... in response to Re: What Brazilian Women Want, posted by stefang on Aug 22, 2005Too add to this
When I was dating and almost brought my fiance on a visa here I saw a lot of what these women were like. I met one of my ex fiances friends who was dating and engaged to a German man. Nice man he had a business was generous with her but as soon as he left town she would go out with another younger friend, very pretty. She liked hanging out with her in clubs because she was picking up guys and helping her friend hook with with younger men as well. I wish I had the guys phone number I would have no problem calling him and telling him to run.
She was older 35 so hanging around with younger women gave her opportunities. Her other friends a lot were dating married men but would complain men are untrusting and they couldn't find a husband. Wake up if your dating married men why would you think they will suddenly marry you? I started wondering about my own fiance? Why is she hanging out with women like this?
The money thing is on. They won't mention it but you can see and feel that they want to be pampered in life. funny how demanding they are as women, they really don't do much themselves to warrant being treated like queens. For you guys that fall in love with their beauty and sensuality, in the future you might wake up from your dream to find out and realize you made a big mistake and it will be costly to support.
Brazilians about marriage. If you read what Brazilophile wrote from her words then you will understand how many of the women feel. What I sensed is a lot of Brazilian women marry more for convenience than true love. They will stay with you as long as you provide to all their wishes. If they do find another guy that may provide a better situation they may just leave you. I know there's stereotypes out there and you should not go by them fully but I would suggest most men would do better in any of the other South American countries.
Brazilian women like to complain about their men, but sometimes I wonder if they made the Brazilian men what they are by their own actions.
I spotted red flags in my relationship that made me realize there was a good possibility that my chances at long marriage were lower than dating here in America.