Guys and Filipinas :o)

[greg]

I would like to apoloize for my negatives. I think it's wrong for any Guy to continue to think bad about Pinays just becuz he had the bad Luck to get involved with the wrong one. There are countless good, honest, faithful and caring Gems waiting for that lucky Man. I only met one Pinay in RP, thats foolish to beat on all Filipinas. Just don't get your Penpal pregnant and You will do okey smile. Guys lets bury all the negatives and bad experiences. I think when we stop talking negative about the Pinays, they will start posting on PL. I know they are Lurking and reading the negatives, I know it really hurts. If Guys like Jay, SteveG, Ray, etc can find a good Pinay, then why not us? As long as Guys continue to think negative about the Pinays, how can they find a good one? God Bless You all in your search to find and be found by Love and Happiness abroad. Never give up. greg

[Howard]

... in response to Guys and Filipinas ), posted by greg on Jan 24, 2002

guys,

If I can find positives in my expirience, which so far hasn't been nearly as evil as others, I think we all can.  Let's get back to finding someone to spend our lives with :c)

Keep the Faith  (Uh oh!  I the positive Howard returning?  LOL)

H

[greg]

... in response to Good Post!, posted by Howard on Jan 25, 2002

Howard, Your the first person to ever say that I posted something good hehe. Yeah, we need to stay encouraged, it's foolish to beat down on Pinays just becuz a Guy was unlucky to choose the wrong one. I really  believe having a positive frame of mind will help a Guy find a Gem. I know that Ray, DaveH, Tneal, Jay, SteveG and the other Veterans get tired of hearing the negatives against the Filipinas. greg

[Ray]

... in response to Re: Good Post!, posted by greg on Jan 25, 2002

Hey Greg,

You're absolutely correct! I agree that going into this adventure with a positive attitude is the only way to succeed. And I liked your advice to not get your pen pal pregnant (LOL!).

I don’t mind hearing the negative stories if they are based on someone’s personal experience. That’s the way most guys learn to be careful over there. What bothers me is the “All Filipinas are this” or “All Filipinas are that” kind of crap. I think that anyone who has that kind of negative attitude about the women over there ought to get the he!! out of this game, not only for their own sake, but for the sake of the ladies who hook up with them.

Bad experiences can be a positive thing if we learn from them. There aren’t many guys on this forum who have never had a failed relationship with a member of the opposite sex, but there are only a few who just haven’t learned to put it behind them. I can’t really blame them because I was there also at one time. But there is hope for everyone if and when they can start to look at life in a positive light. Heck, even Humbados is getting a positive attitude lately :-)

Say hi to Peabody Jr.

Ray

[BrianN]

... in response to Guys and Filipinas ), posted by greg on Jan 24, 2002

in this, and any venture.

My life has had MANY positives with my ex.  The experience alone is priceless, (going on 21 years now) (wait - am I really THAT OLD???), and I wouldn't trade it for anything.

To stick one's head in the sand and act as if nothing bad will ever happen is looking to get thy butt run over by a truck.