelling on the negatives in our search to find and be found by Love and Happiness abroad. It really doesn't make any sense for us Guys to Blast Pinays just becuz we made a few mistakes with the wrong "One". We cannot blame only our Ex Pinay, it takes two to make a wrong. Anyway we have many Pinay friends thats been good to Us...You know when we put down "Pinays" we really be putting down our friends like Jingle, FeB, Sally, Midnitegal, and other Guys on the board that has been lucky to find and be found by Love and Happiness abroad. Soooo by all means let's continue to stay on the band wagon of positives in our reguest for true Love.I know that my English grammar is poor, but at least You understand what I'm talking about lol. Thank You, greg

[Howard]

... in response to Humabdos, Larry, Steve, Others, posted by greg on Feb 13, 2002

Greg,

You have pretty much echoed my sentiments from the begining.

There is no one to blame for my situation except my wife and myself.  Sure, she had pressure to follow through, but she could've stood up earlier or just given me half a chance.

I have to remain true to my nature, I am an optomist.  Feel free to shoot me :c)  LOL  I have come to the decision that my destiny still lies in the Philippines.  So I gather myself, stand back up and move forward rather than lamenting my soon to be former situation.  Yep, my situation was sad, but life has a way for equalling things out in the long run.  As I have said a HUNDRED times on here, I can only vote my conscience.  I can only follow my heart.

Great Post Greg :c)

Keep the Faith

H

[greg]

... in response to Thoughts from an "other" :c), posted by Howard on Feb 15, 2002

Howard, Your a good Man. You treated your wife like a Queen. God has a Good Pinay waiting for You. God Bless, greg

[panther]

... in response to Humabdos, Larry, Steve, Others, posted by greg on Feb 13, 2002

You're right Greg, we shouldn't come on this board and bash a whole group of people based on our bad experience.  Two are at fault to varying degrees.  I think it is good we post our experiences to help others see both sides to these relationships. Unfortunately my relationship turned into a disaster.  I had similar things happen to me that happened to Shadow, Howard, and Humabdos early in my relationship. I posted my experiences on this board and MA and got good advice from others and also learned that some others experienced the same things I did.  That's life.  Some things work for some and not for others.

[greg]

... in response to Re: Humabdos, Larry, Steve, Others, posted by panther on Feb 14, 2002

Steve, I'm glad that your doing good. Maraming salamate, greg

[shadow]

... in response to Humabdos, Larry, Steve, Others, posted by greg on Feb 13, 2002

lets bury our heads in the sand, and maybe all the bad things will go away.  

Unfortunately, it doesn't always happen that way. For those that are inexperienced or lucky and still believing all the hype I will continue to be an outspoken vote of caution. Without a few of us doing so, there would probably be more failures amongst us.

Larry.

[greg]

... in response to Yes, Greg..., posted by shadow on Feb 14, 2002

I understand. I think your doing a wonderful Job. It all depends on how the Poster warn Guys, I find your warning to be reasonable and with class. Anyway, I think my post was misunderstood, I meant in my Post that us Guys are kinda changed from negative to being careful in our search for Love and Happiness. I feel that Guys like You, HumB, Panther etc are doing good, becuz what your doing is Positive, like HumB finding and being found by Love, you going back to RP, etc...I didn't mean my Post as being negative against Guys that was Hurt and Betrayed. I wanted my Post to encourage Guys to think positive and don't give up. greg

[Don J]

... in response to Yeah, Larry, posted by greg on Feb 15, 2002

when are you going to the PI maybe we could see you

DonJ

[shadow]

... in response to Hi  Larry, posted by Don J on Feb 16, 2002

I'll be in the RP from the 6th of march until the 19th. Would like to get together with anyone there during this time. Larry.

[Don J]

... in response to Re: Hi  Larry, posted by shadow on Feb 17, 2002

Hey Larry:

My wife and I will arrive in Cebu on Saturday March 9th, We will be checking into Holiday Plaza when we arrive and leaving for Ginatilan Sunday morning to attend her church festival Sunday thur early Tuesday and then back to Holiday Plaza.

