We hear all of this stuff about user scammer women in Cali.Its true,there are alot of them,probably more than any place else in Latin America,probably WAY behind eastern Europe.
But there are lots of really good women who would love to meet a goode guy. When I was having lots of trouble with my ex my friends wife told her Pete is good guy, if you don't want him there are LOTS of women who would like to have him.Fortunately that is true.Unfortunately it ended their friendship.My ex did not want to hear it.
I am very fortunate to have 2 VERY GOOD Women in my life.I know thats one too many.I will try and explain.I will get overly personal as you know I am not afraid to do.Screw the trolls that might use it against me.
Beatriz,my main girl is 39,a surgical nurse.She is short,shapely,cute and totally in love with me.She tells me all the time,Te amo mucho,mucho,mucho.Te caro mucho,mucho,mucho.When I was in the states she was here most every night waiting for my call or calling me on my vonage phone.She became good friends with my friend Soltero who was staying here. HE is a really really good guy,one of the best I have ever known who tells it like he sees it.He said she was always saying Pete,Pete,Pete.He say she is YOURS.He says I told her she oughta back off a little on the ass kissing,as only Soltero would put it.
We have been together 11 months.She has NEVER EVER given me one moments grief about anything.She is
ALWAYS there for me,gets disapointed if I am not in to sex.Recently my ulcerative colitis/crhons disease has acted up.I don't always feel like it.She understands.She says its OK,even if there was no sexo she would like to stay with me as I get old,take care of me.She doesn't care at all about my age.
We went to Imbanaco,the clinic where she works and I talked to my gastroenterologist.He wants to do a colonoscopy but with anthesiology.He has to pump me up with air and does not want me waking up in pain as I might on a sedative.I said OK,I don't like pain.When we went to schedule it they couldn't do it untill September 13.Beatriz says OK,we will do it in Emergency.She gets on the phone and gets it scheduled for September 6.The last proceedure she got me 40 % off by going up the line to her top boss.
For me affection is as important as sex.Sex is important,but it is a minor amount of the time.Affection can happen all the time.I love to hug her.She just fits.She never gets anoyed if I hug her in the night,always hugs back,just the opposite of my ex.I remember a defining moment with my ex,I used to call her my little angel. I loved to watch her sleep.One morning I woke up early.I waited 2 hours for her to wake up so I could hug her.When I did she acted like she was sleepy,don't bother me.So I thought OK,I will get up.As soon as I did she just bolted out of bed.She just didn't want me hugging her.She was not MY little angel.Funny I was thinking of this yesterday morning.Beatriz woke up and started hugging me,calling me her angelito.She never used that term before.Hmm.ESP?
I was telling my friend Jesse she is SO good to me I should not have another woman.He says I agree,what can I say,you are a smuck.
But I just have not yet been willing to give up my Angela.She is my FRIEND and lover.She is 30,most people might say a little heavy,but great lucious lips.I remember the line from "take it easy " by the Eagles. "4 that want to own me,2 that want to stone me,one says she's a friend of mine." I love that song.Passing through Winslow Arizona I had to stop and see the "Standing on the corner park."There is a statue of Don Henley with his guitar.A mural on the wall of a girl in a flatbed Ford."Its a girl my lord in a flatbed Ford slowing down to take a look at me." I bought a poster of it.Beatriz wants to own me,Angela is the friend of mine.She says things like unconditinal,as in unconditional love.She asks about Beartiz,she seems to have no jealousy about it.And sex is super,really something else.But I could give up that but so far I can not give her up.I usually see her once a week.She doesn't seem to mind.I appologise about the time,she says its OK,its compensatory,like its worth it too her.I keep thinking I will let her go but so far I just don't want to face it and nobody is forcing the issue.
So 2 really good girls,maybe one less than good guy.I never did this before.Only when one relationship was ending and another beginning would I ever have 2 girls in the states.But this is Cali,there are so many options.I NEVER lie to them about ANYTHING.I tell them ask if you want,be sure you want to hear the answer.So much jealousy is from lies.Then people wonder,start snooping,ect.Its much better to just be upfront.Many other women would not put up with this.These 2 do.I am very fortunate to have them.
Okieman,you left your Steve Earl,CD,I guess it was in my CD player when you were getting your things together.There is a song on it I really like,very appropriate for you I think,called "Fearless Heart"
"I got me a fearless heart,strong enough to get you through the scary part,Its been broken many times before,a fearless heart just comes back for more."
So all you guys don't fear,don't worry.Just get on a plane.Just keep keeping on.There is somebody for you,I found 2.
Keep your head,you will sort through the scammers to the many many good girls.
Pete
