Panama: An alternative meeting place

[mambocowboy]

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For a guy who's new to this site, you sure talk a lot of smack and show little discourse. Or maybe, you're someone who's been kicked off this site or black balled and came back with a different name, therefore Admin should pay attention & look into you. The first week you joined as a "Probie" you had zero visits to Colombia and talked big about what you knew, then a couple days later, you have 1-3 visits all of sudden. That means you lied when you filled out your profile the first time, then got discovered and corrected it. Who hasn't chimed in on PL lately who usually does, and always has something to say, then all of a sudden some nobody called "Awesome" comes along and thinks he's the HNIC. I think whomever is missing, IS, Awesome & trolling as usual.       
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I think it might be Htown trolling again.

[Stevieboy]

I think it might be Htown trolling again.

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Ha! That's what I think too. This is why it's dangerous to post pictures on a site, and I shouldn't have. You never know who's lurking in the dark. I Pmed Dan couple days ago to erase the pics, but he hasn't answered. Where are they when you need them?   

[Awesome]

  They're attracted to American men, period. 

This is what you said stevieboy.  Then you admitted that you came to this conclusion because you "dated" a whopping 3 women (in person lmao) from meetagringogetavisa.com and that's how you became the guru on dating colombian women.


I'm simply saying that you're wrong and that you have nowhere near the experience to make a statement like that.  Why do you get so pissed when I call you out bro?

[JamesDonut]

Congrats Stevie!  That's quite a story and some nice pics.  Experiences like that can be scary but its a relief when it turns out good.

NICELY DONE STEVIE! I knew when we first started talking you were dead serious about finding someone. Congrats!
 
And by the way gents...I've been harping on Neiva for as long as I've been posting here. If you're willing to travel off the beaten path, the women there are spectacularly beautiful. Neiva is a pageant town.

I'll actually be in Neiva in about 2 weeks.  I'll start my own trip report not to heist this one.

[michaelb]

You're right about one thing I definitely am the HNIC!!!!

Now there's one I haven't heard in a long time......are you sure anybody here except you and I even knows what it means?

[beulah]

The pictures are great stevieboy. Your goat tee looks just fine and obviously didn't hinder you.    Awesome is just trying to rain on your parade and trip you up. 

[Stevieboy]

The pictures are great stevieboy. Your goat tee looks just fine and obviously didn't hinder you.    Awesome is just trying to rain on your parade and trip you up.

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Thanks, the moderators need too pay attention to this guy's profile. He's hazardous.

[benjio]

Come on dude you can't be serious.  I know plenty of americans living in colombia and they have a hard time pulling decent looking chicks.

I know Americans like that too...but they have a hard time pulling decent looking women everywhere.

[benjio]

Now there's one I haven't heard in a long time......are you sure anybody here except you and I even knows what it means?

I know what it means. A guy giving himself a name like Awesome and quoting Rick Ross lines has to be the "Head" of something...jijijiji. 
 
Your profile says 1-3 trips Awesome, but you're claiming you know more than another guy that took 1-3 trips?

[Awesome]

The one and only thing I disagreed with is this

They're attracted to American men, period.

As far as his story and pics I liked them just as much as anybody else here.

[Awesome]

I know Americans like that too...but they have a hard time pulling decent looking women everywhere.

That's exactly my point.  Simply being american isn't going to make colombian women want you.  It can give you a small advantage and your money might stretch a little farther in colombia but the idea that "colombian women are attracted to american men, period" simply isn't true.

[Awesome]

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Ha! That's what I think too. This is why it's dangerous to post pictures on a site, and I shouldn't have. You never know who's lurking in the dark. I Pmed Dan couple days ago to erase the pics, but he hasn't answered. Where are they when you need them?

Lmao!!  Please tell me what in the world is dangerous about posting your pictures?  What do you think, I'm going to go down to panama and jump out of the water in a frogman suit and embarrass you in front of your friends on your tour boat?  Lighten up dude, it's not that serious.


And if you really want to take them down I think you can take them down from the hosting site.  I'm not sure if that works but you can try.

[robert angel]

I know what it means. A guy giving himself a name like Awesome and quoting Rick Ross lines has to be the "Head" of something...jijijiji. 
 
Your profile says 1-3 trips Awesome, but you're claiming you know more than another guy that took 1-3 trips?

OK--I'll grant that he's the 'head'--the 'boss on top' for today, anyway. Give him that--he's not going to be here much longer at this rate.......
 
But let's not forget--Life is like a tree of monkeys. The monkey on top looking down sees a bunch of smiling faces.
 
But the monkeys looking up----they just see an azzhole....

[mambocowboy]

Lmao!!  Please tell me what in the world is dangerous about posting your pictures?  What do you think, I'm going to go down to panama and jump out of the water in a frogman suit and embarrass you in front of your friends on your tour boat?  Lighten up dude, it's not that serious.


And if you really want to take them down I think you can take them down from the hosting site.  I'm not sure if that works but you can try.

of course you don't think it's serious Htown. You posted that video of your girl that she was clearly uncomfortable with you filming....

