Okie do not go away mad.

[Canadaman]

Okieman,

Do not go away mad. A majority of posters here are trying to help you. I see some of myself in you Okie.
When I started posting on PBH www.poorbuthappy.com/colombia/ I got some flack.

I did not like it either at first. I was told learn Spanish and go to Colombia to have fun and don't worry about meeting a special lady for marriage.

Have fun and you will meet someone I was told.

I have been told by some people that being Divorced is a little like the loss of a spouse that has died.
I do not know if I agree with them but their might be something to it.

I have not dated in 15 months since my wife died. Yes , I have to get out their and put my best foot forward. My children are my main focus of my life right now.

It is hard to start over in life Okie but I am sure we will both do well in our love life in the future.

I apologized for my crude remark but with a background as a stand up comic in my younger days sometimes I speak or write before thinking....

I wish you the best and like I said I look forward to having a beer with you down in Medellin someday.

I do not think anybody here is trying to be cruel , mean or trying to chase you away.

I like the analogy of the baby bird getting pushed out of the nest... I need to take my next step also and start flying..

I can fly , I can fly......

Why do I HEAR THE VOICE OF THAT LITTLE MAN IN The FANTASY ISLAND TV SERIES WITH Mr. Ricardo M ?

The plane the plane................

[JaySlo]

... in response to Okie do not go away mad., posted by Canadaman on Oct 1, 2005

Okie,
What advice would you give a newbie?

[beenthere]

... in response to Okie do not go away mad., posted by Canadaman on Oct 1, 2005

sorry Canadaman, you'll NEVER see okieman in Medellín...as I told him in an earlier post, this latina search isn't for everyone, and I can see now it's NOT for Okieman.  I will make this prediction...he will NEVER have a successful relationship with a woman from South America, Russia, or Timbuktu for that matter.  He's a lost cause...thank God he's left the board...between him and Papi they are the most attention starved, drama queens that I've seen in awhile (and they are "supposed" to be men)...latin women don't want guys like this..they want strong, self-assured MEN.  Leave the drama for the women...

Good luck to both...they'll need it.

[A1A]

... in response to Re: Okie do not go away mad., posted by beenthere on Oct 2, 2005

I agree with you on both counts, O-Man is a lost cause, and the Ho-Man is a social train wreck, chasing teenagers and threatening their grandmothers with his muscle wingman.

[Hoda]

... in response to Okie do not go away mad., posted by Canadaman on Oct 1, 2005

With the exception of few, and I mean just a few...all have tried to help you, in their own way based on their experiences. Take a look at your words below...

"Besides, I have decided to quit posting here for a good while. It is not getting me the desired results, and it is obviously upsetting the apple cart; so to speak."

"Not getting me the desired results"...WTF is that suppose t mean, bro?!!!! Now you're pulling a "Clay" on us, by saying in so many words, that our help was a waste of your time! Just like Clay...fellas have offered too much in terms of hook-ups & advice only to have it thrown back in their faces! NOT KOOL!!!!! I have no doubt, that your heart is in the right place in regards to you wanting a loving & lasting relationship. But you gotta drop the baggage from past relationships, if you have ANY real intentions of success in the future.

O-Man "A Hard head, makes for a soft ass" & right now your ass will continue to take unnecessary whuppins if you don't relax & start taking vacations south! You really don't have anymore REAL questions, that need to be answered here!

take care....Hoda

[utopiacowboy]

... in response to Okie do not go away mad., posted by Canadaman on Oct 1, 2005

I agree with you. I wish him the best.