where are they now?

[Taliman]

What happened to:

Midnight Girl.
Dan and Mars.
Darrell (fear of flying)
and
Christina.
Anyone know?
Hope I don't just disappear off the board one day. LOL.
I know I will for a few while Christine and I enjoy our Honeymoon!
Dingo

[midnightgirl]

... in response to where are they now?, posted by Taliman on Dec 29, 2002

Hey Taliman,

Thanks that you still remember me. I am still here alive and kicking, is just that i don't post or made any comment I could forget the PL, oh no  i still love to read the PL especially the situation of Howard and Ayesa, I'm really concern about them. If i could just do something for them but  i can't co'z that's their life and it's only them who could workout their marriage. We can't judge which one is fault but as i read Howard's post he seems so sincere and he is the only one making their marriage work but the other one is not so how could it work. Also i like the post of Febtember(Raquel) she's seems so happy with her marriage life and she made me laugh especially when she talked about their animals in the farm.

Don't worry , I am still here just reading the PL everyday even that i don't post.

[greg]

... in response to Re: where are they now?, posted by midnightgirl on Dec 31, 2002

Hi old Buddy smile. Yeah, I enjoy reading Rachel's Posts myself. Why??? Becuz Rechel is straight forward, not afraid to speak the truth, she tells things as she see it. MidniteGal, it would be nice if you start sharing your opinions about how a Guy can find a honest, truthful, Pinay. You can really help the Guys. Do you remember me?? hehe greg

[midnightgirl]

... in response to Re: Re: where are they now?MidniteGal, posted by greg on Jan 1, 2002

Hi Greg,

Yeah, i still remember you, a guy who had a baby to his Mahal.....

WEll Greg, i can't answer to your question because my experienced to my husband, how we met. It was just an amazing story. He had a penpal from Manila but he planned to stay in Cebu and when he arrived in Manila airport he's penpal never showed up so he went directly to CEbu without any penpal. A friend of mine who is a tour guide introduced us. By the way, it's not only me that he's dated with but he's  dated many women too in CEbu. As far as i knew he dated 6 women. On the first date we had, as i remembered that was Sept.15,1999, i already like him. I knew on my first date with him i could feel he is guy for me , personality wise he doesn't have that , he is a big man but he is good at heart, a never experienced man with women. He said to me that this was his first time to date with women.We went to SM mall , we ate in Chinese restaurant(Majestic Restaurant) since he liked chinese foods after that we went to Chinese temple in Lahug, Cebu then sent him back to the Hotel. For the first time he asked a kiss from me but i only let him kissed on my cheek and asked my tel.# but i told him i will call him back. So that evening i called him back and asked him if he did ate but he said no so he wanted me to come to his hotel that evening to ate with him but i said no because it is already evening and my parent's would not allowed me especially i lived from Cordova near in Lapu-Lapu City. It took  one hour to go to the hotel so i just told him to order pizza at Pizza hut and deliver to his room and i gave him the tel.# of the pizza hut that's it he ate with pizza which is his favorite, so we talked over the phone and asked me if i could go with him on the next day and i said yes. So on the next day, we went to Tambuli Beach Club, we spent together over there then he told me that he liked me and would like to go to my parents and asked permission that he will marry me. By the way, he did not know that he dated my sister too, he knew later after when he chose me and went to my parent's house. This is very common to a filipina when they choose the right man for them , we will introduce them to our parent's. You know spending two weeks with a man is not really enough co'z you don't know each other well but deep in my heart i really liked him and he liked me too. Now that we got married and were almost two years this year , i still love my husband,until now, he is calm person , he is not rich but what matters most is we help each other for better or worst.

You know even how short or long the engagement between man and woman if they are not for each other then they are not meant.

Well i guess the best part is if it is really for you , it's for you if not then it is not. Sometimes marriage has ups and down and when times gets rough make things work it out and it makes two to work it.I was really concern to Howard since Ayesa didn't help in order to save their marriage as i feel she didn't truly love her husband but rather she was forced maybe by her parent's not her own decision . You know , marriage is a life long partnership and if you want to enter a marriage then we really have to think many times because of the risk that brings odds especially when u marry a foreign husband or wife.

[Eman]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: where are they now?MidniteGa..., posted by midnightgirl on Jan 1, 2002

n/t

[Taliman/Dingo]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: where are they now?MidniteGa..., posted by midnightgirl on Jan 1, 2002

Thanks for your story. Nice to know you're still out there.
Have a great new year

[greg]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: where are they now?MidniteGa..., posted by midnightgirl on Jan 1, 2002

for sharing your beautiful story. Your Hubby was wise to hire a tour guide to introduce him to available Pinays, I really like that idea. I told myself if I ever looked again for another Filipina I would just hire a good, honest guide there in the Philippines and just go there without any Penpals. I feel that the Pinay Penpals already have many other Guys they are corresponding with, I rather just go and find Pinays that aren't on the internet or writing other Guys. Can You please tell us how we can find good tour guides? Yeah, I am very happy with my Son, but I feel bitter that my Mahal didn't tell me the truth that she was already married, I wanted to get married to a Filipina back in 1998 and I'm still single and unmarried. I really don't know what to do about my situation with my Son's Mommie, the Annulment is a real Pain. Sometimes I tell myself to start over, live and learn from this bad mistake. What do you think about my situation? MidniteGal, your story about Hubby hiring a guide is really helpful to Guys searching for true Love and Happiness in the Philippines smile. I think your a Gem, and I hope someday to marry a good Gal like Youself, so pls keep me in your prayers. I think if you start Posting more frequently, Guys will see that your a Gem same as Rachell. Both of You live on farms correct?? Do you know anything about buying a good cell phone here to text back and forth to RP? thanks, greg

[midnightgirl]

... in response to Thanks!! MidniteGal, posted by greg on Jan 1, 2002

Hi Greg,

If you want someone to meet with  just contact me with my e-mail address: merhl70@hotmail.com I can introduce you to somebody who is really available.

[Stephen]

... in response to where are they now?, posted by Taliman on Dec 29, 2002

They are doing fine. We've talked to them many times. Mizza and I exchange snail mails too (they sent us Christmas card & pictures). Mizza told me that after Sept 11 Darrel was more afraid of flying. Mizza is working now and having her driving lessons too.

Tess

[Taliman]

... in response to About Darrel & Mizza....tess, posted by Stephen on Dec 29, 2002

Thanks for the update!