[fathertime]

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Ha! That's what I think too. This is why it's dangerous to post pictures on a site, and I shouldn't have. You never know who's lurking in the dark. I Pmed Dan couple days ago to erase the pics, but he hasn't answered. Where are they when you need them?

Dan has been very good in the past about taking pictures down of mine...I used to leave them up for a few days and then he would take them down...I would notify him in advance and wait for a reply...


Yeah pics can come back to bite you...I  once posted a pic or 2 of me and my wife (we are engaged at the time)I had a member here cut my head out and put it on a pig or donkey or something stupid like that and post it here...it is probably still in the archives somewhere...there are other things more harmful an obsessed 'fan' could do, so I consider myself lucky....that said, it is really good of you to post the pics in the first place.


Fathertime!

[Stevieboy]

Dan has been very good in the past about taking pictures down of mine...I used to leave them up for a few days and then he would take them down...I would notify him in advance and wait for a reply...

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Good to know he's on top.. There's too many crazies out there, and sometimes you leave yourself open and expose yourself more than you should. There's still all those people who never post and look in from the outside that could be collecting info of where you live, what you do for a living, and steal your identity, or worse. Didn't PL just put a message out about background checks? I thought I saw something like that.   

[stnmasn]

sorry Stevie but shorts and tshirts.  you really looked shabby to me in the pics. You dress like that to go out and you are 43…...  i am a builder and am daily super grungy and wearing super grungy clothes... but if I leave the house  to go out then I want to wear something decent if not something very nice. I am no longer in my twenties and crummy tshirts are a lousy/lazy fashion statement.
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 The clothing you wear in Your pics are not a good example of what to wear when trying to  find a woman in Colombia. The women notice those things big time whether its in the USA or Colombia.


 the pic with her in nice black dress and you in those shorts,,,,, sorry but i dont understand it.


Dressing down is one thing but dressing shabbily is another. I am sorry to be so harsh but this is a bad bad example for others who intend to travel SOTB looking to make a good impression with an attractive woman.


I also dont know if   "They are attracted to Americn men period"   is a totally accurate statement.

[Stevieboy]

sorry Stevie but shorts and tshirts.  you really looked shabby to me in the pics. You dress like that to go out and you are 43…...  i am a builder and am daily super grungy and wearing super grungy clothes... but if I leave the house  to go out then I want to wear something decent if not something very nice. I am no longer in my twenties and crummy tshirts are a lousy/lazy fashion statement.
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 The clothing you wear in Your pics are not a good example of what to wear when trying to  find a woman in Colombia. The women notice those things big time whether its in the USA or Colombia.


 the pic with her in nice black dress and you in those shorts,,,,, sorry but i dont understand it.


Dressing down is one thing but dressing shabbily is another. I am sorry to be so harsh but this is a bad bad example for others who intend to travel SOTB looking to make a good impression with an attractive woman.


I also dont know if   "They are attracted to Americn men period"   is a totally accurate statement.

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Too bad my wear offends you. She wasn't wearing a black dress. She was wearing a pool gown with a bathing suit underneath as we had come from there to the hotel balcony. If you'll notice, you'd see she's also wearing her pool flip flops. And in other pictures I'm dressed "shabby" as you say on an island tour, and she's also wearing shorts because she likes to wear them. If you had also read this thread fully, you'd know my point is not not to dress well, but for a man to dress his own style and he doesn't necessarily have to shave his mustache or goat-t or whatever. I also mentioned she didn't have many nice clothes, so I dressed down on purpose.  If you had also seen pictures I've posted in the past with Colombianas, you'd see that I was not dressed "shabby", I was dressed for the occasion with a smiling Colombiana who stayed with me. Who makes the rules for how a man travels abroad, You? Laughable.         

[bcc_1_2]

sorry Stevie but shorts and tshirts.  you really looked shabby to me in the pics. You dress like that to go out and you are 43…...  i am a builder and am daily super grungy and wearing super grungy clothes... but if I leave the house  to go out then I want to wear something decent if not something very nice. I am no longer in my twenties and crummy tshirts are a lousy/lazy fashion statement.
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 The clothing you wear in Your pics are not a good example of what to wear when trying to  find a woman in Colombia. The women notice those things big time whether its in the USA or Colombia.


 the pic with her in nice black dress and you in those shorts,,,,, sorry but i dont understand it.


Dressing down is one thing but dressing shabbily is another. I am sorry to be so harsh but this is a bad bad example for others who intend to travel SOTB looking to make a good impression with an attractive woman.


I also dont know if   "They are attracted to Americn men period"   is a totally accurate statement.

I'm not going to comment on anyone's photos unless they specifically ask for advice. But dressing the part in Latin America is important and I agree with you on it. The discount stores have $30 CK button down shirts and designer jeans/slacks. How you dress is important. I am very anti shorts while traveling as well. Heck I even had linen Perry Ellis clothes for the beach. I only wore trunks if I was getting in the water.
Based on how I saw a lot of gringos dressed they aren't taking this very good advice on dressing.
This won't apply to most but if you are looking at some really high end clubs you can find some Armani Exchange button downs online for $50 to $70.

