A Different Destination for a change - Ukraine

[aconcepts]

Jajaj jefferator, the thing is here in CR I can date myself! It is an asset! Maturity experience and confidence go along ways here.


Deficits in the US where women are looking for the man that parades around with his six pack like a tica prostitute and basically betrays his place as a male by acting like a vane bitch.


Is there any dignity in that, Women there want you guys to be their dancing elephants, entertainment. Like Chipindale strippers. That is what they value.


Many of you think its normal and compete against each other in that way, nauseating at best, Dignity lost...

[Bob_S]

Many of you think its normal and compete against each other in that way, nauseating at best, Dignity lost...

Who's this you you're talking about?  You forget your target audience here has for the most part opted out of that game and sought greener pastures.   

[fathertime]

Sorry to seem wishy washy ... in truth, I have been amazingly truthful, honest, consistent and firm.  BUT...
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You know over the last 72 hours I found my ball sack again.  (sorry ladies)  I looked at the situation clearly.  I looked at the play clock (I am leaving in a 4 days).  And, I walked. 

Guess what?   Extra innings.  Irina called and we just met.  I see a different woman now. She sees a different man. Actually, this began 3 days ago and continued at the family diner table.  I was a little too direct for Russian sensibilities?  Maybe we were posturing to see who was going to be the man in our new relationship?

I pretty much read a laundry list.  She answered line by line.  And, there ARE reasons for everything I saw lacking / perceived as difficult. She was accountable for what was correct.  Her feelings were physically obvious.  I was sad / surprised to see that some of the problems were, in fact, my own creation, others, a product of limited English.  (before all you guys start suggesting I am a puss ... she was rather AMAZINGLY forthcoming for a very prideful woman.  I really could not ask for more in that department)  Impossible to not see that she cares for me much much more deeply that I would have guessed. 

Bottom line is I have met a boat load of women, and none of them ever stopped my feet, eyes and heart.  I am not looking for a wife. I am looking for a special woman.  For such a woman, I would walk through hell.  She is the most special woman I have ever found.  I do not have that dizzy little boy feeling anymore.  It would be cowardly, and untrue to myself, to not explore this.  (could I pick a situation that could be any harder?)

jaja!  a young teenager in a whirlwind romance full of love & tears! 


good luck old boy...just do your part and let the chips fall where they may.


Fathertime! 

[Researcher]

     Good to hear Zonny and you are correct, if she is that special you have to follow thru. That was always my strategy and why I met many women. Out of the many a few would stand out so I went after them. Out of those one or two would be exceptional. Those were the ones I knew I had to go after. Worked for me.


       Researcher

[repoman]

mr zon

i hope you are enjoying your travels in the east. interesting to read your recent thought processes. evolution? de-evolution? who knows? that's for the sociologists to consider.

i would like to converse with you about some of your activities in s america. i tried to pm you through this forum, but it appears that function is either disabled globally or perhaps only for newbies like me.

my interest is off topic for this forum so i prefer to communicate with you through other channels. please contact me via jmadarietadc (@) gmail.

i hope it is not poor form to list my address on this reply. if so, my apologies to the moderator and other members.

again, my apologies to all for crashing the boards like this. 

joey

[aconcepts]

Boberator, there I go getting in trouble with that generic "you" again. I meant american men in general not really any one in particular and probably less so for those on this forum.


I will try to watch that but I write fast so things go unedited for the most part.


the opt out is a game/life changing move, no? jajaja

[Bob_S]

i would like to converse with you about some of your activities in s america. i tried to pm you through this forum, but it appears that function is either disabled globally or perhaps only for newbies like me.
i hope it is not poor form to list my address on this reply. if so, my apologies to the moderator and other members.

again, my apologies to all for crashing the boards like this. 

It's because you're a newbie.  Stick around and be involved, post some more, and more of these options open up to you.
You can start with an introduction.  Please go to the relevant Forum Introductions page (Latin or Asian, depending on your preference) and let us know who you are.  You don't need to get too personal if you don't like.

-Mod Bob

[Zon]

good luck old boy...just do your part and let the chips fall where they may.

