Why do we argue

[Joeylikey]

I have posted on this site a few times but have read more than I have written. I am new to this so I am postive I will receive a lot of hate responses or at leat a few. At a time where the extreme left or those female he-shes, are trying to control things, why do we argue about how to spell Colombia. Is it a U that we insert somewhere.

Everybody is different and goes about their buisness in a different way. What's good for you may not be good for me.  And the same goes for you.

I met my wife in Cali. And yes, an average guy can marry a model and be extremely happy. Maybe I just got lucky but whatever the reason may be, we are happy. It is different from person to person. We are expecting our first child in three months and both of us are extremely happy.

If anyone would like to talk about Cali and the women please let me know. I Love South America. Not just Colombia but other coutries that I have visited. I have been to eight other countries.  I would love to talk about my experiences.

If you want to write to me about my grammar, please write to somebody else.

[Jamie]

... in response to Why do we argue, posted by Joeylikey on Nov 27, 2005

your post started an argument

[Fuzzyone]

... in response to Why do we argue, posted by Joeylikey on Nov 27, 2005

I really don't think anyone here was trying to bust your balls because you
spelled Colombia wrong. Most guys here spell words wrong in fact all the time
but one word here everyone wants spelled right is Colombia because that is the
country of our choice. If that really insulted you to have someone try to correct
you so at least you knew how to spell Colombia right you are in big trouble here.  
But as you can see my grammer can be poor at times too but I don't take person
my wife even laughs at me when I speak spanish and I say it wrong I take no
offense there is bigger things in life than that.

[zack]

... in response to Why do we argue, posted by Joeylikey on Nov 27, 2005

If I were a newbie I would be thankful if someone corrected my misspelling of "Colombia" as long as it were done in a respectful manner. Beyond that, we really don't give a shit about spelling nor grammar here.

[Pete E]

... in response to Why do we argue, posted by Joeylikey on Nov 27, 2005

I live in Cali and have said for as long as anyone will listen is that what we have is choices,the most choices,the most women seeking a gringo.ALSO,I will admit the most of everything,user women  taught to be that way by losers with a big wallet.Misfit gringos who think they are gods gift to a 21 year old.
BUt,if guys look  breyond the hot 30 I will call them,the girls at any agency that are getting all the attention because its seems every guys regardless of how ugly and fat and old thinks he should have the hottest girl,you willl find THPOUSANDS of good girls getting no attedntion.Im know,I got ONE of them,the only one I will ever need.SHE Never met a gringo before althought lots of armchair lotharios wrote her.
39,no kids,doesn't want any,proffesional,loves me to death.About right for a 62 year old who looks and thinks 50.
I met her at latin encounters.I suggest guys spring for the larger fee they demand and meet one of the 1250 women on their books,1200 of whoom ARE NOT bad NEWS.Save that money you wouolld throw at the hottie,get some REAL CHOICES.
And Craig,Buddy,congratualations.There are some smaller cities near Cali that are REAL UNTOUCHED GOLD MINES.

Pete

[utopiacowboy]

... in response to Cali,they good,the bad, posted by Pete E on Nov 27, 2005

Personally, from every thing you've written about her and from the photo off the web site, I think you did very well for yourself. VERY well. Your novia sounds like an absolute gem and she is a very attractive woman.

[Pete E]

... in response to Tienes razon, posted by utopiacowboy on Nov 28, 2005

Thank you.I am a lucky man.And since I commited to her everything has sort of magically fallen in place.Even though I am still recovering from surjury,it was a month yesterday and I am still weak but no other problem I am as happy as I have ever been.

pete

[WS244]

... in response to Cali,they good,the bad, posted by Pete E on Nov 27, 2005

Mine is 45 now, had never been married and no kids.  5 years ago when i met her, she had been on a website for over a year and had not one contact.  There are many good and good looking women of all types over 30 listed on agency websites who are never given a second look.  A Colombian woman not finding a good Colombian man is agency hype, no different than all the other sale pitches given to gringo's.  There are many good Colombian men.  One can go to any country and hear the same story, even the states, the reality being there are more women than men.

