Seeker,
I know a lot of people have jumped on you including me..
As a single father of 2 little kids ( 6 and 9 ) and a widower of nearly 16 months.. This issue is very hard for me not to jump down your throat..
Your paisa girlfriend has a little girl of around 3-4 years old if I remember... My concern is that the little girl is seeing and feeling how her mother feels about you... She talks about you to her daughter etc....
If you are not sure of your paisa woman then let her go.. You have involved yourself by bringing her child on a trip with the two of you...
If you go after single mother's it is a package deal.. Her and her child....
When I meet any woman in the future , be it from Colombia , U.S. or Canada.... The number #1 thing she will know from me is that I am a package deal...
I don't care if she a model , if she does not show me and my children a lot affection , warmth and love... Then I will kick her to the curb....
I am looking for a potential wife and a step mother....
Seeker if you are not sure about this Paisa ( and her daughter )and if she is for you then be honest with her. I can understand your issue of you not being sure she is for you....
Be up front with the woman....
Yes you have to be careful and keep your options open.
I hope you find what you are looking for.....
Canadaman