BINGO.  There is nothing left to say.  With that one post, at this time, you erased any butthole comment that you may have said in the past:) 

I have really done a good job of being a real, sincere, "speak from the heart" kinda guy!  It was so much easier for me to be like "aconcepts"  HAHAHA

[Calipro]

BINGO.  There is nothing left to say.  With that one post, at this time, you erased any butthole comment that you may have said in the past:) 

I have really done a good job of being a real, sincere, "speak from the heart" kinda guy!  It was so much easier for me to be like "aconcepts"  HAHAHA

Noticed the photos you posted on facebook and your lady looks quite attractive.....seems she has a playful kind of goofy side to her or at least she comes off the way in the photos.....something that I wouldn't have expected as all the common in EE.....hear people don't even smile that much over there....any truth to it?


Don't want to put you on the spot but....how old is she if I might ask.

[aconcepts]

Zon - "E tu brute! Jajajaja


Yeah well, few men would rather know themselves and be who they are.


Most men would rather strive to be who others think they should be.


I have been genetically programmed to be uniquely myself.


I respect that! jajajajajaja

[Zon]

Noticed the photos you posted on facebook and your lady looks quite attractive.....seems she has a playful kind of goofy side to her or at least she comes off the way in the photos.....something that I wouldn't have expected as all the common in EE.....hear people don't even smile that much over there....any truth to it?
Don't want to put you on the spot but....how old is she if I might ask.

Hola Bro!

She is about the hottest looking 30 year old I have ever seen.  She's good.  We're good.  Going out to diner tonight.  She is very well mannered and internally sound (A fancy way of saying there is no way in hell she would put up with the crazy [snip] in my past)   I like being with her, Wayne.  I have been with my share of attractive women, but she is different.

We will see. I have never been married!   I was in a 10 year relationship, but it never felt right.  This one does, and it is damn early.

About Smiles - I thought Germany rocked!  Prague. stuck up.  Vienna. Stuck up. Bratislava - nice with few smiles   Kiev pretty hot   Kharkov - so many high heals and short skirts I did not look at faces.  Actually, no problem all good.  A variety of people.   I am in a smaller town now - like Armenia Colombia 300K   People are friendly for Ukraine.   Big  Fish Small Pond.   I probably have to put some time in here because that is where lightning struck for me.

[fathertime]

BINGO.  There is nothing left to say.  With that one post, at this time, you erased any butthole comment that you may have said in the past:) 

Thanks, now go git dat booty!   


Fathertime! 

[htown]

Zon should have his own reality show.

[Calipro]

Noticed the photos you posted on facebook and your lady looks quite attractive.....seems she has a playful kind of goofy side to her or at least she comes off the way in the photos.....something that I wouldn't have expected as all the common in EE.....hear people don't even smile that much over there....any truth to it?
Don't want to put you on the spot but....how old is she if I might ask.

Hola Bro!

She is about the hottest looking 30 year old I have ever seen.  She's good.  We're good.  Going out to diner tonight.  She is very well mannered and internally sound (A fancy way of saying there is no way in hell she would put up with the crazy [snip] in my past)   I like being with her, Wayne.  I have been with my share of attractive women, but she is different.

We will see. I have never been married!   I was in a 10 year relationship, but it never felt right.  This one does, and it is damn early.

About Smiles - I thought Germany rocked!  Prague. stuck up.  Vienna. Stuck up. Bratislava - nice with few smiles   Kiev pretty hot   Kharkov - so many high heals and short skirts I did not look at faces.  Actually, no problem all good.  A variety of people.   I am in a smaller town now - like Armenia Colombia 300K   People are friendly for Ukraine.   Big  Fish Small Pond.   I probably have to put some time in here because that is where lightning struck for me.

That's great....glad to see you finally found one that is hot....good in bed and is up for a philosophical debate from time to time. jajaja


I think I'm a bit easier to please....give me a hot latina that knocks my socks off ....and it really doesn't bother me if she has no idea what the hell she is going to be doing tomorrow or next week or even next month.


Jim and I are going to be terrorizing Cali for a couple of weeks straight....if you want to get your head out of the clouds and put your new found love in perspective you are more than welcome to come join us;-)

[Researcher]

Zon should have his own reality show.

Too late, there is already one called The Biggest Looser! hahaha! Just kidding.


       Researcher

[aconcepts]

"give me a hot latina that knocks my socks off ....and it really doesn't bother me if she has no idea what the hell she is going to be doing tomorrow or next week or even next month. "

My sentiments exactly!

Terrorizing Cali!

I wanna go! Sounds like too much fun...send me a mail cr4me1234@yahoo.com

Are there enough chicks to go around??? jejejeje...