[Craig]

... in response to Why do we argue, posted by Joeylikey on Nov 27, 2005

[This message has been edited by Craig]

It's good to see a sucess story instead of reading all the posts from the asses who post on this board with regularity. Cali is a great fun city. I have taken many trip trips to Cali and it was great but the number of misfit gringos I've seen there is amazing. Guys looking for a Calena telling them they hate dancing, no spanish, no partying, long hair, poor dressers, and then thinking the women or agencies have the probelm and that they were deceived or taken advantage of.

I found a great women in another part of Colombia and what I enjoy is the lack of gringos who will travel there.
It's a great opportunity to meet beautiful, intelligent women without the hassels or gringo wacko's I have witinessed in Cali.

It's good to see you are happy and found sucess.

[Pete E]

... in response to Re: Why do we argue, posted by Craig on Nov 27, 2005

Craig,
I think you sent me a private mail but I can't find your address.I have  a guy very interessted in your experience.He wants to talk to you.Can you send me a mail with a phone number?

Pete
peiguren@aol.com

[Chris F]

... in response to Re: Why do we argue, posted by Craig on Nov 27, 2005

Most veterans here know my opinion that Cali would be far down the list of cities to visit NOW as far as "wife material" goes.

The past has had many success stories from Cali...including Hoda, Patrick, and DallasSteve to name a few...

You mention the large number of "Misfit gringos" and I feel that this is part of the problem lately. There is no doubt that misfit gringos are part of every city in South America...but it would be my guess Cali gets more then other cities. I also feel that gringos using Cali as a sex resort is more prevalent there then other cities as well.

The misfit gringo and the whoremongering gringo have contributed heavily in the last few years to the poisoning of the potential pool of once sincere women.

You can still find a sincere sweet woman in Cali as a wife. But it will be a more difficult situation there now compared to a few years ago.....

[Heat]

... in response to Agree with you Craig...., posted by Chris F on Nov 27, 2005

Most veterans here know my opinion that Cali would be far down the list of cities to visit NOW as far as "wife material" goes.[[

As you know I am a real veteran here as I lived in Colombia for years.

Cali is not spoiled or fished out.

This is absolute bullshit.  If you speak Spanish and get off the beaten track there are MILLIONS of smart, college educated women who have cars, good jobs and nice family's waiting for you to take them.  In my case 17 years younger and a Had a US Visa.  She is a great wife.

If you fish the agencies you may have a core group of players.. however if you don[t go for the model types and really look for quality you can find it easy.

Remember there are Millions of women in Cali who never have met a gringo.

But you have to be able to communicate with them.  That goes for any women.

Trust me on this.  I lived there.

[Chris F]

... in response to Amigo......., posted by Heat on Nov 28, 2005

Yes Heat...

I am very aware of fact  you lived there.

I will now compliment you one more time on the outstanding
posts you made about Cali last June.

You didn't exactly paint a rosie picture of the current
situation there Heat. While their were some positve comments
you made.....the overall theme was negative.

I never said it was impossible to find the right women
there...just more difficult.

You mention the "millions of smart educated women in Cali"
This is probably true. But the majority of them are not
looking for Gringos.

You lived in Cali Heat and it took you HOW MANY YEARS OR
MONTHS to find your beautiful and educated emerald???

Dont debate this wth me Heat......unless your going to tell
me that everything you posted in June was BULLSHIT

[Heat]

... in response to Oh Heat!!!, posted by Chris F on Nov 28, 2005

ok,  I would guess we agree in principle.  That there are still good girls in Cali.  BTW, I commend you for your approach in this process.  You learned Spanish and apporaced this in a very logical mannor.
And had great success.  I think you have made a wise choice in your wife.

[Chris F]

... in response to MI amigo, posted by Heat on Nov 28, 2005

Congrats to you as well....you found a real gem in Cali.You are a truly blessed!! I hope other guys take the time to learn the language and the culture before going to Cali or any other city in South America.........