marriage in Barranquilla

[Ray]

... in response to Re: Re: fiance visa, posted by Spanky on Oct 20, 2005

"why in the world do you want a spousal visa?"

When you look at it from the lady's point of view, there are many reasons to prefer a spousal visa over a fiancée visa. Your marriage will very possibly be much stronger if your stop to consider your partner's wishes also when deciding which visa to go for.

Ray

[Calipro]

... in response to Re: Re: fiance visa, posted by Spanky on Oct 20, 2005

Older or less attractive women with kids or even ones just past their prime will go for a fiancee visa.

Young hot women that have options won't normally go for a fiancee visa.

Your advice is good for someone going for a run of the mill broad but it won't fly with hot single women that have never been married and don't have children.

[soltero]

... in response to No wonder........, posted by Calipro on Oct 20, 2005

I usually agree with you, but this time I have to pass. If a woman is into you, she will go for what YOU want. Especially is you say that it is the only way it is going to happen. Young hottie or not. I always explain that they can have whatever marriage they want after the 90 days, but I have to have the 90 days. I haven't met one "young hottie" that didn't see the sense in that. All of that "traditional" BS aside ( I haven't met too many young beautiful Colombianas that I would call "traditional"), if they are into you and not just a greencard, they will work with you.

[Calipro]

... in response to Re: No wonder........, posted by soltero on Oct 20, 2005

"I haven't met one "young hottie" that didn't see the sense in that"

Well you haven't met my new girlfriend yet. hehehe!!

She is 18 but not all that typical. Her family is pretty well off. Both of her parents are living and working in Spain.

She moved in with me and her family went crazy. She lied and told them that we are going to get married. She told me that if we don't set a wedding date soon she is going to move out. Not only would she not come to the U.S. on fiancee visa but we have to get married in a Catholic church (no exceptions).

[Spanky]

... in response to Re: Re: No wonder........, posted by Calipro on Oct 21, 2005

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18? LMFAO!!!!! On second thought, I shouldn't laugh at our hero. I used to be the same wild and crazy guy. Of course, that was over 20 years ago during junior hockey days.

Oh yes, do do the right thing and marry this lucky lass. And when she hits 39 and looks over at your 63 year old shriveled pindick, she won't help but look back on her life and feel grateful that she was the one to land our mighty hero-Caliahole.

[Calipro]

... in response to Our hero strikes again..., posted by Spanky on Oct 21, 2005

Why is it that after I read your posts I always feel sorry for you. hehehe!!

If she lasts until she is 30 she will be the best I ever met. LOL !!!

With any luck I'll never know what a 39 year old dried up cu#t looks like. But you can tell us about it Spanky. hehehe !!

[soltero]

... in response to Re: Re: No wonder........, posted by Calipro on Oct 21, 2005

Congratulations on your new girl. Are you going to pull the trigger?

[Calipro]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: No wonder........, posted by soltero on Oct 21, 2005

I don't know yet.

I'm going to have to see how she holds up under normal wear and tear.

[soltero]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Re: No wonder........, posted by Calipro on Oct 21, 2005

LOL...Good luck and even though I know your philosophy on this, I hope you have found a keeper.

[Calipro]

... in response to Re: fiance visa, posted by Ray on Oct 19, 2005

A lot of beautiful young women that have never been married before will not go for the 90 day test drive. Plus their families would go crazy if they did it.

If you are going for a woman the is over thirty or has a kid what do they have to lose. They will probably go for it.

[Ray]

... in response to Re: Re: fiance visa, posted by Calipro on Oct 20, 2005

:=)

[buster40]

... in response to marriage in Barranquilla, posted by jey on Oct 19, 2005

Why would you want to drag all of us into this guys fraudulent conduct.  I'd stay away from this guy if I were you.

[buster40]

... in response to marriage in Barranquilla, posted by jey on Oct 19, 2005

What are you some FBI agent working undercover for a feminist Congressman?  lol

[Beattledog]

... in response to marriage in Barranquilla, posted by jey on Oct 19, 2005

why does it not get married in this country, until the proctection of  its's laws?

beattledog

[utopiacowboy]

... in response to marriage in Barranquilla, posted by jey on Oct 19, 2005

He doesn't want to get a certified copy of his divorce decree and yet he wants to go through with a wedding and all the attendant USCIS paperwork? Can't be done. Is he on a WANTED poster somewhere and he can't go to the local courthouse?