[Zon]

That's great....glad to see you finally found one that is hot....good in bed and is up for a philosophical debate from time to time. jajaja


I think I'm a bit easier to please....give me a hot latina that knocks my socks off ....and it really doesn't bother me if she has no idea what the hell she is going to be doing tomorrow or next week or even next month.


Jim and I are going to be terrorizing Cali for a couple of weeks straight....if you want to get your head out of the clouds and put your new found love in perspective you are more than welcome to come join us;-)

Awww, the GOOD OLE DAYS ...


Thanks for the invite!  I talked to James a couple days ago (we keep in touch).  He was playing with the idea of hanging out here in Ukraine for a couple weeks with me.    Then, he started to see how complicated RW can be ... I think he is happy right where he is.


I'm all good Wayne!  I am going to be as good as I can be, and see where this all leads.  I AM A LITTLE BUMMED that lightning struck for me in a smaller city in Ukraine.  Think about it!  She is a good girl, family girl, country girl.  I am going to have to put some time on the ground here.  Learn a little Russian.  And, travel here - which is sort of like getting one's asskicked.  But, that is what I got to do to see where this leads me. 


I WANT TO GET BACK HOME AND GO TO WORK

[innerperson]

Noticed the photos you posted on facebook and your lady looks quite attractive.....seems she has a playful kind of goofy side to her or at least she comes off the way in the photos.....something that I wouldn't have expected as all the common in EE.....hear people don't even smile that much over there....any truth to it?

Ukraine people don't go around smiling to strangers.  It is strange behavior to them.  Once they know you it is a different story.   Women will loosen up once they feel comfortable.

[Zon]

there are a ton of attractive women here.   The men are brutish, and always do this stare down thing.  I got sort of over it a couple weeks ago, and just lock and stare right back - I HATE BULLIES


It is similar to Colombia!  Not a lot of trust outside the family / friends circle. Once your in, you see another side. 


I will be damned, but there is a HUGE negative steriotype with women hanging out with foreigners.  Less with European looking men - but the middle eastern / turkish - BAD. 


Basically, you go through this ENORMOUS cost and pain to get a shot at a perfect 10 with 1950 values - and brains - and willing to let the man lead the household.


I have met many good women in Ukraine (like potential wife material).  I have met few, very few party girls and the like.  The girls that do engage in pleasing and teasing are 6s - 7s ... not 10's.    These women have high self worth and shame.  So, it is not a good place for men that want a good time.

[davidgm50]

I am slightly confused, pages 1-5,  Zon has found the prefect woman, page 6 says he going back to Colombia, Page 7 says he still marrying planning on marrying the Ukraine woman?

[aconcepts]

DG - I am confused by your avatar info. No trips to colombia but your spouse is from colombia and you are still looking?
As for Zon... all I can say is - my dear zonny is like a box of chocolates! March on Mr Zon.... charge!!!!!! He is an in-training realty TV star!


Wish I was there checking it out. Long legged white chicks were my cup of tea - especially those Scandinavian stripper sisters. Man they set the bar high!

[Bob_S]

I am slightly confused, pages 1-5,  Zon has found the prefect woman, page 6 says he going back to Colombia, Page 7 says he still marrying planning on marrying the Ukraine woman?

Yeah, that's pretty much it.  That's the complexity of the Russian soul for you.  If you've ever read any Chekhov or Dostoyevsky, it was not come as a surprise.  I hope Zon has what it takes to see this through.

[Zon]

Quote from: davidgm50 on June 10, 2012, 05:01:00 PM
I am slightly confused, pages 1-5,  Zon has found the prefect woman, page 6 says he going back to Colombia, Page 7 says he still marrying planning on marrying the Ukraine woman?
Yeah, that's pretty much it.  That's the complexity of the Russian soul for you.  If you've ever read any Chekhov or Dostoyevsky, it was not come as a surprise.  I hope Zon has what it takes to see this through.

HAHAHA - I am still figuring it out.  It is going to take a while. This is the opposite of a one night stand. 


Reality TV Star .... I think I am going to move out of the spot light.  It's all yours AConcepts:)

[SkyNorth]

And the answer is...47.

[Researcher]

I am slightly confused, pages 1-5,  Zon has found the prefect woman, page 6 says he going back to Colombia, Page 7 says he still marrying planning on marrying the Ukraine woman?

Tune in next week for another episode.

Researcher