Prepago al Maximo

[Researcher]

I didn't catch where it was posted but Denns says this prepago is 31. I think I saw Benijo post that he's 31. This is the first time I've read about a guy seeking out a prepago his own age here.

 If a guy is 31 I could easily see that happen but if a guy is "long in the tooth"?.....well that's just gross!!!


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[dennislevy]

WHOA!!!!!
 
Benjio does NOT need me to defend him, but he didn t SEEK OUT out a pregpago
 
He met a beautiful attractive woman for drinks....the girl said that she was 31 on her dating site, (it s in Benjios first post of this thread)...
 
Based on what she told him DURING that date and a phone conversation when he had returned to the US , and what he reported to the board, most of us concluded that she very probably is a high end, long term prepago.
 
Benjio had it 99.9% figured out after the date.
 
Sometimes there isn t time to qualify on a dating site..and even for someone as direct as I can be.....that s a hard question to ask during an on line chat.
 
disculpeme, pero ¿eres prepago?
 
POR FAVOR!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
jejejejeje
 
 

[Researcher]

 Isn't the thread titled "Prepago al Maximo"? My Spanish isn't perfect but I figured out from the title this thread probably isn't about a Roman Emperor.....   

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[Micky]

BenJ -
 
Do what you do.  This "Liz" probably is just dying to get a taste of BenJs' chocolate bunny.  Don't listen to these knuckleheads.  For the good of international relations and this poor girls wants,  forget about your own selfishness and TCB.
 
Micky

[dennislevy]

Micky
 
It s WONDERFUL advice IF our friend Benjio could score a...FREEBIE!
 
jejejeje!!!!
 
Dennis

[Researcher]

BenJ -
 
Do what you do.  This "Liz" probably is just dying to get a taste of BenJs' chocolate bunny.  Don't listen to these knuckleheads.  For the good of international relations and this poor girls wants,  forget about your own selfishness and TCB.
 
Micky

  I agree with Micky not the knuckleheads!

[maritime04]

utlimately who cares, you meet up with a pretty girl for a drink, being that she is VERY pretty, and she has wonderfull lifestyle leads us to speculate allot of things and we will never know the whole truth.
 
besides her good looks does this person intrest you? if a normal looking girl said the things she has said to you would you run away and never look back? Allot of these women have looks that can kill, or leave a man wishing he was dead! they seem harmless but are anything but. anywaz good luck
 

[Zon]

It s WONDERFUL advice IF our friend Benji could score a...FREEBIE!

Who really wants a freebie?  Everything of rarity and value costs something - time, attention, money, creativity.   

There is dating and then there is DATING; and the difference is huge: "dating" is when you are having a hard time deciding if you should  call one of 5 girls to go to the movies, or go play pool with some buddies and smoke a cigar; "DATING" is when a woman captures your imagination and you can not stop thinking about her; so you plan extraordinary experiences to share. 

Depending on who you are, your tastes, and how much money (choices) you have, DATING can be very expensive.  But almost always cheaper than a failed mediocre marriage. (Now I am to the point where I wonder if it is possible to feel like your DATING when you are MARRIED?  For a lucky few yes, for most no.  That is my guess ).

=====  So, NO.  I do not want "freebies," generally speaking. I prefer quality or special in some shape of form.  BUT in every relationship, I want only that which is FREELY GIVEN. This is an important and subtle distinction that to me makes tons of difference =====

It seems to me that Benijo has his head on straight and is living the best he can "in the moment."

[JimD]

If a guy is 31 I could easily see that happen
   

I dunno...don't think I'd want a wizened old prepago of 31 no matter what my age.

[mudd]

i think she isnt a  real prepago per say,  but more of a  " long term".... " if you have the $$ and i like you, im yours until i get bored and find something better, or the money runs out"  prepago.
Either way, its never free, your either spending money, time or emotions on any girl your sleeping with.

[benjio]

I dunno...don't think I'd want a wizened old prepago of 31 no matter what my age.

Jim, I'm returning to Bogota for work in mid-December. I've made it a point to take a picture with this girl as I have some friends here in Houston I've been telling about her and they want to see what the big deal is. I will post a pic here as well. I think when you see her the age will be the furthest thing from your mind.
 
