Hottie Happinest

[latinadreaming]

With all the talk about happiness I was thinking how many guys have truly been happy with a hottie!  I don't  know anyone personally, but the people who have brought back Calenas and they are very happy, are not with hotties.  I know two people that had brought over hotties, but it did not last.  One was a very bad decision by the guy IMHO. He did not see that the girl was not into him; and I do not know the details of the other, but they are not together.

My question is-- can love be found with a hottie!!!!
The one guy I questioned about this said it did not last long but I sure enjoyed the ride!!

The hotties are the ones we chase, but are they the ones they are best to bring back??

Who has a hottie that has last??  Can love be found with a hottie???

[Throw]

... in response to Hottie Happinest, posted by latinadreaming on Jun 29, 2005

Absolutely you can find love with a gorgeous, young, ridiculously hot, girl. (Please do not misinterrupt what I am writing for bragging, I am just trying to establish what you can find) My wife is hot. Has done some modeling, been in magazines and on websites etc.  Has the whole package.  There are guys on this board that know her and will vouche for her quality top to bottom.  She is cool, easy going, not jealous, loving and caring.  There is a 20 year difference between us.  She is now 21 going to be 22, been together 6 years.  Will be married 5 years in Sept.  She was obviously young and extremely hot when I met her.  Now she is even better looking.  I speak pretty good spanish, when I met my wife she spoke no English.  I leanned spanish by taking lessons.  Now she is in her second year of college, after first learning English for 2 years here in the states.  She wants to work but right now school is more important than $250 a week working in the mall. We have no children and will wait until she finishes college before possibly starting that chapter.  She is great and loves me more than any other woman has ever loved me.  Of coarse we have our issues with each other but they are little things that hopefully time will cure.  Will it last, who knows what the future holds for any of us.  I am surprised we have made it this long.  It is a tribute to her and her upbringing because I am sure I can be a difficult person at times (as we all can be).  She is not from a rich family, just average.  They are all wonderfully warm and gracious people who are a direct reflection of who she is. (Let me add that if for some crazy reason it does not work out in the end, it WON'T be because of her age or her looks!!)

IMOP the key is not the Hottie issue but a maturity issue.  Where is her head at?  Does she truly love you?  Does she do the things that passes the snuff test in your mind? Does she go that extra mile to make sure you are comfortable with the relationship while the two of you are apart?  Does she put your fears and anxiety's to rest by being accountable for her time whenever you may call?  Are you the number one priority to her? Does she ever ask you for money or to buy things?  These are the things you need to be looking for.

My advice is to pursue ONLY the girls that rock your world.  The one's that really turn you on.  The one's you can't stop thinking of.  Then start weeding out the idiots i.e. the one's that do not pass the snuff test. Trust me, there are plenty to choose from.  I think younger girls have the potential to make great wives because they are more open to change and adapt easily then say a women who might be a bit older and a little more set in her ways.  There are many, many guys that don't read or need this board anymore or who read but simply don't post that have very hot wifes and are happy...

[thundernco]

... in response to Hottie Happinest, posted by latinadreaming on Jun 29, 2005

It can happen, but you have to have qualities too (and I'm not talking about looks either).  If going to the mall and getting followed around by groups of teenage boys, getting winks from viejos verdes, having the neighbor/random pukes hit on her; if that means that my wife is a hottie then I have one.  

We're happily married, have kids and we expect it to last.  I'm a little jealous, but nothing compared to her.  The key for me was communication (much easier to weed out the  when you can speak their language and know their culture), doing a check up from the neck up, knowing what I wanted in a partner and not delineating much from that, and some luck.  What I got was a calm drop-dead hottie, from a good and close-nit family, with similar morals and values.  That doesn’t mean there aren’t problems from time to time, as in all marriages, but we do plan on a life together as a family. -TNC

[latinadreaming]

... in response to Re: Hottie Happinest, posted by thundernco on Jun 30, 2005

Glad to hear a hottie success story!  Sounds like you really got to know her and her family?  May I ask the age difference between you and how long did you date before you married her.

[thundernco]

... in response to Re: Re: Hottie Happinest, posted by latinadreaming on Jun 30, 2005

Actually, yes I developed a very good relationship with her parents and immediate family.  So much so that when I asked her parents for her hand in marriage, her mother told me "with this daughter yes, my other daughter would not make a good wife to any man."  

My wife is 11 years my junior, and we dated about a year and a half or so with me living in Cali a good part of the time.  What really built trust for me was that when we were apart, I would call her home (she still lived with her parents), every night.  If she wasn't home I would call her grandmother's home.  I would always find her by the second call.  No calling a cell phone, no set times, at all hours, and even an occasional drunk dialing episode to tell her I missed her.  -TNC

[latinadreaming]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Hottie Happinest, posted by thundernco on Jun 30, 2005

This is a great point to the newbies and the uninformed.  If you call and she is not home at night with no explanation alot.....think about it.  Thanks for sharing.

[utopiacowboy]

... in response to Hottie Happinest, posted by latinadreaming on Jun 29, 2005

Personally I think my wife is the hottest chick in the universe. Other guys might not walk across the street to look at her. Take Penelope Cruz for example - I think she's as good as it gets but plenty of guys tell me she doesn't do anything for them. I say, go for the chick that knocks your socks off.

[Jake]

... in response to Yes but what's a hottie?, posted by utopiacowboy on Jun 29, 2005

PENELPOE CRUZ DOES A LOT FOR ME !!!!!!!!!!!!

[Jamie]

... in response to Hottie Happinest, posted by latinadreaming on Jun 29, 2005

This could get complicated but lets say the difference between a hot woman and an average woman is the hot woman will get much more attention from men. This attention elevates her perceived value and she in turns knows she can attract a higher caliber of man. If you in turn have good qualities that would get the attention and emotional commitment of women you should be able to hold on to what you want with all other factors being compatible.

Hot women will be hit on daily if one feels threatened or bothered by this then they are probably going to have problems. As you know a hot woman that does not match up with all your other personal and emotional requirements is not hot.

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[Jake]

... in response to Hottie Happinest, posted by latinadreaming on Jun 29, 2005

every body description of a hottie can be different . I have showed a few photos of my babe and soem sayd she is Ok  .. but Papi and Heat think different . she is not here yet so we will have to see .

[utopiacowboy]

... in response to Re: Hottie Happinest, posted by Jake on Jun 29, 2005

All that matters is what you think, Jake. If you think she's a hottie, she is!

[Jake]

... in response to Re: Re: Hottie Happinest, posted by utopiacowboy on Jun 29, 2005

i AGREE SHE IS HOT TO ME AND I AM HOT FOR HER . JUST COUNTING THE DAYS TILL SHE IS HERE .......

[sisko]

... in response to Re: Re: Re: Hottie Happinest, posted by Jake on Jun 29, 2005

I feel the same.  Can't wait till she's here.  Interview in 2 weeks!  I have been with my fiance for 2 years, and YES she does get hit on multiple times DAILY!  Annoys the living sh#%#  out of me but what can you do?  However she seems to keep them in line.

Is she hot?  Well, you have all seen my pictures (lol)!