Some advice to the lurkers

[papi]

... in response to Some advice to the lurkers, posted by soltero on Jul 11, 2005

Soltero, i dont feel it is essential to learn Spanish to be successful at this. sometimes beginners have more luck then us old dogs.  I hooked up with a woman for 2 years when I did not speak any Spanish – I just was not in love with her.  But it can happen. How about the FSU guys - many i assume have relationships that work and I doubt many speak Russian. But agreed it sure helps.

Regarding scammers, some are not all that easy to spot. I had a women that I was dating for awhile and really was attracted to hit me up for money within seconds after getting intimate with her our first and only time. Her intentions were obviously not sincere but caught me by surprise. no red flags beforehand.

Having some game, yea - i have seen some guys with none. that helps.

when are yu going back? Cali?

[david hagar]

... in response to Some advice to the lurkers, posted by soltero on Jul 11, 2005

thanks for this wonderful post

beattledog

[Heat]

... in response to Some advice to the lurkers, posted by soltero on Jul 11, 2005

I could not have written it better myself.  This kind of knowledge comes from spending time living down here in Colombia.  A very insightful post.

You sir are a window past the agency bullshit into reality.  This is a must read for the newbies.

My hat is off to you.  Outstanding post!