I can assure everyone here, I'm not coming off a dime. A few drinks here and there, possibly a meal. That's nothing to me. I eat alone too much in Bogota anyway...I'd enjoy the company for a change. But as far as paying for anything outside of the "guest for a night" charge for at the hotel...ain't happening! Regardless of what I suspect, she has yet to ask me for anything and I don't get the impression she's ever going to try. Now have we talked about sex? Yes, and she REALLY enjoys it. Do I want to sleep with her? HELL YES! And given the opportunity I will. Whether or not I'm going to ask, "So this is a freebie, right?" before the act if the occasion arises....are you all [snip]ing kidding me? What I can assure you is whatever happens in that regard will not be posted in a trip report.
 

Now that's all I have to say about that...   

-Forrest Gump

[Calipro]

THAT'S THE PLAN!!!! 

Drinks for two in your hotel bar with one of the hottest chicks you've ever met $54.95 including cab fare home with not so much as a peck on the lips.


Look on her face when she finally accepts your invitation to join Planet-Love and finds out you and your friends have labeled her a Prepago......Priceless!!!


Making up a bunch of excuses why you can't date a hot chick because you think you'll eventually get shot down (or used and abused) is acceptable self defeating behavior for this forum....but even though I have never met the women in question....I still feel compelled to defend this woman's honor in some way and tell most of you bozos that you are way out of line.


Besides aren't you guys supposed to be saving your woman bashing for the American chicks you have swore off as marriage material?

[Calipro]

Jim, I'm returning to Bogota for work in mid-December. I've made it a point to take a picture with this girl as I have some friends here in Houston I've been telling about her and they want to see what the big deal is. I will post a pic here as well. I think when you see her the age will be the furthest thing from your mind.
 
I can assure everyone here, I'm not coming off a dime. A few drinks here and there, possibly a meal. That's nothing to me. I eat alone too much in Bogota anyway...I'd enjoy the company for a change. But as far as paying for anything outside of the "guest for a night" charge for at the hotel...ain't happening! Regardless of what I suspect, she has yet to ask me for anything and I don't get the impression she's ever going to try. Now have we talked about sex? Yes, and she REALLY enjoys it. Do I want to sleep with her? HELL YES! And given the opportunity I will. Whether or not I'm going to ask, "So this is a freebie, right?" before the act if the occasion arises....are you all [snip]ing kidding me? What I can assure you is whatever happens in that regard will not be posted in a trip report.
 
Now that's all I have to say about that...   
-Forrest Gump

Great!!
Now we can put a face to the insults. jajaja


I hope like hell this woman joins here before she makes the terrible mistake of sleeping with you.

[Bob_S]

I dunno...don't think I'd want a wizened old prepago of 31 no matter what my age.

Do colombianas age that bad?  Babushka genes?   

[InnocentVixen]

prepago this, prepago that, I'm starting to feel like a prepago myself.


She doesn't believe in love and doesn't believe in being monogamous there for is not interested in marriage, doesn't need someone else money, doesn't need a visa, doesn't need plastic surgery, all this woman has admitted to need was interesting company and maybe sex...


I might not be a guy but even I can tell this is the dream girl of every fake wife hunter out there (the ones that say that they are looking for a wife but not serious about it)


I agree Benjio, she might not be a long term match for you, perhaps a friend, with or without benefits that's for you guys to decide. I still don't think any less of her, it's not often you find someone that sincere, specially in Colombia.

[dennislevy]

I used the word freebie and I think Benjio understood it exactly.
 
Normal dating expenses...no more. Drinks, meals, admisison tickets if you ask a woman to go somwhere with you, cabs if she s the cab with you, or she goes home after having been your guest in your hotel room, the hotel up charge for a guest in the room...
 
flowers or a thoughtful but ienexpensive gift.....There ARE men who think that a pair of $1400 Manolo Blahnik boots is inexpensive...I m not in that club and never was. 

THOSE are normal dating expenses, its not FREE, but the man is not being asked to or letting himself get manipulated into buyng expensive gifts or giving money for the woman s company in the hopes of haivng sex.
 
There is the question of taking a trip somewhere. If a woman expects me to fly someplace with her and pay for her plane ticket...and foot the bills......... BEFORE we have been lovers in whatever city we met....not gonna happen.
 
Getting back to Bejio s situation, I read his posts as that he was pretty sure she was a courtesan, he asked her to tell the story... she did on the phone and he was skeptical.....as he reported that conversation, I found a lot of her story very hard to believe.
 
Now quite often a colombiana will say Look, I have and I can buy my own things, I don t need a man to take care of me, etc.
 
