... in response to Removal of the conditional basis of your..., posted by Hoda on Mar 14, 2005Howard,
Ours was little different.We got an interview 9 months after we applied.They said we called you in for an interview because there was insufficient evidence in your submittal.We convinced them it was for real pretty quickly,lots of photos including the wedding.They said Ok,we accept your evidence.My ex got a 10 year permanent resident card in the mail in about a month.I don't know thenumber on it.Even that gets automatically renewed I think.She can only lose it by commiting a felony or being out of the country more than 6-12 months,something like that.
So I am a little confused if you have approval why you need an interview.Maybe someone can enlighten us.
Incidentally,it was about 3 months after she got her permanent residency card and less a than a month after our last trip to Colombia that she finally admitted the truth in counsoling.That she had no romanttic feelings for me and that wasn't likely to change,No surprise to me.Why I spent over 2 years in counsoling to get her to admit what I already knew I don't know.I just didn't want to give up on it so was willing to accept if not believe lies to the contrary.And the f - - king ditsy assed counsoler.Over 2 years and I have to frame the question to get the truth out of her.Pisses me off because I KNEW better all along.
So much for proffesionals.I have met some real incompetents in the last few years with big credentials.
They are a resource but never overide your judgement and gut feelings because of anything they do or say.
Pete