For the older guys that don't do the club scene that is still no excuse to look like so many gringos that dress like slobs. Go get something with a collar... Izod is a pretty decent example you can find anywhere.
Guys are spending $$$ for hotel, flight, etc and they need to make sure they dress the part too. This really isn't optional.
I'm sure stnmasn knows the deal. If you got muscles rock them with a short sleeved collared Armani Exchange shirt. I don't wear pink, but I'm not afraid of color and I suggest you let the color be your "bling" in the club.
I urge everyone to get some fresh threads (with a collar) before traveling. Make sure your kicks are new looking too.
Guys if you are dating 10 or 12 years younger you need to dress 10 or 12 years younger. That might mean getting some help if you need it.

[mambocowboy]

sorry Stevie but shorts and tshirts.  you really looked shabby to me in the pics. You dress like that to go out and you are 43…...  i am a builder and am daily super grungy and wearing super grungy clothes... but if I leave the house  to go out then I want to wear something decent if not something very nice. I am no longer in my twenties and crummy tshirts are a lousy/lazy fashion statement.
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 The clothing you wear in Your pics are not a good example of what to wear when trying to  find a woman in Colombia. The women notice those things big time whether its in the USA or Colombia.


 the pic with her in nice black dress and you in those shorts,,,,, sorry but i dont understand it.


Dressing down is one thing but dressing shabbily is another. I am sorry to be so harsh but this is a bad bad example for others who intend to travel SOTB looking to make a good impression with an attractive woman.


I also dont know if   "They are attracted to Americn men period"   is a totally accurate statement.

wow.  I think if a guy's in Panama where the humidity is ridiculous he can wear shorts if he wants to. He's dressing comfortably and I assume like he does at home. Why should he dress to impress now and then switch things up later? As far as I know Stevie's looking for a long term relationship. The point that he was making is don't change who you are just to please a woman. I shaved my chest for some gringas back in the day. I found a Colombiana who loves my chest hair. Stevie found a Colombiana who digs his goatee and his casual style...You act like he's committed some major faux pas and is giving gringos a bad name merely by the way he dresses. There are a lot of worse things gringos do than that...

[mambocowboy]

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Guys if you are dating 10 or 12 years younger you need to dress 10 or 12 years younger.

I couldn't disagree more. Woman who like mature guys want them to act mature. Trying to be "trendy" or dressing younger will turn those women off. Guys, be yourself and you will find the woman who will you accept you instead of trying to change you. It's so much better that way...

[bcc_1_2]

and she's also wearing shorts
 
Who makes the rules for how a man travels abroad, You? Laughable.       

He probably should have said you dressed "casual" that would have been more fair. And it is true that you weren't on the prowl.
And OF COURSE when it comes to women they can wear short dresses and show off their legs. That is a double standard and I love it
What stnmasn wrote could have come off more friendly but when it comes to dress in Latin America there is a "rulebook" for sure. For guys preparing for a trip they would be smart to he his dressing advice.

[bcc_1_2]

I couldn't disagree more. Woman who like mature guys want them to act mature. Trying to be "trendy" or dressing younger will turn those women off. Guys, be yourself and you will find the woman who will you accept you instead of trying to change you. It's so much better that way...

Every woman is going to judge guys in her own ways. But let's be serious for a minute. Go look up a hush puppies tennis shoe versus a nike shoe. If you are attracted to the hush puppies you might want to consider help. There are hair cuts and clothing that ages people and ones that make them look younger. This is true for women and men. My advice is to try and put your BEST foot forward.

[Stevieboy]

He probably should have said you dressed "casual" that would have been more fair. And it is true that you weren't on the prowl.
And OF COURSE when it comes to women they can wear short dresses and show off their legs. That is a double standard and I love it
What stnmasn wrote could have come off more friendly but when it comes to dress in Latin America there is a "rulebook" for sure. For guys preparing for a trip they would be smart to he his dressing advice.

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His dressing advice? Also laughable. Mc is right in that it was humid, and we were on the coast. I did infact have plenty of dress up shirts, slacks and shoes in my suitcase, but I didn't wear them because my gal didn't have fancy clothes. The picture of us in the group photo, also shows a chubby guy on the left with hair on his face and my girlfriend is wearing denim shorts.  So I guess they're all slobs too. And by the way, the white shirt is Mossimo, shorts by Tony Hawk, and shoes by Vans. Another thread completely misunderstood....at least for some.         

[beulah]

I'm sure stnmasn knows the deal. If you got muscles rock them with a short sleeved collared Armani Exchange shirt. I don't wear pink, but I'm not afraid of color and I suggest you let the color be your "bling" in the club.
I urge everyone to get some fresh threads (with a collar) before traveling. Make sure your kicks are new looking too.
Guys if you are dating 10 or 12 years younger you need to dress 10 or 12 years younger.

Are you really that stupid?  I've got some pretty fair sized arms especially for an older guy but I wouldn't be caught dead or alive in some tight armani exchange shirt.  Are you really going to give fashion advise-bling- to guys now?  A collar is common sense when out at night meeting ladies.