It s a standard opening and a standard answer that is meant to project pride. Anyone who has any amount of experience in dating latinas has heard it. The question is.... does she really mean it?   
 
Calipro...
Its not a question of being afraid to or make exuses not to date as you call it a hot chick, its a question  of what a man is willinng to do to meet the expectations of a woman. Sometimes expectations are verbalized, quite often  they are not.
 
As  I recall from your posts of a few years ago ....you took young caleñas on shopping trips....and YOUR EXPECTATION WAS?
 
jejejejeje
 
 
     
 
 
 
 
 

[Calipro]

Calipro...
Its not a question of being afraid to or make exuses not to date as you call it a hot chick, its a question  of what a man is willinng to do to meet the expectations of a woman. Sometimes expectations are verbalized, quite often  they are not.
 
As  I recall from your posts of a few years ago ....you took young caleñas on shopping trips....and YOUR EXPECTATION WAS?
 
jejejejeje
 
 
     

From what I have read here....the woman has made no demands (verbal nor in sign language)...jajaja
The only expectations that I can see the woman having is that she obviously wanted a guy that was emotionally and physically available and benijo got so bent out of shape after seeing her photos that he thought he might have to buy her a car or something just to make her happy. LOL!!!

Claims that I made posts about taking young calenas on shopping trips is just you confusing me with yourself or some other poor sap.

I have made numerous posts about Rule # 1....never buy anything of any real value for a Colombiana unless you have slept with her a number of times before hand.

As for the chicks that I have actually bought things for......well.....they met my expectations long before I ever spent a dime on them. jejejeje

[dennislevy]

Calipro et al.
 
If I understand  Benjio s post.....the woman told Benjio about gifts that other men had bought her....a straight colombiana who is 31 does NOT talk about things that OTHER men have bought her WHEN she has a date with a man.
 
I interpreted it as setting an expectation. The implcation is.....if you want to go out with me and we do sleep together, you are going to have to be generous.....
 
The woman also told Benjio that she was wondering why he would ask all those questions, if they were just AMIGOS 
 
A woman saying that to a man is so nebulous and can mean a lot of different things..the only two versions of AMIGOS I find acceptable are...
 
1. it never was a relationship, or its now a platonic friendship. We ll chat on line from time to time and maybe wel ll see each other from time to time, and if we see each other I ll spring for the coffee or a lunch. The only exception I make  is with my ex novia in Medlelin with whom I chat with frequently, and when Im in Medlelin I see a lot of her.
2. Or we ll be friends with rights...amigos con derechos!
 
 
Calipro, my apologies, but I certainly didn t get me mixed up with you ..I never even looked cross eyed at a teenaged caleña, much less dated one, much less.....jejejeje

Dennis
 
 
 
   

[Calipro]

Damn Dennis

I can see you made a post from the Home page but when I go to the forum page it doesn't show up.

Does someone have to approve your post before it shows up...as part of your moderated status?

Or is it more like they send you to your room for a time out after each post and it pops up after a given amount of time.

jejejeje

Anyway I can't wait to hear what else you are going tell people that I posted about in the past ....but I gotta go.

This approval process is just taking too long. LOL !!!

[sticky2]

My last trip to Bogota (about 3 years ago, I was 32), I went to a marriage agency and was set up on several dates.


For one of the girls, I told the agency to have her meet me at my hotel bar for a drink.  That particular "date" was very similar to Benjio's story.  She came into the lobby and I was blown away.  At the agency, some of the girls I had just put on my list because their picture was beautiful, but I guess I didn't see this coming.


Anyway, she was in her early 20's, and could very well have been one of the hottest girls I've ever been on a date with.  She also busted out an iPhone, and this was when they first came out, so I don't know if it was an "unlocked" iPhone or whatever, but immediately I was thinking that she must be a prepago.


Then, as the date went on, I asked her what she did for work.  She told me that she was a TV actress.  She played a nurse on some TV show.  Later, I was able to search her name and find pictures with her along with all of the other cast members and info about the TV show.  I didn't dedicate a lot of time and energy researching this TV show, but my impression was that her role was probably a small one.  I can't remember her name or even the name of the TV show now.


Anyway, the date went pretty well, and she actually seemed even a little interested.  At the end of the date, I walked her out to the street and asked the door guy to grab a cab.  I was able to get a short sort of "make-out" kiss from her, then I put her in the cab and asked the driver for a guess on how much for where she was going.  It immediately became awkward, and then of course he didn't have the right change for the size of bills I had.  I could tell the girl was becoming embarrassed, and she started to say it was ok and she could take care of it.


