... in response to Re: Re: Re: Re: 21 year old Barranquilla..., posted by fred757 on Apr 21, 2005Fred
Personally I don't think that there are more bi-sexual women in Cali than anyother place I have been.
I don't think it is a good idea to try and pick up women in discos unless you really know what you are doing. I think most guys here could get themselves into trouble.
Sometimes you can hit it off with another goup of people in a club or casino and they will invite you to a private party afterward. Again this is not a good idea unless you like to think of yourself as the master of judging others intentions.
The only visual cues are does my girl think the other woman is attractive. I have seen her get turned down and recieve kind of a negative reaction.
She usually just chats with them a while to warm them up and then pops the question. What she really likes to do more than anything is go out and watch strippers.
The last time we went out we picked up a chick that wasn't even bi-sexual. She was just open minded and agreed to come home with us. She wss just OK with being with me while my girlfriend was with me also. She wasn't interested in actually having sex with another woman.
Well to make a long story short my girlfriend ended up getting jealous and locking herself in another room. That's when I found out she wants to change the game play. She doesn't really want to go picking up women with me anymore. I guess she wants to be strictly heterosexual now:-(
I have never been to a swingers club in Cali and to tell you the truth I'm not all that interested in it. I guess the idea is to go into one and try and trade up. You know go in with a 6 and come out with a 10. It sounds like a tuff business.
