PL Rule #1 (Point B)

[jediknight]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: PL Rule #1 (Point B), posted by papi on Jul 24, 2005

buying small, inexpensive items is completely appropriate and i wanted to make sure that the newbies didn't take his rule literally.
its true that there are girls who will milk a gringo for all they can but it's the gringos fault, guys have to learn how to say no, learn not to let a pair of nice boobs or great ass control them, we can't blame it all on the girls, they may be smart and clever but we need to be more so.
JK

[papi]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Re: PL Rule #1 (Point B), posted by jediknight on Jul 24, 2005

i would agree with that...funny that you mention newbies. guys are always talking about protecting the newbies. how about us lifers? i really wonder how many newbies read the forums. i dont think many

[papi]

... in response to Re: PL Rule #1 (Point B), posted by Calipro on Jul 24, 2005

CP, i hear where you are coming from and i think you are on target for the most part but i think you need to let them slide with a cheek kiss on the first date. After that, if passion does not soon follow i would agree with most of your comments except i dont necessarily want it on the first trip - unless we take off together somewhere like San Andres. Your PL Rule is a probably the best contribution to this forum. In my case, i may just have to take that chance on a second trip back to BQ, not somewhere i relish returning but i like the chica i recently met there mucho. she is a doll

[jediknight]

... in response to PL Rule #1 (Point B), posted by papi on Jul 24, 2005

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i wouldn't want a woman that would sleep with me after the 2nd or 3rd trip, it just makes me wonder how many times shes slept with other guys before. that doesn't mean that i wouldn't want any kind of physical contact with her, it just means it would involve everything except intercourse.

many of these girls date alot of guys, they have to be choosy. also,sleeping with someone, especially if they are religious is difficult, the women feel pressured to do so and what if things don't work out, remember that their families have alot of influence over them and know what is going on. however, many will make out, caress and fondle you, even have oral sex if things are really good but actual intercourse will not happen, many religious girls try to find a balance between holding off and going all the way. if you see that the girl is not religious then you might expect sex right away, but i wouldn't want this type of girl, too easy and i would be afraid of leaving her alone if she were to open her legs so quickly, i wouldn't trust her.
JK

[utopiacowboy]

... in response to Re: PL Rule #1 (Point B), posted by jediknight on Jul 24, 2005

My wife has only slept with her two husbands but we agreed before we met the first time that we would sleep together. Of course we had also been talking about marriage so it was pretty serious. I have since found out that she told no one except her sisters that she was meeting me to go to San Andres - in case it didn't work out, she didn't want anyone else to know what had happened.

[papi]

... in response to Depends, posted by utopiacowboy on Jul 24, 2005

so you asked her ahead of time? i was wondering about that? But the lady i just met lives with her family and has a kid - I cant exactly ask her to sleep with me but I like the idea before making a second trip. she also works and cant get away for a few months

[bjsisko]

... in response to Re: Depends, posted by papi on Jul 24, 2005

Before we met physically, we had 3 months of daily emailing/chat/phone.  By the time I went to meet her she was already my girlfriend (in theory).  We talked of everything ahead of time.  A week before I arrived we were both counting down the days.  After I arrived it didn't take long before --- you know ... lol

I couldn't have written a better book.

[papi]

... in response to Yep!, posted by bjsisko on Jul 26, 2005

where are you at with it now??? your relationship??? how long???

[utopiacowboy]

... in response to Re: Depends, posted by papi on Jul 24, 2005

We talked about everything ahead of time right down to contraception. She's very practical-minded, my chemical engineer. There are places that you can go in Colombia for a little aventura - I've been dying to go to one of their "motels" and my wife promised we'd go next time we're in Medellin.

[papi]

... in response to Hell, yeah, posted by utopiacowboy on Jul 24, 2005

the love motels are fab - i never tried one in MDE but have in other areas. very clean and nice, Jacuzzi, steam the works

[Calipro]

... in response to Re: PL Rule #1 (Point B), posted by jediknight on Jul 24, 2005

I wouldn’t waste a lot of time trying to convince any woman to go to bed. They have to be into it or forget it.

With the long distances involved in these relationships it is really hard to get to know the women like you would if you where dating them in the states.  It seems to me that least that you could find out is whether the two of you are compatible in bed before spending to much of your valuable time with her.

First comes animal attraction. Then find out if you like the same music, movies, books etc.  

[jediknight]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: PL Rule #1 (Point B), posted by Calipro on Jul 24, 2005

i disagree, first find out if you have things in common,sense of humor, music, movies, etc. these are the things that you will be doing more over the course of a day, week, years in a long term relationship. ie marriage. you are not going to be screwing her 24/7, what is the point of a great f*** if you have nothing in common? that is short sighted. if two people are really into each other, the sex will be great.
JK

[papi]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Re: PL Rule #1 (Point B), posted by jediknight on Jul 24, 2005

JK, I have seen all to often that women in LA will waste a gringos time.  Look what happened to Okie – he blew an entire trip on one woman that was not really into him.  Showing passion early in the relationship helps answer that question – is she really into me or has nothing better to do or worse yet her Latino novio or husband for that matter does not have any pesos.  This is a treacherous road we travel.  Go forward with Eyes Wide Open

[papi]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: PL Rule #1 (Point B), posted by Calipro on Jul 24, 2005

when CaliPro speaks...gringos should listen