Hollering for Ms FeB

[greg]

Good morning, Can you pls Post tips on how  Guys can find a good honest Pinay? Many times the Filipina is sweet and caring in RP, but becomes a monster in America. How can we make sure that we found a Gem? I agree with the Guys that a Bar girl can be better than a so called devoted Christian gal. We really don't know what kind of Woman we married until she has spent lengths of time with us here. What are your thoughts FeB? Is the Porker's belly growing bigger?  hehehehehehe Thank you, greg

[Febtember]

... in response to Hollering for Ms FeB, posted by greg on Jan 9, 2002

One thing my hubby mention that seem's like a general rule is to look for girl from province and not from cities.City woman were too liberated and too materialistic.  The problem is some of the good woman will never see profiles in the province.Generally they were mostly circulated in the big cities.Most of all stay away from too young woman.Some girls from province maybe trying to escape poverty,but you need to be cautious in take your time making sure they are honest.Spend more time in e-mail and letters rather than phone calls,to get a better idea what the inner person is like.Just make sure that they are the one writting the e-mail and letter.I wrote several letters for my friends coz thier english not too good.Their penpals received letters more about me than them,and penpal did not know that I wrote it.I even chat for my friend one time with her penpal but she's there with me.Just realize too that there are differences in women in different provinces.Leyte woman are known as fighters,for example.Hope this help.

[Dave H]

... in response to Re: Hollering for Ms FeB, posted by Febtember on Jan 9, 2002

Well Manila girls are hip
I really dig those styles they wear
And the Visayan girls with the way they talk
They knock me out when I'm down there

The Luzon farmer's daughters really make you feel alright
And the Angeles girls with the way they kiss
They keep their boyfriends warm at night

I wish they all could be Butuan City
I wish they all could be Butuan City
I wish they all could be Butuan City girls.

Mindanao has the sunshine
And the girls all get so tanned
I dig a "Filipina swimsuit" on Camiguin island
Dolls by a palm tree in the sand (for Humabdos)

I been all around these 7,000 isles
And I seen all kinds of girls
Yeah, but I couldn't wait to get back to the city
Back to the cutest girls in the world

I wish they all could be Butuan City
I wish they all could be Butuan City
I wish they all could be Butuan City girls.... :oD

Dave H.

[greg]

... in response to Re: Hollering for Ms FeB, posted by Febtember on Jan 9, 2002

very good tips ) Pls Post more. greg

[Jeff S]

... in response to Re: Hollering for Ms FeB, posted by Febtember on Jan 9, 2002

Some people think idea of a sweet, simple girl who came from a farm and never owned a pair of shoes (I'm being a little faceious here) as the perfect wife, while others of us want to spend out time with someone who knows the difference between Lizst and Chopin in the first four bars, who can identify the spices in Morroccan food at the first taste, and who is as comfortable in evening wear as she is in jeans. I'm not trying to belittle the country lifestyle, just pointing out that there are gems everywhere, cities and countryside. For some of us, a city girl is a wiser choice. I guess a person has to examine their own lifestyle to find a mate who fits in well with their basic nature. Some materialism is not necessarily bad - wanting the good life, and the good things life has to offer is a motivator to excel sometimes. It just gets bad, like anything, when it starts bordering in the obsessive (the neighbors got a new car so I have to have one!)

-- Jeff S.

[BrianN]

... in response to Hollering for Ms FeB, posted by greg on Jan 9, 2002

You didn't ask me, but I'll throw my hat in that ring for what it's worth, just to be irritating... (lol!).

If you just go, and have a tour guide or something like that... you won't usually need telephone numbers, email addresses, contact people... any of it.

When you meet the right one, you'll know it within a day or two.  I can't even imagine myself going to visit with a list of women to meet.  Just doesn't seem right.

Be sure that the age range is realistically compatible, and you can see at least some even leveled maturity between the two of you.

I think somewhere awhile back in the archives I made some outrageous claim that I could find what I was looking for really fast, and be happy with my choice, but, honestly... I'd need to be a little more careful now, because I'd prefer to meet a lady in the mid 30's or early 40's.  

Smiles tell a lot, eye contact tells even more.  But the minute that you start to feel uncomfortable with a situation or lady, don't ignore it, because that's a red flag thing.  Biggest mistake one could make in a situation like this is not to pay attention to your own logical thoughts.

There are bazillions of good women there.  Let real common sense be your guide.  Don't fall in love with the idea of BEING in love, cloud your judgement.