Well, I never heard from her again.  I called her once 2 days later and she didn't answer, so I sent her a text asking if she wanted to get together again, but I didn't get any response. Not sure if she just wasn't interested, or if it was the embarrassing moment with the taxi driver, maybe both.  To be honest, she was just out of my league, even in Colombia.


Whatever the issue was, I was so excited that I had a "date" and even a little make-out session with a TV actress in colombia.  From what I understand about Colombia, the TV actresses are also fair game in the world of prepagos.  They just come at a higher price.  Maybe she was, maybe she wasn't, but I don't know what a TV actress would be doing as a member of a marriage agency in Bogota.


Sticky

[Zon]

Drinks for two in your hotel bar with one of the hottest chicks you've ever met $54.95 including cab fare home with not so much as a peck on the lips. The look on her face when she finally accepts your invitation to join Planet-Love and finds out you and your friends have labeled her a Prepago......Priceless!!!

Laughing my A$$ off - I hope for Benijo's sake, she goes to the Asian, Russian Forum, gets bored and leaves.

[Ray]

I've made it a point to take a picture with this girl as I have some friends here in Houston I've been telling about her and they want to see what the big deal is. I will post a pic here as well.
 
Do I want to sleep with her? HELL YES! And given the opportunity I will… What I can assure you is whatever happens in that regard will not be posted in a trip report.

　
Are you serious??
　
After all the trash-talking here about this woman, now you want to post her picture on an open Internet forum so the whole world can see who we are gossiping about?
　
I think we all get the picture without a photo. Before you violate her privacy further by posting her pic, why don’t you let her come here and read all the comments about her first and then she can post her own photo if she wishes to.
　
At least I’ll give you credit for refusing to report publicly on your sexual "conquests", as at least one other member feels compelled to do… 
　
Ray
　

[sticky2]

Awwwwweeeeee maaannn RAAAYYYY..... REALLY?  Don't screw this up for us.  Everybody except you wants to see her picture!


Sticky

[maritime04]

I have to agree with Dennis about drawing the same conclusions ……………………he used a more old fashion and polite word. When dealing with people we all presume this or that, draw conclusions especially when confronted with a new women in our lives, it’s normal in every day encounters, now take this to the next level, add in Colombia, and dating website and go even further…………
Ben!!! How can you take us this far and not share the end results……………………………….Why even have this conversation in the first place. Big TEASE to not inform us of the end result of all this chatter!
Innocent Vixen We are all prostitutes in some form or another, at work or in play. Nobody is judging WE ARE LABELING, calling a spade a spade………………… YES MANY MEN would love to meet an interesting, sexy girl with all the money in the world for no strings attached sex and fun, that is a FANTASY or mirage because things change, either your emotions change and your no strings attached relationship winds up choking itself or you get bored and loose interest, or she does and the END OF THAT it was fun while it lasted…………………………………………………………………………………………………………….
I do not know if posting a picture is crossing the line, especially for a women who choose to put herself on an international dating website, She choose to post pictures of herself and create a profile for the world to see, you have to take responsibility that your photos may be copied and your information shared it comes with the game, that’s why I have difficulty believing someone of her looks, and wealth is doing all this because they are lonely, and looking for interesting company to pass the time…………………..
That’s where I agree with denies in drawing some conclusions, the only person who can give us real information is Benjio because he is on the ground where the “metal meets the meat” so to say. But benjio admits he doesn’t know this girl very well, and has had only one date so far and a few phone conversations, he basically asked us for our opinions about this girl, so we all chimed in. Can a very attractive wealthy women fall in love with a man of lesser means in looks and money, SURE it’s possible. But that’s not what we are talking about here.
Sticky we have all been there, its COLOMBIA. Personally been there MANY times, and you’re left self reflecting and drawing conclusions about this or that when it’s just better to continue along as planned
Get over it!! we all try to court favor especially when the ladies are concerned either in our physical shape and appearance, our clothes, our cars, and salsa lessons. We learned to take a lady out to dinner and strike up interesting conversations, we buy flowers, and small gifts and act like a gentlemen in order to appease our wives and girlfriends or get laid. It’s the norm.

[Bob_S]

Just keep it in the Gallery section which is Members Only so at least she'll have some privacy.