You mentioned Eddie's Hotel, my wife used to work in the accounting department at Eddie's, but she doesn't want to stay there because she knows everyone there.

I tried to email you to try and work out a place and time to meet, but my email was returned. Just send me an email and I will write you back.

Regards,
Don J

[Humabdos]

... in response to Humabdos, Larry, Steve, Others, posted by greg on Feb 13, 2002

Hi Greg,

I hate to disappoint you Greg but... I will continue to speak out against "gold diggers" and "card sharks" The good filipinas know in there minds that I don't speak of them.
"It takes two to make a wrong" hummmm... The only thing I did wrong was pick the wrong filipina(my ex-wife) Yes I have found a truely good filipina (Sallie) and life moves forward. Live and learn as they say... I'll try my best to be a more kinder gentile person. I'll also work on my spelling ;-)  Humsalliedos

[greg]

... in response to Re: Humabdos,, posted by Humabdos on Feb 14, 2002

Don't worry about Your spelling errors or poor English grammar, Pinays admire Us lol. It's tooo easy to get on the bandwagon of Guys that Blast Pinays as being "Golddiggers" and "Greencard Sharks". Keep in mind that alot of Guys have Unrealistic Expectations. When things turn sour in their relationship with Pinays and She wants Out or Leave him..He start placing all the Blame on the Pinay..There are two sides to a Story, we usually hear only one side..Really I find it hard for a Guy to make out with a new Pinay if he's carrying around his baggage. Negative thinking is Baggage. Hearing a failure story between a Guy and Pinay, then Folks ganging up on Her becuz of what He said is Foolish without knowing the true story. Many Guys don't do their homework, don't learn her culture, don't make an effort to help her with culture shock in America, expecting her to accept his baggage that turned off even AWs..So what do a Guy expect??? Anyway, I believe if a Guy wants to find and be found by Love and Happiness, he needs to look in the mirror and get rid of his Negatives..think Positive. We got to understand that not every Pinay we meet is the "One". Of course we can be Lucky after meeting the first one. How can a Guy that continue to Blast other Pinays make it with his new Mahal? You say that our Friends accept the Blasting of their fellow Filipinas??? I think not, deep in their heart it Hurts to hear those negative words. If it wasn't bothersome to those Good Filipinas then they wouldn't take the time to defend Pinays. As Veterans we know better, we should understand that there are many reasons for failed relationships. I do't know about You, but I for one want the success that Guys like Tneal, Patrick, Ray, SteveG, Ect to rub on me, and I know as long as Negatives cloud a Guy's mind, he's never gonna be ready for any kinda relationship. As Houndog used to say...Check Yourself before You Wreck Yourself, makes plenty of sense. )) greg

[Humabdos]

... in response to Mr Humabdos, posted by greg on Feb 15, 2002

I some what agree Greg but I don't carry around any baggage.
My gold digger posts are to warn those wearing rose colored glasses to have your head up and becareful. People learn from mistakes to for get the past is foolish. Is it my fault my ex wife chose to fool around while we where married? When I look into the mirror I see a smiling face who knows I never committed adultery if someone doesn't beleive me I don't give a rip. People should be well aware of the pit falls of involved as well as the gold diggers and card sharks out there because it's all to common.

Humabdos

[greg]

... in response to Re: Mr Humabdos, posted by Humabdos on Feb 15, 2002

I saw the pictures on Mag Yahoo club. She's cute, I'm happy that you finally was able to find and be found by Love and Happiness. I believe that your new Sweetie is going to make you forget about all Your past bitterness against your Ex. You should feel that her Name, Golddigger, Greencard Shark isn't even worth mentioning. Good Luck HumB, greg

[Humabdos]

... in response to Re: Re: Mr Humabdos, posted by greg on Feb 16, 2002

Yes Sallie is a real sweetie.  I've learned a lot in the last few years. I'm ready to take that knowledge and move on with life. Davao is a nice place I hope to call it home someday.

Humabdos