where is the okieman .......

[OkieMan]

... in response to Re: Re: where is the okieman ....... , posted by jediknight on Jul 4, 2005

Jediknight,

Thank you for your words of encouragement.  Also, congratulations on your new found love. It is nice to know that someone is having success.  At some point, I will go again.  Between now and then, I will continue to work on not repeating my mistakes.

                           OkieMan

[Frank O]

... in response to Re: Re: where is the okieman ....... , posted by jediknight on Jul 4, 2005

I've taken a LOT of flak but hey man I'm not giving up. You just pick yourself up & get back on the horse (whor_s?)!! I just had a nasty one of 2 years & $30K go down the tubes. Well HER loss man. I just had a lady from Mexico I used to date years back call me up & wanted to meet my wife. Well, I told her she's history. Well she told me to call her back in an hour. I did I'm going over for dinner now. Her MOM invited me over. Her mom always wanted us to marry...anyways I've always been lucky to have THEM call me or write me. I don't believe in buying listings & writing them. I let THEM come to me man. Take out an ad & let them write you & YOU chooses who YOU want man.
But bottom line it's NOT the end of the world. I don't know what exactly happened to you but take the time you need & then reevaluate & start over man. A good marriage is TOO precious to NOT work for man. I had one at one time & I want that back. Keep your chin up man.

[doombug]

... in response to I agree, I share that attitude, posted by Frank O on Jul 4, 2005

"I just had a lady from Mexico I used to date years back call me up & wanted to meet my wife."

I dated a Mexicana for five years, and once received an out-of-the-blue email similar to your phone call.  Looking back (and I do this often with her), she was the greatest girl I ever met.  A young lady with a character of gold.  

Mexican women are underated.  Though they don't come off as glamour girls, they make up for it in other areas.

Tough shell, soft heart.  

[utopiacowboy]

... in response to Re: I agree, I share that attitude, posted by doombug on Jul 5, 2005

is they are usually just not that interested in gringos. I had a Mexicana novia for a while and she was a wonderful woman. She just didn't have that indefinable quality that knocked my socks off the way my wife does. In fact, I met my wife on an internet site while looking for Mexicanas who lived nearby. After that it was adios for the Mexicanas.

[papi]

... in response to Re: Re: where is the okieman ....... , posted by jediknight on Jul 4, 2005

It is interesting to note your comment on so many beautiful women in Colombia. Aside from maybe the upper class beauties in Medellin, I have seen far more stunners from Colombia actually in Panama. Far better looking than I have seen in Colombia except for maybe Medellin. Panama attracts the cream of the crop in the looks Dept from all over Colombia but unfortunately most are working in the brothels - that is what attracts them to Central America. Dollars over pesos

[MarkNJ]

... in response to cream of the crop , posted by papi on Jul 4, 2005

Hmmmm...  might be a good thing... not mind kind of marriage material anyway...