Thanks Whitey and Ricardo and Hector yes I met my girl on Colombian Cupid. Also yes I have decided on Cali and at the moment I`m looking at fincas in the mountains to the west of Cali (Cordillera Ocidental). I'm checking out Kilometer 18, Pichinde, Felidia, La Paz, La Olga and Dapa. All of these are within about 45 minutes by car from Cali. Only thing is anything that has paved road going all the way to it is sky high but there are lots of great places with dirt road access. La Cumbre has a lot but it's too far. I'm looking for something with some land not just a small 3000 sq. meter lot.
Back to Providencia I forgot to mention that one of the most savory dishes at the reastaurant Donde Martin is Cangrejo Negro or Black Crab. It's terrestrial and lives in the mountains on the island only coming down to the sea to breed. When they do they cross certain points on the road that circles the island by the thousands and those sections are closed to traffic for a day or two to let them pass. I'm pretty sure it's unavailable on San Andres since that island has no mountains.