... in response to Re: Re: what city in Peru, posted by papi on Jun 26, 2005I brought my wife over after 2 years of knowing each other 1 1/2 years of being married. 12 days after her arrival here she was unfaithful. I mean REALLY wasted no time. She was very disrespectful, drank alcohol like it was water (literally!), woke up past noon everyday...well I could go on & on but the bottom line is it simply did NOT work out. 3 days after arriving in the USA she was crying like a baby about wanting to go home. Always complained of the heat. Heck I live in Texas man!! Anyways for my sake & for HER safety I sent her back to Urkaine. She was here 5 weeks & it was a devastating 5 weeks. I've heard many horror stories of guys getting scammed etc but my case was by far one of the worse. For one it happened TO ME!
BEFORE coming over here she wanted $7K or $8K "in case things don't work & we get a divorce I have something for when I return to Ukraine". Well sure enough that # came up again here. Of course I did no such thing.
Anyways being a musician & all that comes with it I would have figured if there were to EVER be infidelity it would have been from me during a weak moment. Well that was NOT the case. AT least I can hold my head high on that one.
I also am Latino so I'm very much into the hugging, holding hands etc thing. From what I've see Uke women are not like that. Sometimes I'd tell my wife "Come over here & give me hug" to which she'd reply "You are like a little child". WTF?!
Sorry but I'd like my women to be LITTLE more loving that that. Sex was GREAT!!! I will confess that. But it makes me wonder how she got that way. WHen I first married her she was 18 & was very "green". Now she is an expert. I know she could NOT have learned all that with me.
To top it off she is now pregnant. Can't be mine the dates & #'s don't add up. Basically I had to get rid of her.
Anyways I figure I'll stick to a Latina, in other words one of my "own". I don't know why I DID wind up with a Ukrainian. I should have married a Mexican or something from all the ones I've dated.
ANyways in an embarrassing nutshell that's what bring me here now. I'm hoping to find a FAITHFUL loving wife who has more in common with me. For one at least we can speak Spanish with each other & I don't have to worry about who's on the phone with her as I can understand what is being said!!;-)
