Child support to the Philippines

[Mars]

... in response to Peace..., posted by Dave H on Nov 20, 2001

Cool Man....Nice to make your acquaintence. No offense meant from here either.

[Dave H]

... in response to Peace..., posted by Mars on Nov 20, 2001

Are you from MI? I was raised not far from Howard.

Dave H.

[Mars]

... in response to Same here..., posted by Dave H on Nov 20, 2001

Yes sir! Southeast Michigan.

[Dave H]

... in response to Re: Same here..., posted by Mars on Nov 20, 2001

Southcentral MI here. I live in South FL now.

[Jimbo]

... in response to Close..., posted by Dave H on Nov 20, 2001

"I Got a Gaaaal, In Kalamazoo"

[Dave H]

... in response to Nobody in the SW?, posted by Jimbo on Nov 21, 2001

that lives on a hill. She won't do me but her sister will..."  8o)ZZZZZ

[Dave H]

... in response to Nobody in the SW?, posted by Jimbo on Nov 21, 2001

I will have him check on your gal. LOL I wonder if Howard and Mars drink Vernor's Ginger Ale?

Dave H.

[Mars]

... in response to Choose #1, posted by Mars on Nov 20, 2001

....on your perspective too. Choose whatever one you wish.

[Dave H]

... in response to Re: Re: yeah right wench..., posted by Mars on Nov 20, 2001

Wench:
1 a : a young woman : GIRL b : a female servant
2 : a lewd woman : PROSTITUTE

[panther]

... in response to Re: Child support to the Philippines, posted by NW Jim on Nov 19, 2001

Thanks for the tips.  I know the child support is that way here but I hope it is not based on that for sending to a 3rd world foreign country. I will be sending a doctor's wages over there and I'm sure the money will go for other than what it was intended.  When the other sister here was suppose to send money over there for her kids, her dad quit working and was going to stay home.  This stopped when the sister wasn't regular on her payments.  With good old reliable me however the whole family will be able to take an early retirement.

[Mars]

... in response to Re: Re: Child support to the Philippines, posted by panther on Nov 19, 2001

Keep the kid. You will empower yourself and your child. Let your child go and you are those nut cases emotional and finacial puppet. Do you really want to live like that in the middle of life?

[Bubba]

... in response to Child support to the Philippines, posted by panther on Nov 19, 2001

If what you say is true about her saying she would harm the baby and you either has a witness of a tape recordingof that then here's what you should consider.

Call the "Childrens proective service" and let them come in and take custody of the child, then you can deal with her and maybe send her back alone.

[Mars]

... in response to Re: Child support to the Philippines, posted by Bubba on Nov 19, 2001

They will investigate it too. Go to a cop shop and get yourself outfitted with some eavesdropping devices or one of those hidden cams. Yeah man....Better they have the kid than her. You will stand a better chance of custody with that type of evidence.

[Howard]

... in response to Child support to the Philippines, posted by panther on Nov 19, 2001

P~

Your lawyer just gave you some good advice!  THINK about what you are talking about doing.  You know what's going on with me,  but let me say one thing for sure... If we had been blessed with a child already, Ayesa would've gone home A-L-O-N-E!

I will plead ignorance, because it suits me lately.  I don't know your situation, but speaking for myself, my wife would have to pry my child out of my cold, dead arms!  If she wants a divorce, fine.  If she wants support, fine as well.  I can even understand where you might think a child might be better off with their mother in a single parent situation, although I don't a agree. (Again, I don't know you personal situation) But to let your wife take you child to be raised in a foreign country? Are you CRAZY?  If you piss her off, you may never, ever see your child again.  EVER!  She could move to one of the millions of nooks or crannies in the Philippines--Mine's lost in MANILA!--and you would never be able to find her.  Don't count on your in-laws for support or honesty, they may be fine people, but that are HER family.  All they might view you as is someone who is trying to take their grandchild away!

IMHO, a child belongs in the best possible enviroment that gives them every possible advantage.  Sure, the Phillippines have charm, but it IS a 3rd world country.

Just think about it dude.  I don't mean to be harsh, but I just have trouble believing you'd give up your kid that easily.

Good luck

H

[greg]

... in response to Are you crazy?, posted by Howard on Nov 19, 2001

Your the voice of wisdom. I'm now 100% positive for getting my Son out of RP. You know what??? Filipinos in the Philippines would disagree with your Post, they feel that the child should be with the Mommie no matter what. They continue to give my Son's Mother a hard time for letting him come here without her. But people in the States said that we did the right thang.